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TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/07/20 4:14:12 PM
#286
joe40001 posted...
Ok but just saying "it was hopeless to reach her through communication" doesn't mean it was so.

Fair enough, that's true. It's not that it was completely hopeless. It's just that you can't expect people to take the most compassionate, reasonable stance. Not anymore. People are gonna have to start meeting each other halfway. When you cross the line like she did, you may expect some retaliation, unfortunately. That's just the times we live in, and we're all guilty, one way or another.
TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/06/20 2:54:58 PM
#284
joe40001 posted...
You simply argued that her mind couldn't be changed, I don't really think we concluded that in any meaningful way.

It's taxing times, like I said I have sympathy for frustration, but again that is a far cry from proving it was hopeless to reach her through communication, or that ruining her life was productive.

No, that's not exactly what I argued.

We don't have to "prove" anything at this point. This is not a criminal case.
TopicI would post a very very hot kpop girl on here
closetjpopfan
06/06/20 2:31:49 PM
#4
Just out of curiosity who is this hot Kpop girl of your choice, here? I'm a Kpop fan. Not to mention a hot girl fan.

I'm currently out on parole from horny jail but yolo
Topic'Murican Racist Drew Brees apologizes for being a racist moron
closetjpopfan
06/06/20 1:10:22 PM
#305
shockthemonkey posted...
Who knows. There was some troll video where some black dude asked white people to kneel claiming to be a high ranking member of the Black Lives Matters Company (obvious bullshit). CE acted weird as hell about it without anyone involved sounding smarter than a rock.

I'm telling you once you have to make up enough conspiracy theories, once you have demonized the other side enough, you go crazy. The brain can only take so much dissonance before your mind truly gets as twisted and warped as your view of the world.
Topic'Murican Racist Drew Brees apologizes for being a racist moron
closetjpopfan
06/06/20 1:07:58 PM
#304
shockthemonkey posted...


Now this is a real apology that shows education and a desire to move forward in a way where hes not centering his feelings towards a flag over the lives of black folks. Good on Brees.

Now we're talking.

I'm sure he's a great guy, I have no doubt. It's not his intentions, his good will that's the problem. You can call it "reeducation" or whatever you want. When you're wrong you recognize it, you admit it, and you change.
Topic'Murican Racist Drew Brees apologizes for being a racist moron
closetjpopfan
06/06/20 1:02:14 PM
#302
scorpion41 posted...


Black people making whites kneel and renounce their whiteness.

What the fucking FUCK. How do you "renounce your whiteness" if you take a knee? What the fuck does that even MEAN.
TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/06/20 12:23:51 PM
#280
joe40001 posted...
Even though I just posted a video about how several much older KKK members had their mind changed with just talk.

Right. We went over this.
TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/06/20 12:22:11 PM
#278
Again, her life was already ruined. And there was no changing it with just talk.

edit I should say there was precious little chance of changing it with just talk.
Topicitz a K-pop topic!
closetjpopfan
06/05/20 2:09:11 PM
#319
Touch posted...
Brooooo I'm telling you! If you love their new, more mature sound, you're gonna absolutely love the whole album! I can't stress this enough!!!!!

Alrighty then lol, you convinced me.

Mmm pretty good, even the regular Twice tracks. Besides M&M I like Firework, Shadow and Don't Call Me Again. DCMA specially got me shook, now I really want Twice to do a title song like this! I wanna see them fierce, mrowr.
TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/05/20 11:44:56 AM
#276
joe40001 posted...
I totally understand the "I've lost my patience for civil conversation" with people like this. I get there too sometime. I can understand giving up out of frustration. But I think ultimately that's what is being chosen to be done.

I support the protests, I think stuff like that is good and helps us keep the ability to communicate civilly. We do need to make voices heard in this way.

I'm still not on board with the mob justice doxxing and stuff, I understand your frustration and share it, particularly at this time. But I still haven't changed my mind about this not being the most constructive.

