Lurker > alphagamerXXL

Also Im only speaking from my own experience too.
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PaulWalker posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

Dont text her unless she texts you. Saturday morning send her a playful text about your date later. Other then that, dont text. It makes you seem like you have nothing else going on in your life and your just sitting in your room thinking about her and women find hat incredibly creepy. Understand? You should be a busy man and pursuing other things and she isnt the center of your world. Which she wouldnt be because you barely know her. Get it?

I don't really get it though. You tell me that I should act like I'm not sitting around thinking of her, but I really am. This girl is beautiful and driving me wild. You tell me to be my self and then you tell me not to act like I'm interested.

I appreciate the help, I'm just a bit baffled.

Heres the thing, you dont want to be completely yourself. You dont want to reveal all your cards. You want to have an air of mystery. I wish this wasnt the case but it is. Women dont like when men get mushy too early. It makes them seem inexperienced and like they have no other options. Its cruel but women are attracted to men who other women are after too.
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Darmik posted...

UnholyMudcrab posted...

As much as I hate being that guy, I really can't trust anything coming from the Daily Mail.

Retired Las Vegas metro police department detective sergeant John Samolovitch, who was head of the sexual assault unit at the time, confirmed to DailyMail.com the copy of the police report is in fact a true copy of the original report.

I'm not sure if they'd go that far.

alphagamerXXL posted...

She said she felt she was forced after the fact. Meaning he asked her if she had ever had sex with two dudes before, and then she just went along with it without telling them to stop at any point. Im sorry, but that isnt rape. It just isnt. Now, if she would have said said, Im not comfortable with this and THEN they went thru with it that most definitely would have been rape, but thats not what happened. However Im still sickened they said they would bash her head in if she talked about the encounter with anyone.

I'm really not sure how you've made this call from a whopping one paragraph. It really isn't that hard to see how someone could have felt that they were forced to have sex with the bodyguard in this scenario. It's a vulnerable situation to be in.

Were ALL basing our opinions based on this one paragraph, including you.
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PaulWalker posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

PaulWalker posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

I think weve giving you everything you need. Do you have a specific question? @PaulWalker

I guess, do I keep texting her or sort of just wait for Saturday?

What do you think? Based off of what weve told you, what would be the answer to that question?

I think....if she texts me then attempt to have a conversation. However, I shouldn't text her except to confirm that we're still on for Saturday, maybe on Friday evening?

Dont text her unless she texts you. Saturday morning send her a playful text about your date later. Other then that, dont text. It makes you seem like you have nothing else going on in your life and your just sitting in your room thinking about her and women find hat incredibly creepy. Understand? You should be a busy man and pursuing other things and she isnt the center of your world. Which she wouldnt be because you barely know her. Get it?
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Darmik posted...

There are several users on CE who seem to think the only method of rape is being forced in a back alley with a knife to the throat.

There was literally a guy who would film himself raping his wife when she was unconscious and people here still thought that was fishy and couldn't believe it.

Thats rape because shes unconscious. Totally different scenario.
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She said she felt she was forced after the fact. Meaning he asked her if she had ever had sex with two dudes before, and then she just went along with it without telling them to stop at any point. Im sorry, but that isnt rape. It just isnt. Now, if she would have said said, Im not comfortable with this and THEN they went thru with it that most definitely would have been rape, but thats not what happened. However Im still sickened they said they would bash her head in if she talked about the encounter with anyone.
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PaulWalker posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

I think weve giving you everything you need. Do you have a specific question? @PaulWalker

I guess, do I keep texting her or sort of just wait for Saturday?

What do you think? Based off of what weve told you, what would be the answer to that question?
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Lmfao. So sick of people using the Hitler comparison for ANY politician.
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I think weve giving you everything you need. Do you have a specific question? @PaulWalker
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BlazinBlue88 posted...

C7D posted...

I never got into the notion of presenting myself as anything other than the person that I actually am. If a girl liked me for who I am, then she could join me. If not, she could take a hike.

