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TopicSo we've officially stopped giving a fuck about COVID, right?
famfam
03/19/23 8:05:03 PM
#49
my wife has had long covid for a few months now and is having a tough time

shit sucks
TopicIf DEI isn't profitable to a company should they continue to abide by it
famfam
03/18/23 9:01:28 AM
#10
Antifar posted...
Good things and profitable things are almost mutually exclusive categories. You have no reason to care about Disney or whoever's profit margins.

unless you are a stakeholder, in which case that's exactly what you care about. that's kind of why the world is how it is
TopicIf DEI isn't profitable to a company should they continue to abide by it
famfam
03/18/23 9:00:59 AM
#9
the solution is to make less money, not that hard.
TopicTheif bodyslams single mom
famfam
03/17/23 9:06:53 AM
#9
"The suspect allegedly stole about $4,300 from the woman, which she had been saving to visit her family in Vietnam."

he knew what he was doing.
TopicSaving 10k a day since 80,000 B.C. still not as much $ as Elon Musk
famfam
03/16/23 4:33:57 PM
#137
Squall28 posted...
If you invest that at a 10% index fund, you'll double that within 10 years. Within 20, you'll quadruple. It will take you 90 years to surpass Elon instead of that silly 80,000 BC figure you have.

oh ok, so it's still almost not humanly possible for an adult to do it.
TopicMajor controversy: Debate on if High school couple posted is "ethical"
famfam
03/15/23 11:10:26 AM
#14
we all know what the main issue is here
Topic"Whats the worst that can happen" is a pretty loaded question.
famfam
03/14/23 10:03:17 AM
#2
the answer is never actually the worst that can happen
Topic12 year old girl banned from Atlanta Walmart for eating a sucker without paying
famfam
03/14/23 8:20:21 AM
#93
Foppe posted...
I cant even imaginate people eating stuff before they pay.

you probably haven't been poor enough to need to do that
TopicGOP want to raise retirement age
famfam
03/13/23 10:20:40 AM
#22
they want you do work 5 years younger as well
TopicIs it bad to hook up with someone much younger than you?
famfam
03/13/23 9:20:49 AM
#9
depends on how old you are
TopicYellen: No federal bailout for collapsed Silicon Valley Bank
famfam
03/12/23 12:30:14 PM
#3
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nope, we don't want them to bail them out. fine with me.
TopicCrypto is about to collapse. "Stable" coin USDC is now worth $0.91
famfam
03/11/23 10:04:10 AM
#16
thronedfire2 posted...
it only still has value because not everyone is selling yet. If more people start trying to sell it will plummet, but Im guessing its being held up by people who bought it at higher than 20k

so like every other investment?
TopicBaby mauled by family's FIVE pit bulls, father charged
famfam
03/11/23 8:54:01 AM
#41
St0rmFury posted...
Why the hell do you need FIVE pitbulls?!

well apparently it wasn't enough to murder an innocent baby, so I guess he needed more
TopicKorea proposes increase in work from 52 hours to up to 69 hours per week
famfam
03/10/23 11:00:37 AM
#7
nice
TopicHershey's has jumped on plant-based crazy. Vegan chocolate?!
famfam
03/10/23 10:52:29 AM
#8
[LFAQs-redacted-quote]


think about how people are treated when they say they are vegan here (or anywhere on the internet)

TopicTopless maid earns over $2000 a day.
famfam
03/10/23 7:28:42 AM
#65
The_Wheelman1 posted...
Is a dangerous job in a way that she has a very high chance of being sexually assaulted. So i can see the money being reasonable.

No more than any other service where you're alone with someone in their home. And those jobs don't pay nearly as much.
TopicMexican drug cartel has apologized for death of Americans
famfam
03/09/23 7:09:26 PM
#27
gmanthebest posted...
What a bunch of nice people, apologizing for killing people. I'm sure they'll handle punishing the one responsible internally

they literally turned them in to the authorities
TopicTopless maid earns over $2000 a day.
famfam
03/09/23 4:45:13 PM
#51
Master_Bass posted...
Total rip off then. RIP lonely men with messy houses.

they are getting what they are paying for.
TopicMexican drug cartel has apologized for death of Americans
famfam
03/09/23 3:46:23 PM
#6
imagine fucking up so bad that a cartel says you have to go to jail
TopicHomophobe Who Spray Painted Groomer On Libraries Now Charged For Child Porn
famfam
03/09/23 11:53:36 AM
#8
Seaman_Prime posted...
A former school librarian? Fucking hell.

book him
TopicDo you like going to the strip club?
famfam
03/09/23 11:53:05 AM
#22
it's meh to me. have been a few times (couple of times with friends, including my bachelor party with my best man, and on my own once).