Yes but again I think we agree fundamentally. We're just giving more weight to different factors. It is a choice, and sometimes things start getting grey and there's no completely right or wrong choice, or at least none that we can easily discern. The best policy is never to let things get to this point. But often that requires people to make prior choices they don't want to do. It's paramount for a civil society to not always think of you and those like you, we have to work together. Again ironic I know, advocating working together in this situation. But like I said there's a time for everything. What happens here is that talk was already tried and already failed. It happens. There are clear reasons why it happens. Always target the reasons that cause talk to fail.
TopicAre the riots necessary?
closetjpopfan
06/04/20 1:04:08 PM
#158
But wait... what if the child dies from being shot. Or worse, what if it's the police that accidentally kills them. Would that not be good enough then?
TopicAre the riots necessary?
closetjpopfan
06/04/20 12:42:39 PM
#157
Austin_Era_II posted...
I would like a view from a black person who's middle class maybe even upper middle class on how they would feel if rioters were going to destroy their place. Would they be okay with it since it's for the greater good or would they be upset their place got burnt. Or better yet maybe even their small business which employees a few people.

Wouldn't you rather have a child die and ask the parents? We could wait for that, too, if it suits your point better.
TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/04/20 12:38:41 PM
#272
joe40001 posted...
I just fundamentally disagree. Speech and dialogue is how you change minds. Cynicism, mob justice, doxxing and bullying makes things worse.

Active KKK members have changed just through talking, this guy IMO does the best job explaining my overall outlook:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORp3q1Oaezw

Lets be honest, most people in this topic are just taking pleasure in seeing an ignorant person suffer, it isn't about what is prudent or constructive. I think if we start from a place where we are honest about that we can have a more productive conversation about this whole thing.

Nah. I figured you were going to use an example like Daryl Davis, in fact that's just who I thought of.

Like I said, I completely understand your point of view and in fact I wholeheartedly agree. But there comes a point, again most sadly, when we just can't depend and wait for enough Daryl Davises, much less ourselves, to solve the conflict. That time has long passed. So while yes, of course there can still be instances of reasonable resolution, and they're always preferable, and people should give them a try as much as they can, but it's not fair to anybody to rely on them. Not anymore. That's just the tragic circumstances we've reached. People have to still be willing to listen for dialogue to work. At some point, they close themselves off, and just dialogue doesn't work anymore. It will be unfair yes, because some people who might have been willing to listen will get treated like those who aren't. That's the saddest part.

And yes maybe some people don't care about the big picture and they're just petty. There's always that, too. The difference is that now they are the ones with the edge of reason. So yeah maybe we could still talk to people instead of just condemning them. But we don't want to wait until the situation becomes such that it is OBVIOUS that we can't reason with them anymore. The worse it gets, the harder it will be. History teaches that. So ironically, while we still have the option of talking to them, let's not, so that we can keep that option .
Topicitz a K-pop topic!
closetjpopfan
06/03/20 4:48:52 PM
#314
I liked the "more more more" part instantly, works great. Overall I'm very pleasantly surprised, I thought they'd be going back to their old form by now but this is the most different sound I've ever heard from Twice and in many ways the closest to the style I prefer, for me much more enjoyable than most of their songs, I applaud them. The whole thing is perfectly smooth, the breaks, everything makes sense but still keeps you interested throughout. Yeah this is their best song in a while for me, they keep moving in the right direction after Fancy and Feel Special. Maybe I should listen to the whole album!
TopicWendy's, Taco Bell, and Pizza hut are being cancelled for donating to Trump.
closetjpopfan
06/03/20 3:54:51 PM
#119
Blue_Target posted...
https://twitter.com/tacobell/status/1267917914734116864

So Taco Bell is innocent. Everybody needs to apologize to the Chihuahua.

How big should our apology be?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvTFOXn46o0

I will never stop loving that joke.
TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/03/20 2:43:21 PM
#266
epik_fail1 posted...
I think if she shows that she can change a few years from now. It would be legit to give her a 2nd chance, but that comment is way too disgusting to make me feel bad about her right now. That said. I just think it's ridiculous that so many people think people cannot change. However I do believe her second chance should come later in life. Not now and seriously of all people Zoomer should be the ones that know people will ruin your life if you post crap like that.

People can change, absolutely. She's still young, she still has her whole life ahead of her. But it can't be the life that she was leading. It can't. For everyone's sake including her own, it can't.
TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/03/20 2:41:02 PM
#265
joe40001 posted...
It's words and ideas though, shitty dumb words and ideas, but mob justice trying to ruin her life doesn't help anything.

