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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/13/18 11:46:48 AM
#66
@thanosibe

It is possible since I don't know the background, but my point is that it may come off as unilateral if the significant other isn't willing to consider qualifications at least if he sees that his girlfriend or wife really wants to do it, such as him being present or agreements being signed beforehand. One model's boyfriend actually came and posed as well. But these women feel like society considers them unattractive, I mean most of CE calls women whales. Participating in an art project like this gives them confidence (their words). If you're their loved one, why would you want to prevent that?

This must be why most of them just do it behind their significant other's backs, they probably have a feeling they will say no and it won't really be a discussion.

I can ask some models about it. The Indian girl I mentioned earlier though for example specifically said that her boyfriend would "say no" if she told him, so it didn't sound like it would be open to negotiation.

I don't mean to imply that the significant other's feelings should be disregarded though. I think it should be at least discussed more and evaluated on a case by case basis...like I think posing for art is different than if your wife said she wanted to do porn and suck off guys on camera.
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/13/18 1:28:49 AM
#60
gerbar posted...
Can't make her do anything, but ideally, no I would not like her to pose nude for another person, artistic or not.

thanosibe posted...
Vol2tex posted...
prince_leo posted...
I think it's ok for someone to be uncomfortable with their SO posing nude, it's just bad when they don't talk it out
ultimately it is the person posing who has the final decision (well I suppose the artist too, but you get the point)


Yes but that's the thing, most of the time when the SO says they aren't fine with it, they just comply with the SO. They wouldn't want to do anything to ruin the relationship, and understandably. But personally, I don't believe in exerting control over others.
A relationship isnt one sided though. There is always going to be compromise and both parties will find the boundaries they are willing to do so for the peace of mind of the person they love. If you cant give up a little bit of yourself for the sake of both then the relationship is going to rocky and tulmutulouse.


This person gets it. A relationship consists of compromises but sometimes you can't and have to reevaluate your stance and try understand each others arguments. It's not about exerting control, and I can't determine if that is what is going on in the OP, but it could be she respected his wishes which is fair in a relationship.


Another case:

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TopicEverything Wrong With X-Men: Apocalypse
Vol2tex
09/12/18 11:34:33 PM
#6
au_gold posted...
There is nothing wrong with that movie.


ol47hfj
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TopicEverything Wrong With X-Men: Apocalypse
Vol2tex
09/12/18 11:19:21 PM
#1
TopicMichelangelo's David is best male statue. What is the best female statue?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 11:15:54 PM
#19
TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 10:50:25 PM
#56
Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
Fair, but curious to know your reasoning behind disallowing it?


Some men (maybe vast majority of men, if we're talking worldwide) consider anything sex-related to be an intimate act with their spouse. Of course we could attribute this to religion or some other cultural standard, but the point is that sharing your wife with another man is not considered ideal for most relationships. It's also not unique to men, as women can likewise be very possessive.

I suppose women would be opposed to the possibility that their man might leave them if they are tempted by another woman, and traditionally that could have caused problems related to the wife and their children no longer being supported in various ways. Men would traditionally fear that the child they are raising is not biologically their own offspring, if their spouse was tempted by another man. Keep in mind that these aren't exactly unfounded fears, considering that many men and women deceive their partners quite often. You already admitted that several of your own models aren't even honest with their boyfriends about what kind of work they do with you.


What if if was a portrait session with no nudity?

Nudity itself shouldn't automatically be linked to sex or intimacy. I mean, I don't look at the statue of David or paintings of women and get turned on. I comprehend that the intention is to stimulate or inspire on an intellectual or aesthetic level. I don't get turned on by the models either. Actually, it can be unflattering in a sense because artworks can idealize a model but in person several of them are actually annoying or inconsiderate or smell.

