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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 1:37:11 PM
#326
cuttin_in_farm posted...
Lol were done here.

Done before you started, actually. I'll admit tho, I did get a kick watching you go from your "iT's CaLlEd ChIlD sUpPoRt NoT pArEnT sUpPoRt" zinger to unironically claiming we should minimize the support a child receives so their parent only shoulders the minimum financial burden feasibly possible

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 12:36:10 PM
#321
cuttin_in_farm posted...


But theres no cap on this? You say childs needs. Obviously that varies on several factors, but the mere fact theres no cap already brings up an issue. Like, you can make too much money for government aid. Or your parents can make too much money for financial aid for school. So a precedent for you make enough. No more help is already there for other things. Why not child support?

Financial aid is a means tested form of state provided welfare. Child support is a legal mandate outlining an individual's minimum level of responsibility for their own children. Being a rich parent doesn't absolve you of that responsibility

cuttin_in_farm posted...


I would like to change the last sentence if true. Nevermind what someone being able to provide is ultimately subjective. I thought the whole reason child support is even a thing is so that single parents dont get screwed in the ability to support their child (please correct me if Im incorrect). If they can support their child just fine after a certain amount of aid, why can they continue to receive more child support?

It is subjective. Which is why each case is decided in court individually, rather than your "lul jus charge a flat fee" idea. And no, as much as you think "support" should mean "just fine", the best interests of the child, the state, and society in general means maximizing the child's well-being relative to their parents ability to pay. It doesn't lie in letting kids scrape by with the bare minimum so that daddy can spend his money watches in clothes instead of paying for his kid since he's making more money than he was 10 years ago
cuttin_in_farm posted...


This isnt a two conclusion issue. Youre ignoring the wide array of situations where the guy is struggling because of child support, while the child would be fine with even a minor decrease to his contribution. This strawman is disingenuous or had little thought in its creation.

No. It's a one conclusion issue. It's about the best interests of the child. Period. Not about minimizing the financial responsibility of the parent so that they can keep feeding their kid a diet of bread and water so they aren't forced to provide their kid the better outcomes their higher level of income affords them.

cuttin_in_farm posted...
Please stop being condescending.

then engage with the arguments instead of accusing me of not responding to you

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 12:07:54 PM
#317
cuttin_in_farm posted...
Respond to any of these please. You keep bringing up one point in my posts and attacking it when I dont really give a shit about rich dudes. Their well being isnt the point.

My post addresses all of these. if you need me to make it even simpler let me break it down for and spell it out in as easy to understand terms as I can.

1:Child support payments are based on the child's needs and how able you are to meet those needs. If you have a greater financial ability, guess what? You'll be expected to make a greater contribution to the child's well-being.

2:Child support payments are not meant to be insignificant financial burden for the parent. Supporting a child is a serious personal and financial responsibility. Child support decisions are not made with the priority to protect the parent from experiencing any economic impact on their personal finances. The priority is to provide the maximum benefit to the child possible that the parent is reasonably able to provide.

If you think a poor parent is having their income "siphoned" unfairly and that transaction is a major hardship to them, imagine how much more hardship the "leeches" you call children face on their end of the transaction. Yes, being poor in america is a horrorshow. But even in countries with better social programs and lower levels of poverty, parents are STILL expected to take financial responsibility for their kids.

Now, lemme know if you need me to spell it out even further for you

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 11:40:14 AM
#314
cuttin_in_farm posted...
Geez, yall are hostile.

All Im suggesting is that more factors should be considered than what the guy makes. Because as it stands, child support has a negative stigma as women taking advantage of men. Which is unfortunately true sometimes. Its more about the parents than the kid.

And I dunno if you read my post, but the leeching is when the money taken for the child support changes over time because of the guys income. If its determined what the guy is contributing is enough for the five year old, why does it go up when the guy gets a pay increase?

I dont have the exact number, but celebrities pay annual salaries to women for child support. That seems ridiculously unnecessary.

If the woman is well off, and can financially support herself (while having disposable income still), she shouldnt get anything.

I never claimed anything is pro-poor. Poor people already get screwed in general. Thats the whole downside of being poor. But having them always have the same percentage of their income siphoned definitely doesnt help.

Child support payments are based on what a court decides are in the best interests of the child, and the ability of the parent paying child support to pay. It is not and should not be based on accommodating wealthy men who think it's unfair they have to pay money to support their child if the mother isn't destitute.