Argue with her, stop being friends with her, fight her dumb words with smart words, but trying to ruin her life isn't productive. It's just purely motivated by schadenfreude masquerading as righteousness

You don't change minds by being punitive to people who think or say the wrong things, you just punish the honest among the bigots. You still entrench the bigotry, and you end up getting people who learn not to say this shit in public but still vote to empower people who would actually do horrible and bigoted things.

joe40001 posted...
She didn't "know the consequences". There is no evidence that she assumed posting that was going to destroy her life. And her words aren't why we have riots, horrible actions are why we have riots. Mob justice against people like her is why we have Trump, and Trump is why we have such a shit country. So no I don't think empowering that justice helps things.

Again, I think this is much more of people being (justifiably) angry at a lot of the world, and so they want to watch those who are being shitbirds suffer/burn/etc, but if we tried to be constructive and objective I don't think this would actually be the thing most likely to help society. I think it might be the thing that feels the best for angry people, and I get that, but I honestly don't think it helps.

So if the goal is to feel good by being punitive to somebody with a shitty opinion, yes no mercy, no sympathy. If the goal is to help things get better, then call her out and disagree with her, but don't doxx/mob justice her out of her career/life.

I understand your point, and it's a good, valid point, but like others have been saying ultimately you're wrong. Talk to her, that was decades ago. It's true that she's young and so she never even got a chance, that's sad, but the fact is she won't learn anything just by talking. Heck, she says so herself, and it's true. It's a sad state of affairs indeed when we've gone past the point of solving our issues reasonably, but we passed that point long, long ago. Enough is enough and it's been enough a long, long time now.

As others mention people like her have to understand that it's not just her words, her actions that are wrong, but her entire view of the world, her values, very likely those of her parents and her friends, her whole community, her whole way of life is fundamentally, radically wrong. It's a harsh truth for sure but humanity, the world can't wait for her to catch up anymore. The train is long gone and she has to, she's gonna have to find her way some other way. At some point reason, humanity (the ideal) has to prevail, and that point is now.

So what happens now? Her life is not completely over. She can still change, there's always hope. It won't be easy, but she just can't, we can't, the world can't just go on, slap on the wrist, as if there's nothing wrong. It's high time to set things straight.
TopicTrump supporting dumbass outs herself on social media..
closetjpopfan
06/02/20 3:45:00 PM
#201
"The guy who died"

I'm really Fry not sure if she doesn't want to realize that Floyd was murdered or if it really doesn't register in her little head.
TopicAre the riots necessary?
closetjpopfan
06/02/20 3:24:34 PM
#87
IShall_Run_Amok posted...
Rather than "stahp", I think the protests should become more organized and act with strategy and intent, and more people should join in. This is not what the government wants to happen; they want us to either make a lot of impotent noise and property damage so they can justify fucking us over ever harder, or they want us to just stop criticizing them on all levels, so they can go back to doling out the regular abuses they are fond of. Now that I've stated my opinion, commence to disparaging me for what you assume is my ethnicity and where I live. It will make you appear quite reasonable and not at all in a state of emotional and intellectual panic.

TopicAre the riots necessary?
closetjpopfan
06/02/20 3:14:02 PM
#86
monkmith posted...
can children be de-burned?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AEncQKV8k_0&feature=emb_title

More importantly you can prevent children from being burned.

By changing the system.

So you tell me. Do you want to keep seeing children burned or are you just a hypocrite.
TopicWendy's, Taco Bell, and Pizza hut are being cancelled for donating to Trump.
closetjpopfan
06/02/20 2:50:05 PM
#72
Cancel culture is stupid but this isn't really canceling, maybe indirectly, in a very broad sense.
Topicitz a K-pop topic!
closetjpopfan
05/31/20 1:02:47 PM
#295
PumpkinCoach posted...
i've already kicked my survival show habit so i don't know anything other than that the names i know were eliminated early.

It is a heartbreak every time.
Topicitz a K-pop topic!
closetjpopfan
05/30/20 8:34:14 PM
#293
So anybody catch Idol Producer? It's over now. I really like some of the perfs.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gkc5AQ2M6o

The level of talent on the show was really high. And don't get me started on the visuals.
TopicKaren's at it again
closetjpopfan
05/29/20 1:18:25 PM
#13
DrizztLink posted...
I know none of these things.

See I'm spreading awareness to my fellow under-rock dwellers. I'm useful!
TopicKaren's at it again
closetjpopfan
05/29/20 1:12:47 PM
#10
The_Bitcoin posted...
The poor dog is a good boi. He was a victim too, Karen choked him for dramatic effect in her phone call.

