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Topic | I will never call a biological male a female. |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 6:44:51 AM #86 | F1areaGaman posted... I get there are people like that. Is the solution to humor their dysphoria? How can we? They are always going to know they aren't the sex they want to me. It's like we are allowing a mass delusion for them. They will crave a kind of sexual encounter they will never have. Again... why is your default stance that the brain is wrong? They have a body and brain that aren't in alignment. Why not refer to them by their gender classification rather than their sex? I believe that the mind is what makes a human what they are. Maybe you don't believe that, Iunno. Trust me, they know their body isn't the sex it should be. That's why so many of them undergo painful, expensive surgeries in an attempt to at least be able to look in the mirror. What's your alternative, to tell them their bodies decide what they are and they're stuck with that? That ends up contributing to those high suicide rates you mentioned earlier. F1areaGaman posted... And there are other issues, like people who are gender fluid, people who take advantage of it, etc etc. I don't understand genderfluidity well enough to comment on it, and I find that people who take advantage of it (are you talking about locker rooms and stuff here?) are mostly hypothetical people who don't actually exist. For sports teams... yeah, it sucks that trans women have an advantage there, but they have a shit-ton of other disadvantages that more than balance it out. I do agree that there are some... well, let's call 'em "trans-trenders" that could do with understanding gender and trans people a bit better. But the solution to that is to promote understanding of trans issues, not to push back and make them feel like victims. F1areaGaman posted... That's why I brought up the laws and people in Canada and Sweden getting their kids taken away because they didn't start giving their 10 year olds hormone treatment. I won't ever defend that. But we as a society can not do that kind of thing and still respect trans peoples' identities. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I will never call a biological male a female. |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 6:24:23 AM #65 | F1areaGaman posted... The main reason is because they are not the sex they are claiming to be. But they are (likely) the gender they're claiming to be. As far as science can tell, people have a biological sex and a biological gender. You haven't noticed your biological gender because it matches your biological sex and therefore, there aren't any problems. Trans people aren't so lucky. Now unfortunately, the male/female division uses the same words for both sex and gender. This is where your confusion is coming from. F1areaGaman posted... I mean, can I identify as a women, yet change nothing about my appearance or anything? Just the fact that I now identify as a women, and that's it, that's all I have to do? And I expect everyone to humor me and call me a women, her, "she", etc? How is that right? Would you ever do this, though? I'm guessing not. Do you think there are people who just want to do this for funsies? If so, you're wrong. People are doing it because their dysphoria is literally making it painful to not do it. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I will never call a biological male a female. |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 6:09:51 AM #49 | F1areaGaman posted... But it is though...they will never birth a child. Is gender different than sex? Look, I was a dick before, but now I'm not saying this to be mean. It's clear that you know very little about trans people and their issues. You're asking very basic questions and have some big misconceptions. The info's out there if you want to search for it. Try reading some stuff from the other side of the aisle, and not just the crazy stuff that gets highlighted by sites like the blaze. "Can't birth a child" seems like an even weirder way to differentiate. Are infertile women actually men? What about women with PCOS? What about post-menopause women? --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I will never call a biological male a female. |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 6:03:04 AM #37 | F1areaGaman posted... So it's a mental illness, not a choice? Idk if I'd say "illness". The body and the brain don't match. Which of the two is at fault, that's up for debate. It's certainly easier to change the body than it is to change the brain. Not the chromosomes, but deciding that the chromosomes are the most important part of gender seems like a silly position to take. Lmao@thinking it's a choice. You think trans people would choose a life like that? --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I will never call a biological male a female. |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 5:56:06 AM #31 | F1areaGaman posted... Do you think it's because they are outcasts in society? Even with Katelyn Jenner winning that courage award? The media seems pretty tolerant of the idea. Dysphoria caused, in part, because everything from society to their own body keeps telling them they aren't the gender their brain is literally wired to be. But you would know this if you were actually interested enough to research it. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I will never call a biological male a female. |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 5:44:38 AM #23 | F1areaGaman posted... Why do you immediately assume I'm some basement dweller? Because I share a different opinion? That's not why --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I will never call a biological male a female. |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 5:36:23 AM #18 | F1areaGaman posted... It will affect me if laws pass that change the way i have to interact with society Something tells me you don't do too much of that anyway. F1areaGaman posted... It's also hard to talk and communicate in society Again, how often do you even leave the house? F1areaGaman posted... I also don't want my daughters getting destroyed by "girls" on the womens soccer team, etc. Get back to us when you actually manage to procreate --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | What's the worst movie you've seen in theaters? |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 3:18:37 AM #82 | Also I've seen The Room in a theater. But I enjoyed that experience far more than most other times I've gone to the theater so --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Just got back from an abortion fundraiser |
marthsheretoo 04/29/18 3:17:25 AM #30 | UncleBourbon33 posted... giantblimpN7 posted...I was the victim of an abortion Some of them even maybe should have been. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | What's the worst movie you've seen in theaters? |
marthsheretoo 04/28/18 11:42:43 PM #35 | Infinite 2003 posted... I got dragged to one of the Twilights once --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Perks of dating a trans woman. |
marthsheretoo 04/28/18 10:24:04 PM #149 | Kill_Marxism posted... I didn't say anything about living naturally to the degree you're talking about. You're just making s*** up. I'm saying, let's not do things that harm us. "Let's not do things that harm us" is a very different argument than your appeal to naturalism, which I hope you now realize is a silly argument. If you really meant "let's not do things that harm us", lead with that and don't even talk about what is and isn't natural. And then we can talk about the harmful effects of body dysphoria and stigmatizing transgender people... --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | why do so many female teachers have sex with their students? |
marthsheretoo 04/28/18 7:40:39 PM #37 | chollima posted... CanuckCowboy posted...chollima posted...Yeah I never understood this. Why does she choose some low test kid who will bust his nut in under a minute when a real man like me could satisfy her needs. Women won't even look at me, yet you see this nonsense happening all the time. Big words from a guy who ain't seen a pussy since he pushed his way out of one. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Perks of dating a trans woman. |
marthsheretoo 04/28/18 5:51:51 PM #98 | Kill_Marxism posted... Not what I said. Idk man, you seem pretty into living naturally. What about transportation? Are cars ok? Should we be born, live, and die within the same 50 miles? --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Perks of dating a trans woman. |
marthsheretoo 04/28/18 5:38:59 PM #88 | Kill_Marxism posted... BloodyNate posted...Kill_Marxism posted...So has nature also intended the various disgusting and extremely harmful sexual fetishes that are around? Did nature intend for the self mutilation for sexual pleasure? Did nature intend for suicide? There are many things that can factor into white certain behaviors occur without saying it's something nature would have intended. Let's all be hunter-gatherers like nature intended Let's all die of smallpox like nature intended Let's all have 8 kids like nature intended - hey, if the purpose of life is to procreate, might as well do that as much as possible! Let's freeze to death in the winter like nature intended This is sounding pretty fun! Tell me, Mr. Marxism, in this world you envision, what other stone-age QOL changes are you looking for? Or is modern medicine ok while condoms aren't? I'm confused :( --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | $1 billion but you have to kill, butcher and eat your pet. |
marthsheretoo 04/28/18 4:32:31 AM #25 | Why are you so invested in other people wanting to kill their pets? Kill your own if you want but I value mine more than that. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | $1 billion but you have to kill, butcher and eat your pet. |
marthsheretoo 04/28/18 4:28:09 AM #22 | iClockwork posted... He'd understand why you did it and be happy that you get to live the rest of your life comfortably He's not smart enough to have any idea about that. Just smart enough to understand that someone he loved and trusted is about to hurt him. I hit him in the head with a ball once and felt sick for days. And I'll already live the rest of my life comfortably, so 1bil, while great to have, isn't a huge difference to me lifestyle wise. Keep your money, I'm keeping my dog. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | $1 billion but you have to kill, butcher and eat your pet. |
marthsheretoo 04/28/18 4:20:18 AM #17 | Meh. My dog loves me. I'm sure the look in his eyes as I betrayed him would haunt me forever. Li'l guy deserves a long, comfortable life. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | $10 million untaxed but the 2nd amendment is repealed |