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TopicMinnesota PD issues statement on arrest of CNN crew
Frolex
05/29/20 11:34:18 AM
#6
It's a good point, they really needed a mob of riot cops arrest the whole crew to make sure they were media. The camera crew, press badge, them having cleared their presence with the police beforehand, and the police being within earshot of the reporter as he was making his report on camera were all too ambiguous.

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TopicIt's weird that Rockstar stopped using celebrities in GTA games
Frolex
05/29/20 11:25:22 AM
#11
Games in general (with the exception of Kojima) have started to shift away from getting a-listers to voice characters, for a number of reasons. They cost significantly more, they have stage or screen experience but less VO or performance capture/mocap experience (and all are disciplines that stress different skill sets for an actor), and video game acting and actors who specialize in it are gaining more recognition on their own merits. What this adds up to is that hiring an a-lister costs a lot more for a return that's at either only just as good or worse than hiring someone with less mainstream recognition, and it just doesn't confer as much prestige to a game among players as it once did (or as we once pretended it did)

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:54:39 AM
#311
haloiscoolisbak posted...
Meh, I barely have enough money to afford my own food and rent so whatever. Dog eat dog world I guess

dog eat dog world is at least a semi-honest justification for your desire to punish women and children so that you can shield men from responsibility. a more honest justification is that you personally are only concerned for yourself, but we're making progress

cuttin_in_farm posted...
Im like.... 90% sure the issue with child support is that its seemingly proportional to the guys income. Not that theyre forced to pay.

That seems like leeching. There should be a fixed amount decided based on the womans income and state, and thats that. But women shouldnt be getting enormous amounts of money because they had a baby from a rich or wealthy guy. Likewise, a guy of poor economic status shouldnt be fucked for 18 years whenever he gets a boost in income.

Like. If a woman doesnt need financial help, why would the guy still have to pay? Its child support. Not parent support :/

Strange to advocate for what is essentially a flat tax on child-rearing and somehow try to spin it as pro poor, when it necessarily "leeches" more from them than it does from the rich. Almost as strange as trying to paint "supporting the financial needs of the your child" as "leeching" really.

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:39:31 AM
#307
haloiscoolisbak posted...
See that's 2 things. I just want power over 1(the right to be a deadbeat dad ideally)

The right to let the mother and child languish after you you fail to force the mother into abortion is indeed just one thing

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:32:33 AM
#303
haloiscoolisbak posted...
Yeah I know, that's why if I was a women I'd go full Lena Dunham and proudly abort dat shit

not even Lena Dunham believes in the dichotomy of "deadbeat dad" or "forced abortion"

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:28:10 AM
#301
haloiscoolisbak posted...
When you used a condom it hurts that little bit extra though

imagine how much more it hurts to raise a child with a deadbeat dad

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:25:17 AM
#298
haloiscoolisbak posted...
If you do, and you're as willing to potentially dish out lifelong CS payments to a girl you've dated a couple of months as you say you are then I guess you won't feel too bad about it if you ever have to face it

yeah, paying child support is some fantastic and twisted freak occurrence rather a totally normal thing millions of people already do.

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:18:31 AM
#296
haloiscoolisbak posted...
Whatever. If you think men should feel powerless in this situation I won't argue.

I don't think women should be allowed to force women to have an abortion either. Stop projecting your obsession with gendering the issue on me.

haloiscoolisbak posted...
It wasn't a nice feeling though and I hope you don't go through it

fortunately, barring significant developments in medicine, I don't think I'll ever have to worry about someone trying to force me to get an abortion

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:13:34 AM
#294
haloiscoolisbak posted...
I have a problem with the financial side of the law in its current form

The financial side of not letting men force women into abortions, yes we know

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:11:27 AM
#292
haloiscoolisbak posted...
Yeah I agree that is the current law. And I think it's a dumb law

So then you do have a problem with women not getting abortions. Why would you lie to me like this?

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:09:28 AM
#289
haloiscoolisbak posted...


I truly, honestly don't.

Great, glad you agree children of mothers who didn't have an abortion are still the legal and financial responsibility of both parents, even if the father doesn't like that fact

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 10:00:53 AM
#285
haloiscoolisbak posted...
And you think men should be chained to supporting a child that they don't want no matter the circumstances (and sorry I do consider being against abortion for religious reasons total bullshit)

Nope, both parents have an equal responsibility to their child. Our difference here is you believe women have the responsibility to acquiesce to a man's demand for an abortion

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 9:55:29 AM
#282
haloiscoolisbak posted...