I know. It's interesting how their pets can sometimes have more humanity than them.
TopicKaren's at it again
closetjpopfan
05/29/20 1:03:02 PM
#5
The covid rock... -.-
TopicKaren's at it again
closetjpopfan
05/29/20 1:00:20 PM
#1
TopicCYOA: Your name is Karen
closetjpopfan
05/27/20 3:19:01 PM
#228
I just started reading the thread today and I skipped to now XDDDDD

Award for best CE thread please
TopicI want to speak to your manager.
closetjpopfan
05/27/20 3:12:57 PM
#5
Not before I speak to yo momma
TopicThey are trying to remove jimmy fallon too
closetjpopfan
05/27/20 12:27:38 PM
#40
Anteaterking posted...
Your mileage may vary for cancelling people over things that happened in the past, but whenever someone tries to do it with something that was openly aired on broadcast television it just seems stupid.

It has the same energy as when someone much younger than you starts talking down to you about something that happened in the past that they just learned about like everyone else was as clueless as them about it.

Okay boomer

Sorry couldn't resist
TopicCarl Jung is responsible for the Persona games and Kpop group BTS
closetjpopfan
05/26/20 12:38:59 PM
#9
Among a few other, minor things.
TopicIs the stock market really a barometer of the economy?
closetjpopfan
05/26/20 12:27:19 PM
#8
It's how well corporations are doing (to put it very simply). Some people think that's practically the only thing that matters about the economy.
TopicTrump: Great reviews on our handling of the China Virus
closetjpopfan
05/26/20 12:16:38 PM
#29
What a petty, self-centered clown. If you support this ass that really says a lot about your character.
TopicThey are trying to remove jimmy fallon too
closetjpopfan
05/26/20 12:05:54 PM
#15
Austin_Era_II posted...
What about Robert Downey Jr. black face in that comedy movie with Ben?

Ah but that wasn't blackface. That was the opposite of blackface. It was blackface-face.
TopicNormani isn't the hottest black woman anymore
closetjpopfan
05/23/20 3:27:57 PM
#27
It's still Normani.
Topicwhos your kpop noona
closetjpopfan
05/23/20 3:22:02 PM
#3
weeb98 posted...
arin from omg

Really? You guys know what noona means right. Mine is Hyori.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iKdr44yEBQU

Old school.
TopicUS states redrawn by equal population. What state you livin in now boyz?
closetjpopfan
05/23/20 3:07:01 PM
#36
littlebro07 posted...
Nodaway

We get Omaha, Lincoln, Des Moines, Sioux Falls, AND Kansas City?

God damn, that's like every interesting city in the midwest

Interesting. Midwest. Pick one.

I now live in Shenandoah. Before I lived in the backwoods, now I live in the backwoods except my state doesn't even have a coast, doesn't deserve it.
TopicCE's Hottest Woman #15 (Final Round): Jenna Coleman vs. Salma Hayek
closetjpopfan
05/20/20 6:57:48 PM
#45
Grats to Salma, at least we got a proper hottie in the end.
Topicitz a K-pop topic!
closetjpopfan
05/20/20 6:35:43 PM
#257
Speaking of crazy shows and clusterfucks, I've been really deprived lately and while looking to get my fix somewhere I found out I'd almost completely missed this show and now I'm scrambling and binging on it, anybody watch it? @Rob_Cesternino

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGFcqWS2u5w

EXO >>>>>>>>>> BTS
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closetjpopfan
05/20/20 6:27:38 PM
#256
PumpkinCoach posted...
i was going to say isn't that the group with the somehow even lesser-known former good day members, but turns out i was thinking of a different nugu group and this is the one with former-YG and pd48's jinny.

Oh yeah I remember Jinny, looks different with blond hair.

But I looked up the group and the craziest thing is that the leader and oldest at 25 is the Japanese girl from Skarf. Who apparently was also in M9 lol... Oh man this industry.
TopicC/D: Sara Jean Underwood is basically a hotter version of Jennifer Aniston
closetjpopfan
05/18/20 2:22:21 PM
#32
I voted C but the resemblance is very distant.
Topicitz a K-pop topic!
closetjpopfan
05/18/20 2:07:01 PM
#249
Highwind07 posted...


New GG, who dis?

lol literally nugu but yeah sounds okay

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wh970uXTKP4
TopicPoll: Do you still use Chrome?
closetjpopfan
05/16/20 1:28:41 PM
#18
On desktop, yes.