marthsheretoo 04/26/18 5:26:49 AM #3 | I feel like you're missing the point of these topics. There's supposed to be a tradeoff. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I am an alpha male of the highest caliber. |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 8:26:24 AM #2 | Ironic that while confidence is an alpha trait, the originator of this quote hasn't made a post that didn't reek of insecurity and weakness. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Do people look down on and/or hate pansexuals? |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 7:28:51 AM #53 | catboy0_0 posted... I am a bisexual that dates both cisgender men/women and trans men/women Do you not see how actively making a distinction between them is scummy tho --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Do people look down on and/or hate pansexuals? |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 6:32:59 AM #51 | NonDairyMiltank posted... anyone can exclude types of potential partners from their dating pool without it changing their sexual orientation, because people can be selective in who they wanna f*** This. Trans women are women. Trans men are men. Bisexuality encompasses them as well, no need for another meaningless label. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Friendly reminder that monogamy is a concept developed out of irrational fear |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 1:42:31 AM #40 | Pepys Monster posted... marthsheretoo posted...Jerry_Hellyeah posted...What do their 20 boyfriends say? That selfie looks better than your last one, at least. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Friendly reminder that monogamy is a concept developed out of irrational fear |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 1:30:30 AM #38 | Jerry_Hellyeah posted... What do their 20 boyfriends say? Pepys Monster posted... What do their stables of Chads say? Again, your wildly off-base assumptions prove the topic title's point. If you genuinely ask about my relationship structure, I'm happy to share the details, but it's clear your incel-flavored preconceived notions are making it impossible to have a productive discussion with either of you. Suffice to say that neither of you know what you're talking about. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Friendly reminder that monogamy is a concept developed out of irrational fear |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 1:19:02 AM #34 | Pepys Monster posted... Polygamy = Cuckoldry My two hot ladies say otherwise :p --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Friendly reminder that monogamy is a concept developed out of irrational fear |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 12:54:47 AM #22 | Trayvon posted... hey if you're a cuck then you do you. don't try to force that shit on the rest of us lol I don't 100% agree with the TC, but this post is pretty much the gold standard for irrational fear tbh. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | the new Jumanji movie was surprisingly good |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 12:41:42 AM #2 | lol --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Friendly reminder that monogamy is a concept developed out of irrational fear |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 12:40:29 AM #12 | Mal_Fet posted... What about when it comes to raising kids, would it be better for them if they had one parent and a bunch of strangers in the house all the time Polyamory comes in all forms. "One parent and a bunch of strangers" sounds more like a single parent who's dating than any kind of polyamorous structure I'm aware of. One poly couple I know just got married but are still both seeing other people. Honestly, I trust them to raise good kids better than most of the mono couples I know of. They're really smart, really compassionate, and have their shit together. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Friendly reminder that monogamy is a concept developed out of irrational fear |
marthsheretoo 04/25/18 12:36:03 AM #5 | FrenchCrunch posted... i dont see how it's restraining if it's what people prefer It's not, necessarily, but a lot of people feel culturally forced into monogamy as a default. They either don't realize there are other options, or feel as if those other options are morally acceptable, or feel as if it is impossible to find a decent partner who doesn't demand monogamy. Look at how much cheating happens. There are clearly a lot of people not satisfied with one partner --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | People who advocate for abortions are extremely disingenuous. |
marthsheretoo 04/24/18 2:41:01 AM #113 | ben1741 posted... marthsheretoo posted...ben1741 posted...by that logic if there were no laws would people just be able to kill anyone and not have it be murder? No lol. I don't start suddenly wanting to kill people when the word changes. And I agree with the second part of your sentence... So why is calling it murder so important to you? --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | What accomplishments are you most proud of? |
marthsheretoo 04/24/18 2:18:55 AM #23 | Published 6 books Have 2 hot girlfriends at once. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | People who advocate for abortions are extremely disingenuous. |
marthsheretoo 04/24/18 2:16:46 AM #103 | ben1741 posted... by that logic if there were no laws would people just be able to kill anyone and not have it be murder? Going by the definition of murder, technically, yes. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Yes! A super cute 18 year old black girl likes me! |
marthsheretoo 04/23/18 11:15:39 PM #451 | That last convo makes it obvious that even though she's young, she's quickly picked up on the fact that you're boring and awkward... I think she's three, four grocery lists away from getting bored and moving on to a Chad. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Caught my base sleeping |
marthsheretoo 04/23/18 10:24:54 PM #3 | All your baes are belong to us --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | So Hoth is talking to himself on a San Jose subreddit bringing up gamefaqs |