I'm standing up for the opposing view, in this thread, arguing against you and that other guy earlier. He and you are 100% obsessed with shielding women or whatever, whatever you can call my view I guess I call yours the opposite.

Like you would know if anyone had ever taught you to read, the only people i care about "shielding" in this situation are the children. If a woman wants to be delinquent on her child support payments, the state should step in too. You on the other hand believe that women deserve to languish if they don't let their partner force them into an abortion

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TopicAlright, who gave the official White House Twitter password to Trump?
Frolex
05/29/20 9:47:05 AM
#5
literally logged on to an alt to repost a modded message. there are trolls here with more maturity

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 9:43:56 AM
#279
haloiscoolisbak posted...
so you acknowledge it's one or the other - great. someone has to lose out here. biology isnt fair or whatever was the buzzphrase a few pages back.

No, it's not one or the other, it's about the child. Full stop. You're just obsessed with shielding men, and only men, from responsibility because in your world a woman not having an abortion is irresponsible.

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 9:36:16 AM
#276
haloiscoolisbak posted...
i don't know it was meant to be a parody of your stupid spin on things - i guess my intention was implying young males living in impoverished communities shouldn't be chained to a child support payment if they wanted female x to get an abortion but female x was scared of abortions for religious reason or something.

men in impoverished communities shouldn't be "chained" to feeding their kid, but women and children in impoverished should instead be chained to languishing under a deadbeat dad because you don't like women's reasons for not pursuing abortion. yeah, why would anyone accuse you of having weird attitudes towards women.

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 9:25:51 AM
#272
haloiscoolisbak posted...
What a spin on this - how about I spin it to bankrupting minorities who don't have easy access to contraception?

What do you mean? You're already saying this is what should be done to women who don't have abortions.

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 9:21:18 AM
#270
Nah, I might actually find your position on child starvation weirder if you had trolled about murder instead.

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 9:14:59 AM
#268
It would be strange to see someone try to spin the law requiring you not to let your child starve into the state "punishing" someone for having sex. It would be strange if that person didn't also troll about rape.

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TopicHoly fuck some CNN news person just got arrested during dose protests
Frolex
05/29/20 9:08:05 AM
#91
-White cop murders black man on camera in full view of crowd of witnesses: DA holds live press conference as the city burns explaining he will not be arrested for his crime

-Black journalist providing pro police coverage on protests captured on live video and audio feed following all officers instructions and fully complying with the law: arrested along with his entire production crew before he even has time to finish his report

Police:"LOL Y PPPL SAY WE HAB DA RASE PRABLM THO?"

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 5:37:41 AM
#242
oh wait i remember now, you're the one who got modded for making that shit topic about how you were skeptical whether rape existed. nevermind, no need for the translator anymore

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 5:35:07 AM
#237
haloiscoolisbak posted...
don't pretend you hold the progressive view you pro-lifer

anyone got a shitpost-to-english translator to run this through?

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 5:05:54 AM
#215
Tenlaar posted...
It objectively is not. How many men in the country are delinquent on and fighting against making child support payments? How many women could tell you stories about being fucked over by the child support system?

guess what: women can be delinquent on child support payments too. still has nothing to do with their abortion rights

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 5:04:09 AM
#213
Seriously, when am I getting hooked up with my blind dog, it's the same thing as gay marriage when you think about it

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 5:00:37 AM
#207
Tenlaar posted...
Whether you like it or, not saying "men have the same right to an abortion that women have" is the same level of stupid bullshit argument as "gay men have the right to marry any woman they want too!"

If you don't like it, I suggest that you stop using such terrible arguments.

Tenlaar posted...
Oh, well since you said I'm wrong I'm totally convinced now, good job.

:^)

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 4:55:13 AM
#202
Tenlaar posted...
You mean kind of like how gay people had the same right to marry people of the opposite sex that everybody else had? I guess they shouldn't have been complaining since they had equal rights, just not the same rights, according to your "logic" here.

Marriage, it's process, it's institution, and legal protections applies equally to both men and women. Find a way to "logic" yourself into proving the same is true for abortion and men.

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 4:48:31 AM
#198
Men and women have equal rights when it comes to abortion. That doesn't mean they necessarily have the same rights. The instant a man gets pregnant, he'll have just as much right to decide whether or not he gets an abortion and the woman will have the exact same right to make that decision for him. Abortion rights only apply to people that can actually have abortions. Saying that's unfair makes about as much sense as complaining that only blind people get seeing-eye dogs. It's the kind of child's understanding of the world that says we need to give seeing people blind-eye dogs to make up for society's protection of the rights of blind.