I don't browse the net on mobile. It runs Safari.
TopicIs communism a net good or net bad for human society?
closetjpopfan
05/16/20 1:03:59 PM
#53
Questionmarktarius posted...
Let's attempt (badly) to explain it by looking at the other side:

Capitalism lives on selling everyone superfluous things we don't really need. While this may be a net "bad" for society, it's extra-super-awesome for individuals.

Yes but for very very few individuals. For most individuals it's extra-super-soul-killing. And don't get me started on the environment.

JBaLLEN66 posted...
Yeah, it took China and the USSR out of the feudal ages, if the USSR wasn't strong then Nazi Germany would've won WW2

Hmm not a bad point although I don't know if Russia beat Germany BECAUSE of communism but I guess at least it didn't make them fail, and did help them in that respect.
TopicCE's Hottest Woman #14 (Semi-Finals): Mila Kunis vs. Salma Hayek
closetjpopfan
05/16/20 12:56:26 PM
#32
The worst part is watch CE give the crown to Jenna Coleman in the end.
TopicIs capitalism a net good or bad for human society?
closetjpopfan
05/16/20 12:41:29 PM
#93
cerealbox760 posted...
look around you. Almost everything was invented because someone wanted money

Stalolin posted...
This. People do invent and innovate for other reasons, and you can have things like Wikipedia and the people who donate their time to keep it accurate and free. But for the most part, without capitalism we wouldnt be sitting here on phones and computers or playing video games. Not to mention everything else. We just wouldnt have anywhere near the same standard of living. I wish it dont be like it is but it do.

Nah, we would, absolutely. Things aren't invented just because "someone wants money". In fact this wanting or rather should I say NEEDING money is a feature of capitalism, at least it certainly is a feature of the capitalism run rampant that we have today. So obviously people don't invent things because capitalism because people have been inventing things since long before capitalism and this desperate need for money existed.

Capitalism has very little to do with invention. I'm not sure that either of you are a scientist or an engineer, perhaps the only thing you've ever learned is how to market the stuff that other people discover and create or who knows what, which is fine, but I can let you know if you don't that there are more than enough reasons for people to invent stuff without money. Most of human invention was not primarily driven by money.

Profit incentive does influence innovation a little more, but engineers will still always love to make good stuff better without having to come up with a new solution and the profit incentive aspect again is as much for the historical fact that capitalism happened to be the economic system that emerged along with progress in the modern age (along with a host of other factors of course). In fact it'd be more accurate to say that capitalism came about because of progress and innovation and not the other way around.

Where capitalism has its best point is that it has advanced the means of producing and distributing all these newly discovered and improved upon goods, and this in turn raises the standard of living and enhances the atmosphere in which progress and innovation can flourish, that's true, that has to be credited mostly to capitalism. But then we come to the crux of the matter which is that capitalism is not the only system nor the best system that could have achieved this.
TopicIs capitalism a net good or bad for human society?
closetjpopfan
05/15/20 12:19:58 PM
#87
cerealbox760 posted...
Profit motive incentivizes innovation. If you disagree, break it down already. The public sector lags in innovation, unlike the private sector

Eh, yes profit motive incentivizes innovation, but it's not and never has been the most important incentive for innovation. In fact profit motive sometimes can even be an obstacle to innovation.
TopicCE's Hottest Woman #14 (Semi-Finals): Mila Kunis vs. Salma Hayek
closetjpopfan
05/15/20 11:35:22 AM
#19
ClunkerSlim posted...
God damn it. What is CEs obsession with Salma Hayek?

Exactly what I was going to post.

I mean, well at least she is pretty darn freaking hot. But yeah, overrated.
TopicIs capitalism a net good or bad for human society?
closetjpopfan
05/15/20 11:19:05 AM
#82
cerealbox760 posted...
Then why does America lead with innovation? All these other 'socialist' countries in Europe dont invent at the level America does.

See, exactly the kind of illogical arguments they use. America leads in innovation. America is capitalist. Therefore capitalism leads in innovation.

No. Learn logic.

edit I mean I could, would write a longer response but yeah. Just don't.
TopicC/D: If you play healer but barely or never heal, you're gonna get yelled at
closetjpopfan
05/15/20 10:40:19 AM
#9
"it's a good viable dps!"
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