It's not about being someone else, it's about being the best version of yourself. If a girl only saw the version of me that didn't shower for days and ate cheese right out of the fridge, I doubt she'd be but so interested. Still, your last line was a view I took as well. Once I stopped caring so much, I had girls flocking to me. I had my own great life, if you want to be a part of it awesome, if not then oh well. Now I'm 3 years married like you...nearly 4.

PaulWalker posted...

I just want her to feel comfortable and safe around me.

There's different types of "feeling comfortable and safe."
- The safe feeling she gets from being around a brother/friend.
- The safe feeling she gets from a man that takes charge and handles her wants/needs.

Can you see the difference between the two?

Nailed it. You see the difference @PaulWalker?
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I really cant honestly. I mean, vending machine coffee sucks, but the difference between Folgers and Petes brand that you make at home? I really cant tell.
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fenderbender321 posted...

ehhwhatever posted...

I've been told twice by women that men should be aggressive, to me that is like saying a lion needs to be fierce. Give me a break.

It really is a situation where you can't have your cake and eat it too. Women like men who are aggressive and a little bit pushy, because it shows them that they want it. Unfortunately, there's bound to be a rare time when it wasn't really wanted. Life isn't so simple and easy that we can just have nice things all the time without any risk of anything.

Exactly
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PaulWalker posted...

I try to be respectful of girls. That's how I was raised. I don't have any plans to order for her, order her around, or cross any boundaries. I just want her to feel comfortable and safe around me.

See thats the counter intuitive part. I know exactly what you mean, I was the same exact way. However, the more you take charge and lead the interaction, the safer she will feel around you. You would think making her feel comfortable would be asking what she wants to do and being nice and respectful would make her feel good, but it actually makes them uncomfortable around you because they think your not a strong man. Its all very primitive and it took me a while to get it, but when I did a whole new world opened up.
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See this is where things get fuzzy. Do you explicitly ask do you want to do this? Because Ive had multiple girls tell me thats a HUGE turn off.
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UnfairRepresent posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

Its unclear if she was actually forced tho, or if she just went along with it.

Yeah people who don't force women into having sex with a complete stranger routinely then threaten to beat her head in if she came out.

Dude if you wanna say "Well innocent until proven guilty" then that's fine, but looking at the story and going "Well this is fine." is just disgusting and anyone who does is a piece of garbage

Like I said, I have major problems with the bash in the hard part but everything that came before that is a little fuzzy.
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Its unclear if she was actually forced tho, or if she just went along with it.
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seiki posted...

Next: Keanu Reeves accused of sexually assaulting 16 year old girl because he thought she was 19

Whoah
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Thats a freudian slip if ive ever seen one.
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The-19th-Sparta posted...

I'm sorry but I can't bring myself to sympathize with this girl. She clearly wanted to bang a famous and attractive celebrity and she got it. Don't bring this shit up 31 years later in an attempt to get a quick buck.

I somewhat agree but its the bash her head in part thats getting to me.
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C7D posted...

I'm not sure why you need something ideal. I never got into the notion of presenting myself as anything other than the person that I actually am. If a girl liked me for who I am, then she could join me. If not, she could take a hike. I've been married for almost three years now. If I had presented myself as someone other than who I am, either she or I would be miserable.

Well ideally you want to incorporate those characteristics into your personality and become that confident person. Im a strong believer in creating the person you want to be. You can be whoever you choose if you work on it. Your personality isnt set.
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BlazinBlue88 posted...

The advice that alphagamerXXL is giving you, while sounding like dudebro stuff, is on point. People feel the energy coming off of others and respond accordingly. If you put out those nervous and excitable vibes, it'll put her in an uncomfortable place. If you act confident and relaxed, she'll feel at ease and have a better time on the date. Don't act like a lapdog but don't order her around either. You're as much of an equal in this possible relationship as she is.

How do you act confident you say? Keep reminding yourself how far you've progressed. She already likes you. You've had two successful dates with her and she's excited for your third. What is there to not be confident about?

Yeah, I should have made that a little more clear. Its a fine line to walk and is tricky. But you have to find the right balance.
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Deadpool_18 posted...

This board always gets up in arms when someone says weight loss. If you guys could at least try to be subtle about your personal offense it would go a long way.