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TopicCop Explains How It Feels To Live Every Day In Fear...
Frolex
05/29/20 3:28:13 AM
#1
TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 3:18:45 AM
#181
dave_is_slick posted...
...wow

problem?

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TopicIf men have no legal say in if women keeps baby, should they HAVE to pay C.S.?
Frolex
05/29/20 2:57:05 AM
#175
NinjaBreakfast posted...
How did this stupid ass topic get 150+ posts

Because "I as a man have the moral right to 'financially abort'" is about as popular of an internet circlejerk as "black people are moral failures because of absent fathers"

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Topicthis fish really like booty
Frolex
05/29/20 1:27:21 AM
#4
TopicAnother protest starting in Kentucky for a black woman murdered by police
Frolex
05/29/20 12:42:12 AM
#8
gamepimp12 posted...
The fact that Im not sure if this was the trans man that the police killed, or someone else they killed this week is a problem

I'm pretty sure this is the woman that got murdered in her home when the police executed a no-knock raid on the wrong house looking for a suspect that they already had in custody

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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/29/20 12:36:25 AM
#41
CloneTheHero posted...


think about the ce board. their leanings are pretty far left. anything they dont agree with is trolling. your rhetoric indicates youre on that same side. that or youre just some contrarian sweatie. you do read archives afterall lol

sad

You'll be happy to know "the ce board" isn't who decides which posts gets moderated

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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/29/20 12:31:17 AM
#38
CloneTheHero posted...


you tried to imply that you could read lol

clearly twisted my argument to suit your narrative. nice try buddy

I didn't have to twist your argument, whoever decided to put you in the naughty corner for spreading conspiracy theories did that without any help from me.

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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/29/20 12:28:55 AM
#35
CloneTheHero posted...
im not. i spread enough half truths and bald-faced lies about my personal life on gfaqs that id tie you in a knot trying to figure me out.

I mean, that much was clear when you tried to imply you had anything more than a 3 inch vertical lol

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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/29/20 12:19:41 AM
#31
Bro, if you're really this embarrassed about having your posts archived you can ask them nicely to remove your posts from the site for you. having as much of your presence removed from the internet as possible is a win-win for us all

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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/29/20 12:09:09 AM
#29
CloneTheHero posted...
never said they were using it as a ploy. i implied that that was likely the reason why.

"It's not a conspiracy theory. It's just a theory I have about a conspiracy."
CloneTheHero posted...
dunking on you = meltdown HAHAHAHAAH ok. ill let you believe that.

you entertain me. go on..

Found a pic of your dunk attempt:


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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/29/20 12:03:54 AM
#26
CloneTheHero posted...
@Frolex

go back to reading your achives buddy. you clearly cant handle the heat. see yourself out.

and miss out on this meltdown of yours? why would I deprive myself of that?

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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/29/20 12:02:32 AM
#25
CloneTheHero posted...
again, its not conspiracy its fact. feel free to fact check this.

where's the facts that prove democrats are facilitating voter fraud exactly?

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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/28/20 11:57:29 PM
#22
maybe you should have intuitively known posting conspiracy theories and then lying about it was a bad idea if you were going to get this butthurt over it

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TopicYou wake up to see alt right icon doja cat squatting over you
Frolex
05/28/20 11:54:35 PM
#2
bury my face in some self-loathing booty

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TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/28/20 11:48:52 PM
#19
CloneTheHero posted...
thats not trolling. now i know who snitched on a none TOS violation. thank you and marked

didn't see that topic when it was still up, just checked the archived version on that site because I knew you were lying. thanks for confirming my intuition and also confirming your own snitching tho lol

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TopicThick thighs save lives
Frolex
05/28/20 10:53:38 PM
#2
TopicDisputed moderation hoping to get more information on how it was against the ToS
Frolex
05/28/20 10:30:39 PM
#15
CloneTheHero posted...
i got warned on sunday for 'trolling' after supporting voter ID. lol. my mod is clearly intolerant

You got warned for claiming opposition to voter ID was a democrat ploy to get undocumented immigrants to vote

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TopicSo if a coloured cop kills a white woman, no riots?
Frolex
05/28/20 4:02:33 AM
#6
boxington posted...
"coloured"

UnholyMudcrab posted...
Get off the internet, grandpa


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TopicThis board is to aggressive these days
Frolex
05/27/20 5:45:38 AM
#25
it was always pretty aggressive. more of the anger was just funneled towards topics like music or CE clique/e-relationship drama

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