marthsheretoo 04/23/18 8:12:12 PM #13 | Woah, Hothlin is in the San Jose area? I could drive over there right now and drop off some acne cream for him. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I did not hit her, it's not true! It's bullshit! I did not hit her! I did nawt.. |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 10:05:52 PM #15 | Muffinz0rz posted... Didn't we leave this fucking meme movie behind in 2017? Keep your stupid comments in your pocket. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I decided that I'm not going to respond to anymore negative comments. |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 9:48:45 PM #84 | Hell, I'm a straight dude and I can't get enough Chad dick. I touch Chad dick like, every day of my life. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | A woman doesn't have the right to choose. |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 9:39:48 PM #56 | Verdekal posted... Dragonblade01 posted...The arguments in favor of permitting abortion vastly outweigh those against. I see you ignored my post, so I'll quote it again for ya. marthsheretoo posted... How does TC feel about a hypothetical situation in which someone urgently needs a kidney transplant and you're the only viable donor in the vicinity? --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | How much did you pay the last time you had sex? |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 9:32:25 PM #3 | $0 Pretty sure my lifetime average is negative --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | C/D - Gun ownership should have similar laws to the operation of a motor vehicle |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 9:24:24 PM #11 | D Should be stricter --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | A woman doesn't have the right to choose. |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 9:07:42 PM #37 | How does TC feel about a hypothetical situation in which someone urgently needs a kidney transplant and you're the only viable donor in the vicinity? Do you believe that that person's right to life trumps your bodily autonomy and you need to give up your kidney? Or should you have the choice to do so? --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | What would you put in a best man speech. |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 7:38:33 PM #32 | Offworlder1 posted... TBH it sounds like his life might actually be ending, my sympathies. Just stop, dude. You're embarrassing yourself. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Which is the best kind of booty? |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 6:10:44 PM #10 | If you pick the treasure, you can buy all the booty you want. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | The US Army is having trouble finding people smart enough to join. |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 6:09:46 PM #4 | If you're smart enough that the army wants you, there's a good chance that you're smart enough to not join the army. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | I wonder how much food waste would be reduced if we got rid of bulk discounts |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 5:12:07 PM #8 | MacadamianNut3 posted... Around the time for the Superbowl my local Safeway had a "buy 5 for $5" deal on soda 12-packs. Buying a single 12 pack was like $5 and I got 2 of them But soda keeps... --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Do you agree with Mike Rowe that people don't value work enough? |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 1:53:05 AM #47 | ShotOJameson posted... He has a point. I just know when I am not working I go kinda insane. Might just be my personality type though, but I just feel guilty when I don't work and its hard to really convince myself I deserve anything or even just have fun. Finally, someone ITT understands that different people experience things differently. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Professor told conservative student 'fuck your life,' constantly harasses him |
marthsheretoo 04/22/18 1:33:10 AM #59 | Caution999 posted... *Starbucks video that is out of context and can't tell shit from* You do realize that most of that second thing is meant to parody the conservative response to the first, right? --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Girl tells me I'm boring. |
marthsheretoo 04/20/18 9:51:52 PM #23 | Tadamoto44 posted... I don't know why she sent them to me in the first place if she never had any intention of being with me. It's almost like the people who told you that didn't necessarily mean she was into you were right and you were wrong. Listen to the people who know their shit, Taddy --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Female friend of mine told me shes considering open relationship |
marthsheretoo 04/20/18 7:00:15 PM #14 | weekoldhotdog posted... marthsheretoo posted...Open relationships are best agreed on at the beginning. Trying to bring one up to your partner in an established monogamous relationship is bound to create hurt feelings. If so, it was unintentional. I don't remember reading anything similar and I typed what I felt like saying. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
Topic | Female friend of mine told me shes considering open relationship |
marthsheretoo 04/20/18 6:48:17 PM #5 | Open relationships are best agreed on at the beginning. Trying to bring one up to your partner in an established monogamous relationship is bound to create hurt feelings. But they are great. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro |
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