But in any event, it doesn't strike me as very trustworthy if a person fears potential infidelity just for their significant other being a subject for art.
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TopicI need a 4K TV to connect my PS4??
Vol2tex
09/12/18 9:48:05 PM
#12
Ryetoast posted...
Vol2tex posted...
We bought this TV in 2003, I remember because playing Smackdown HCTP was one of the first times I used the TV.


Thats 15 years man...

Time to upgrade.


My family is always behind. We had dial-up until 2007, whereas my friends had high-speed internet back in junior high in 1999, even the kids who seemed poor. I always lagged in online games.

Right now I think we only have 20Mbs internet.
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 9:37:29 PM
#54
Knowledge_King posted...
Nope.

DreamwaIker posted...
Yeah. "Let" is an odd word to use in the topic title. A husband shouldn't be in the position to "let" or "not let" his wife do anything; she is her own person of equal footing to him.


You realize both sides have to 'let' the other do certain things right? You're the one adding context that isn't there (like the man is above the wife).


Fair, but curious to know your reasoning behind disallowing it?
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TopicMichelangelo's David is best male statue. What is the best female statue?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 9:33:53 PM
#18
Roshon posted...
Vol2tex posted...
Roshon posted...
Vol2tex posted...
Would be moddable. Error said so in the past concerning art.


Thats insane. This forum is nuts.


Can't have 13 year old kids seeing genitalia, but blood and gore is fine.


Pretty sure I even saw and learned about that statue in grade school lol


Probably me as well. I don't recall feeling weirded out by nudity but seeing a nude statue didn't have any negative impact on me.
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TopicI need a 4K TV to connect my PS4??
Vol2tex
09/12/18 9:23:31 PM
#5
We bought this TV in 2003, I remember because playing Smackdown HCTP was one of the first times I used the TV.
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TopicMichelangelo's David is best male statue. What is the best female statue?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 9:18:23 PM
#15
Roshon posted...
Vol2tex posted...
Would be moddable. Error said so in the past concerning art.


Thats insane. This forum is nuts.


Can't have 13 year old kids seeing genitalia, but blood and gore is fine.
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TopicI need a 4K TV to connect my PS4??
Vol2tex
09/12/18 9:04:33 PM
#1
I have this old TV and it isn't working with it:

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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 8:39:24 PM
#53
The-19th-Sparta posted...
Vol2tex posted...
The-19th-Sparta posted...
Hey TC, did you ever sleep with a client who had a boyfriend/husband?


Nope. Some clients do get a bit friendly but not to that level. Those people aren't in relationships.


Good man.


Yeah. You don't want to cross those boundaries, but especially nowadays when you can be accused of things.

The most is that one model who keeps asking me to take erotic pics. I myself feel weird about doing it and surprisingly it actually gets boring. She messages me every 2-3 weeks about it.
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 8:32:16 PM
#51
The-19th-Sparta posted...
Hey TC, did you ever sleep with a client who had a boyfriend/husband?


Nope. Some clients do get a bit friendly but not to that level. Those people aren't in relationships.
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TopicMichelangelo's David is best male statue. What is the best female statue?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 7:59:22 PM
#9
Flockaveli posted...
Why his dick small?

Why my dick small?


They couldn't sculpt 9 inchers.
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TopicMichelangelo's David is best male statue. What is the best female statue?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 7:50:46 PM
#3
Would be moddable. Error said so in the past concerning art.
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 7:46:31 PM
#48
SquirrelyDan posted...
I posed nude for my ex gf once for her art class. It was weird, but it paid off nicely later.


Interesting
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TopicMichelangelo's David is best male statue. What is the best female statue?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 7:46:06 PM
#1
TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 2:25:00 PM
#41
DreamwaIker posted...
Vindris_SNH posted...
I don't stop my wife from doing anything she wants. Sometimes we discuss things and come to an agreement, but I am not, and neither do I wish to be, in control of my wife to the point of determining whether or not she is allowed to live her life how she wants.

Yeah. "Let" is an odd word to use in the topic title. A husband shouldn't be in the position to "let" or "not let" his wife do anything; she is her own person of equal footing to him.