I guess goddamn. I dont know why people get so up in arms and accusing me of lying. Weight loss isnt the impossible thing people make it out to be.
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hyperpowder posted...

I mean nobody did anything wrong. Age of consent is 16, and she never said no, also she wanted to bang Stallone.

Id say the bash her head in comment was pretty fucked up, and I love Stallone. Rocky is my favorite movie.
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Anarchy_Juiblex posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

Anarchy_Juiblex posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

Triggered. So tell me why you cant lose weight?

I absolutely can.

Ok so why are we arguing then.

You used Christian Bale as a metric for what the average person should be able to do. That's fucking dumb.

I mean, it can be done if you have the proper motivation its possible. I didnt say you would have as Many advantages, but I dont like to look at the reason I CANT do something, I like to look at the reason I CAN.
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Fuck. That sucks.
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This is another good article on the subject

http://myzerocarblife.jamesdhogan.com/wp/2015/08/eating-only-meat-and-eggs-did-this-to-my-cholesterol/
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Anarchy_Juiblex posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

Triggered. So tell me why you cant lose weight?

I absolutely can.

Ok so why are we arguing then.
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EyeWontBeFooled posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

Anarchy_Juiblex posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

If he can make body transformations like this in his 40s, and I have no doubt hell shed the weight after the role, I want people to know they have no excuse not to get in shape no matter how old you are. Dont use lower testosterone as some lame excuse.

How about . . .
1. Not getting paid several hundreds of thousands of dollars to work out with a free trainer, free diet plan, etc etc etc
2. Busy actually working to pay bills.
3. Fuck off.

Even if people are physically capable (I believe they are) of losing weight like that, not everyone has the education, time, or money.

I guess Ill have to repeat. I work 12 hours a day, and still go to the gym after work. I eat steak and eggs every night and thats all I eat(cheat day once a week) I shed 100 lbs. you dont need any of that crap. Lame excuses. Hey, if you dont want it bad enough thats fine. Seriously. Just dont make excuses. Dont need a personal trainer at all. Just buy a good book on the subject of the type of body you want to attain and follow the escercises, or go to YouTube. There are endless recourses, especially now.

Bull. Fucking. Shit, you only eat steak and eggs 6 days a week. Where are you getting Vitamin D, B12, Fibre, etc., etc?

Multi vitamin. I follow this mans diet. https://www.anabolicmen.com/vince-gironda-steak-and-eggs-diet/

Basically its a keto diet. Its how I lost 100 lbs.
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Anarchy_Juiblex posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

I guess Ill have to repeat. I

Of I forgot, your experiences = everyone's.

Fucking child. I doubt you work, work out, or do shit.

Triggered. So tell me why you cant lose weight?
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Antifar posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

I guess Ill have to repeat. I work 12 hours a day, and still go to the gym after work.

When do you take care of your kids?

I dont have kids. Thats a different story, but that wasnt it the poster I was responding tos list of excuses. Still, losing weight is 80% diet. You can eat extrememly disciplines and lose a TON if you have the proper motivation and dont make excuses like I dont have money or a personal trainer. Fuck outta here with that lame shit.
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Anarchy_Juiblex posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

If he can make body transformations like this in his 40s, and I have no doubt hell shed the weight after the role, I want people to know they have no excuse not to get in shape no matter how old you are. Dont use lower testosterone as some lame excuse.

How about . . .
1. Not getting paid several hundreds of thousands of dollars to work out with a free trainer, free diet plan, etc etc etc
2. Busy actually working to pay bills.
3. Fuck off.

Even if people are physically capable (I believe they are) of losing weight like that, not everyone has the education, time, or money.

I guess Ill have to repeat. I work 12 hours a day, and still go to the gym after work. I eat steak and eggs every night and thats all I eat(cheat day once a week) I shed 100 lbs. you dont need any of that crap. Lame excuses. Hey, if you dont want it bad enough thats fine. Seriously. Just dont make excuses. Dont need a personal trainer at all. Just buy a good book on the subject of the type of body you want to attain and follow the escercises, or go to YouTube. There are endless recourses, especially now.
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Thats what I didnt get about the movie sausage party. It should have been called hot dog party.
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PaulWalker posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

PaulWalker posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

And that was a joke correct?

