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Tanoomba posted...

Silver Bearings posted...

gna647 posted...

If me and halloween girl actually dated, our one year anniversary would be coming up soon :(

We're all well-aware. Stop thinking about it.

He can't. Dude is emotionally conditioned to shooting himself in the foot.

Somehow, I think Halloween Girl is more torture for us than it is for TC.

If me and halloween girl actually dated, our one year anniversary would be coming up soon :(

Blue_Popo posted...

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

In the first week of Tinder, I had 15 matches, and been consistently getting laid from one of those matches.

In the second week of Tinder, I've got ZERO matches. I'm assuming I benefited from some kind of rookie boost the first week? At least I met someone so I'm not too frustrated, but some more matches would be nice.

Delete it and make a new one?

I thought about that, but I wonder if they have metrics that don't allow this kind of abuse.

Beaides, I see guys with like, 100s of matches, but they've had theirs open for a while. Why can't I build up a list like that?

It would be pretty odd that all 15 of the tinder girls who were interested in me in my city matched in the first week, and now nada.

In the first week of Tinder, I had 15 matches, and been consistently getting laid from one of those matches.

In the second week of Tinder, I've got ZERO matches. I'm assuming I benefited from some kind of rookie boost the first week? At least I met someone so I'm not too frustrated, but some more matches would be nice.

Do we really need to know about every time you fuck, lol? Not even jealous, it's just odd how you use this as a sex journal. It'd be pretty weird if your GF posted everything sexual y'all do on a message board somewhere.

One of the things you need to accept if you are using any of the apps or sites for dating is that you're going to fail a lot. Learning to cope with rejection and not have it bother you/harm your ego is probably the single most important thing you can learn when dating.

These sites are all based around volume, and everyone (probably including you) is talking to multiple people at once. Most guys are going to strike out significantly more than they're going to have auccess, and this is perfectly normal. Don't let it get you down. Rather, expect that it's going to happen and build that expectation into how you use these sites.

Is messaging girls you don't at least match with on OKC and POF just completely pointless? I always seem to get ignored unless I've at least matched with the girl. Sending messages to random women just seems to not work.

i just got a message in my phone that i matched with a girl on tinder and she sent a message.
klicked to open it, but the app wasn't loading.
so i backed out and opened it again.

this time the app loaded just fine, but there is no message, nothing about a new match or anything.
what happened?

emblem boy posted...

When people pull out, do you just finish on the bed or whatever?

lmao wtf no

finish on her.
i like to do it on the face, boobs, or belly or ass.
Some girls like to swallow it. I dated two girls that preferred to swallow.....god damn

Blue_Popo posted...

Tanoomba posted...

ArchangelBaruch posted...

I was too happy to get to spend the whole evening with her.

She told me that unfortunately she's not ready for a relationship now, and she broke up with me.

Gee, didn't see that one coming.

Not to rub salt in the wound. But most of us have been there. It sucks, but you have to learn from it.

This

Will do. In retrospective it would have been a monumental coincidence to find the perfect girl on first try.

It's just that normal people get this lesson in their teenage years, not when they are 28. I don't know if it's better or worse.

ArchangelBaruch posted...

I was too happy to get to spend the whole evening with her.

She told me that unfortunately she's not ready for a relationship now, and she broke up with me.

Gee, didn't see that one coming.

Not to rub salt in the wound. But most of us have been there. It sucks, but you have to learn from it.

emblem boy posted...

If a condom breaks, it's noticable right? It would be a rip and wouldn't be like small holes right?

EMgoing hard

Tanoomba posted...

gna647 posted...

I feel like my emotions are a wreck

i think im developing feelings for this girl


but at the same time i still think about halloween girl all the time.


its like...confusing.

Do you have mommy issues or something?

im actually a privileged asian american that grew up in a middle-class suburban home life.

but i think my stunted emotional intelligence comes from the lack of interaction with the opposite sex as I was growing up. I didn't have a girlfriend, no girls really took an interest in me(i'm a late bloomer, and people referred to me as the "scrawny asian kid.")

so all this attention im getting from women now as an adult is a pretty new experience, and social dating apps kinda speed up the process by a shit ton. Its weird growing up as the ugly teenager to getting like 3 dates with different girls a month.

What app do I use if I want to actually date someone? I'm not really a fan of one night stands.