Based upon my experiences in dealing with 100s of models, apparently it is up to the significant other (mainly boyfriends/husbands) and they have no say since they go along with it. The others just do it behind their backs.
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 12:34:36 AM
#39
SauI_Goodman posted...
There is also the flip side of the argument. If you're a photographer would your wife be alright with you being alone with a nude model.


That's a good question. At least for artists, a lot of them are married so their wives are apparently fine with them drawing dozens of nude models. In any event, you want to avoid any funny business because the model can easily claim sexual misconduct.
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Topicnew World order
Vol2tex
09/12/18 12:27:29 AM
#3
TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/12/18 12:23:53 AM
#35
prince_leo posted...
I think it's ok for someone to be uncomfortable with their SO posing nude, it's just bad when they don't talk it out
ultimately it is the person posing who has the final decision (well I suppose the artist too, but you get the point)


Yes but that's the thing, most of the time when the SO says they aren't fine with it, they just comply with the SO. They wouldn't want to do anything to ruin the relationship, and understandably. But personally, I don't believe in exerting control over others.
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Topic*Woman embarrassed to be seen in bra and panties*
Vol2tex
09/12/18 12:17:35 AM
#21
How about when women say they aren't comfortable with nudity, then post nude pics on social media publicly showing most of their breast except for their nipple? Or sometimes including part of their nipple? Or sheer clothing where you can make out almost their entire breast and nipple?
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TopicC/D: Butterfinger is the best chocolate bar
Vol2tex
09/11/18 8:57:24 PM
#24
Heineken14 posted...
Nah. Kit Kat, Mr. Goodbar, Twix, Zero, and probably some others I can't think of are all better.


I love Twix!
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 8:28:30 PM
#34
eston posted...
I've been on the artists' side of the easel in this situation, and I think I'd be okay with it. People are generally respectful.

It's extremely shitty that the model in the OP would cancel for something like that. It's something that she and her SO should have discussed before she ever took the job, and really should not be any of your concern. It's very unprofessional, and I would not hire this person again.


Exactly. If she cannot do it for those reasons, fine, but why wait until about 1 hour before? I'm guessing she either got showered and dressed and then was about to go out the door and ended up telling the SO, or maybe the SO happened to text her right before she left the house?

Why would she even respond to the ad on Craigslist without consulting with the SO first? Or tell the SO after she started the conversation?

That's the confusing part. Maybe she didn't expect the SO to say no but now finds out that the SO is more controlling than she thought.

It's a shame because she looked like a great model.
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 6:54:24 PM
#31
Trigger_Volnutt posted...
I read the OP. It's just as lolworthy. If you revolve your day around that nonsense then you may as well not bother having committed relationships.


I can see both viewpoints but I've also seen firsthand the ways guys react to this, some guys act like their girlfriend is an object being taken away from them.
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Topicnew World order
Vol2tex
09/11/18 5:39:45 PM
#1


What was your favorite point in the nWo storyline?
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 5:31:28 PM
#28
Trigger_Volnutt posted...
Vol2tex posted...
Trigger_Volnutt posted...
"Would you let her"

lol at this


Based on the responses...

Based on the responses what? Dudes living in constant fear?


My OP as well. People ask permission from their significant other in some cases.
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TopicDo you agree with her?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 5:29:44 PM
#14
TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 5:28:44 PM
#26
Trigger_Volnutt posted...
"Would you let her"

lol at this


Based on the responses...
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 5:16:45 PM
#25
Hairy-man posted...
Its fucked that some girls do it without telling their significant other.

Like is it that bloody important to you?

Im iffy on the idea of it in the first place, we would have to talk about it. But to go behind someones back is just scuzzy


Well, I worked with this Indian girl a few times and said she was interested because it was a self esteem boost, since you hardly see (plus size) Indian women depicted in art. If you care about her, why would you be so against your gf doing it if she sees it as beneficial?
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 3:01:36 PM
#20
The-19th-Sparta posted...
Posing nude for art is something that I still probably wouldn't approve unless my wife told me how much it meant to her and what she wanted to gain out of it.