I don't know. I've never seen him post before so I don't really know his sense of humor.

No but when you said you were gonna actually say that I take it you were joking?

Oh, no. I was just being a naive idiot and thought she'd actually somehow be impressed by it. People quickly, and thankfully, put me in my place.

Well, the main thing is. You shouldnt be trying to impress her verbally. Women dont like bragging of ANY kind. It makes you seem insecure. Instead, impress her with a take charge attitude, confidence, and confident body language. Stand up straight. Dont slouch. Shoulder back. Chin up. Move a little slowly. Dont be spastic or herky jerky or look like your in a hurry. It makes you look worried, like prey in the wild. Youre the shit. You know your the shit. You move like youre the shit. Watch some alpha body language videos on YouTube.
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PaulWalker posted...

alphagamerXXL posted...

And that was a joke correct?

I don't know. I've never seen him post before so I don't really know his sense of humor.

No but when you said you were gonna actually say that I take it you were joking?
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And that was a joke correct?
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Wait, so he said he wanted to namedrop him? What was the context of what he said. I must have missed it.
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Who is SBallen anyway?
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treewojima posted...

Is this a troll topic, or are some people really just this clueless about women lol

Cut the guy a break. A lot of parents feed kids this freinds end up the best lovers crap, and act like a gentlemen, and they buy it and never get laid and they end up confused and bitter.
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mipond posted...

Maybe he isn't looking to get "laid" right now. Maybe he's looking to get established in a relationship. And perhaps the places he picked aren't unique, what they are is comfortable as far as everyone knows the menu.

And as far as this "take charge" attitude, as a woman I think it's nice to be given a couple choices in the matter, anyway, but if some dude decides he's gonna order food for me he best know things I like and don't like or it could end up uncomfortable. I don't think they are at that point yet.

The thing is, you're at a good start. Enjoy each other and try and learn more about her. Talk talk and then talk some more.

That girl I got laid with that night I was in a 3 and a half year relationship. Just because you act correct and get laid doesnt mean you cant have a relationship. In fact, I always had a relationship on the brain in high school, but it was that exact attitude that killed attraction and led to me never having one. You focus on attraction first, and then once shes attracted a relationship can begin. Im talking from personal experience. @mipond. By the way, I dont think he should order for her. Thats too far.
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Especially Kaulifla. Wonder how old she supposed to be and if this makes me a theoretical pedo. I hope not.
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Good for you
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byron posted...

byron posted...

I hate you with every ounce of my being. Its not my fucking fault theyre not following thru.
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Im still here!!!! Wtf!
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Dude. What did I tell you? Pick a place and go. Youre giving her way too much power. And like others are saying find a local place. Say something like, Ive been meaning to try this place out for a while, lets go here. Its about you, and your life, and what you want to do, and shes lucky enough to come along. Stop worrying about what she wants to do so much. Attraction killer. This is how I acted for my first big date and I ended up getting laid that night and she even told me she felt safe with me. Thats because I took the lead at all times. I acted like your acting right now all thru high school and NEVER got laid. Taking the lead and making it about me having a good time has served me very well since then.
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SerperiorThanU posted...

kind of a lame way to suicide tbh

I just give 0 fucks. They should delete anyway soon so Im just posting whatever I want
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SerperiorThanU posted...

^lol going to try for an account suicide rather than closing it?

Its whatever now. Im just gonna post whatever the fuck I want. There are better ways to make baby back ribs.
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Wonder if they were well done
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Chicken posted...

MangaFan462 posted...

Fuck drug users

This. Dont be a fucking moron with what you put in your body and youll live longer.

Obviously doesnt understand the power a tramautic past and addiction has over a person. They should be able to pull themselves up by their own bootstrap M I RITE!?
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I have no college degree. I work at UPS and make $120,000 a year. Im glad I didnt get suckered in to student loans and the like.
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Cant wait till they close my account.
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