This girl spreading her vag in secret though? That's literally pornography, no wonder she's hiding it from her boyfriend, he would rage and for good reason.


Well that's recently. For years working with her before, she was doing just artistic poses but she didn't tell her bf then either.
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 2:43:59 PM
#18
EndOfDiscOne posted...
Vol2tex posted...
Given this, how would you know if she is doing it if she doesn't ask/tell you?


My wife is very open and easy to read. It's not like her to deceive.

Letting your s/o get naked in front of other men is a step down a slippery slope towards cuckville


That's good to hear and I hope it is the case, but yeah these guys don't know in any of these cases so they would think the same thing. The model I mentioned above keeps asking me to photograph her spreading her vag and butthole though, and her boyfriend doesn't know about it.

I disagree about the cucking though.
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 2:24:51 PM
#13
The-19th-Sparta posted...
Yikes, that's a blatant troll.


It is possessive. I've actually worked with models who said they weren't telling their boyfriend because their boyfriend wouldn't approve. So, they are doing it anyway behind their boyfriend's back.

One girl I've worked with for 6 years and she never told any of her boyfriends what she was really doing when she was posing for me. This girl actually keeps asking me to do erotic sessions the past 2 years, look at the text if you don't believe me:

NigogZB

But her current boyfriend doesn't even know.

@EndOfDiscOne

Given this, how would you know if she is doing it if she doesn't ask/tell you?
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 2:09:58 PM
#9
EndOfDiscOne posted...
Vol2tex posted...
EndOfDiscOne posted...
I can't think of any circumstance where I'd be okay with my wife doing this


Why?


For my eyes only


So possessive?
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 2:04:31 PM
#7
EndOfDiscOne posted...
I can't think of any circumstance where I'd be okay with my wife doing this


Why?
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 1:57:23 PM
#3
How about for an individual, but at a studio?
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TopicDo you agree with her?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 1:48:10 PM
#13
gatorsPENSbucs posted...
She's right about the PC.


Heh
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TopicWould you let your gf/wife pose nude for art?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 1:47:29 PM
#1
This model cancelled at the last minute the other day because her significant other wasn't happy with her doing it:

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How would you feel if your gf/wife/significant other told you or asked you about posing nude for art?
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TopicLast time you had Indian food?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 11:55:33 AM
#23
Turtlebread posted...
yesterday

it was so good god damn

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laal_maans

you gotta try this shit fam

it gave me diarrhea but it was worth it


Looks good!
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TopicDo you agree with her?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 11:55:02 AM
#10
TopicDo you agree with her?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 11:04:43 AM
#9
daGamexx posted...
Stop posting ugly girls


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Ugly??
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TopicDo you agree with her?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 10:26:33 AM
#8
Flockaveli posted...
Shes one of those Feminist chicks.

No thanks.


Hmm
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TopicDo you agree with her?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 10:00:57 AM
#6
TopicHow scared were you on 9/11?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 9:56:04 AM
#1
I live in NYC and I was terrified. Almost all the TV channels were out and the remaining one or ones (I think NBC?) were all talking about the attacks. I remember hearing sirens for quite some time. I kept shivering for days worrying about further attacks or war.
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TopicDo you agree with her?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 9:48:56 AM
#1
TopicC/D: Butterfinger is the best chocolate bar
Vol2tex
09/11/18 9:46:57 AM
#17
TopicC/D: Butterfinger is the best chocolate bar
Vol2tex
09/11/18 12:06:51 AM
#1
TopicLast time you had Indian food?
Vol2tex
09/11/18 12:02:06 AM
#22
Zurkon posted...
I dont think Ive ever had Indian food


Missing out!
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TopicWhich girl do you like best?
Vol2tex
09/10/18 11:59:12 PM
#33
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