I prefer massages personally, where you can get some actual contact/enjoyment
TopicWhat's this? A raunchy comedy movie in 2023? No Hard Feelings trailer
famfam
03/09/23 11:51:52 AM
#20
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No one is pretending that and i'm sure 99% of people would agree that would be problematic. You realize two different things that are similar can still be different, right? Are you really going to sit here and pretend you don't understand the social differences between men and women in American society that create different situations when the sexes are flipped?
TopicITT: Give me prompts to create your own Waifu
famfam
03/09/23 9:09:23 AM
#22
short girl with brown hair and glasses in a wheelchair
TopicNBA All-Star has been booked in an alleged drive-by shooting
famfam
03/09/23 9:02:14 AM
#12
looks like he still has no shot from long range
TopicWhy is inflation so bad right now?
famfam
03/07/23 2:43:54 PM
#17
papercup posted...
Businesses are just price gouging cus they can.

a lot of it is this
Topic"You're corny if you date white women."
famfam
03/06/23 1:10:12 PM
#9
you're corny if you care about who other people want to date and catch feelings over it
TopicI think Trump is starting to lose popularity
famfam
03/06/23 10:28:08 AM
#4
there's a poll where he's at like 43% and DeSantis is 2nd at like 27%. He's in the lead for the nomination, and everyone will fall in line when they need to.
TopicNYPD now wants shoppers to take off face masks before entering stores
famfam
03/06/23 10:26:40 AM
#9
cops aren't allowed to shoot you or beat you to death anymore, so now they want to use covid to kill you?
TopicIt's cheaper to just buy professional porn now
famfam
03/06/23 8:55:37 AM
#3
damn people setting the price for their work
TopicThey say they hate furries but you find THIS.
famfam
03/05/23 7:59:42 AM
#8
what that tongue do
TopicAnime girl got a whole bakery
famfam
03/05/23 7:54:28 AM
#7
*insert buns joke*

*insert insert in buns joke*
TopicGot a 3.43/5.00 on my first annual performance review, is that bad?
famfam
03/02/23 4:05:51 PM
#22
yeah I guess I just have to set my expectations appropriately going forward (I know what to expect now), and then need to focusing on getting that $$ next time
TopicGot a 3.43/5.00 on my first annual performance review, is that bad?
famfam
03/02/23 2:32:13 PM
#7
divot1338 posted...
They usually do that unless youre literally the best employee theyve ever seen.

That way there is a baseline comparison between you and someone whos been there awhile, knows how to do everything and is very good.

Dont worry unless the next one is also 3 or less.

well i'm hoping for a 4 next time..
TopicGot a 3.43/5.00 on my first annual performance review, is that bad?
famfam
03/02/23 1:53:44 PM
#5
Smashingpmkns posted...
I've worked for companies that had a rule where they wouldn't give out a perfect score, because that would mean there was no room for improvement. I had a new manager once that didn't know this rule and gave a perfect score to me and another person, then had to retract that score after learning about the rule lol

Tbh these performance evaluations don't mean shit unless they're associated with a raise.

yep no raise no promotion this time. I am thinking this summer will be more likely to be a time to get one/both of those (informal reviews then).

My company has a whole calibration process for different managers'/teams' scoring because it is all over the place. Oh well.
TopicGot a 3.43/5.00 on my first annual performance review, is that bad?
famfam
03/02/23 1:52:46 PM
#4
omniryu posted...
Sounds like your average. Maybe you're good. Maybe your boss don't want to give you what you're worth so they won't give you a raise so they can get a bonus. Maybe you are just average. What do you so that make you stick out from the others?

Just had the meeting. She stated that I'm one of the few members on the team who knows how to do dashboards, which are among the most complex types of projects we work on. She said learning that at 6 months in is much, much faster than typical (and many people on the team who have been there longer don't know how to do them at all, and she'd say people who do learn them wouldn't learn them for maybe then another 6 months into their tenure). So, for that category, I'd say that I'm exceeding expectations (4), and maybe even far exceeding expectations (5) given that I've done them in half the time of the few employees who have been doing them. I think I gave myself like a 4 or 4.5 on that. She gave me a 3.5 in the relevant category.

The way I see it, there was a lot of "you do this much better/faster than people when they've been here a similar amount of it", but then I'd be getting 3s or 3.5s. I feel like she was providing a steady scale across all employees, even when expectations are not constant across employees.

My issue, I think, is with a scale based on "expectations". Inherently, this type of scale has a need to be fair across employees for all reasons, but on the other hand, it's not really reasonable to say that we are going to normalize "expectations" to be some constant bar, when your expectations should (in my opinion) be weighed somewhat based on how long people have been their, their experience in the field, their academic experience, past work, etc.

I think the primary issue is that the scale itself is problematic, we had different ways of interpreting/using the scales.

The content of what strengths/weaknesses I have, and the specific areas to work on were highly correlated between her review and my self-evaluation, and I have worked a lot in the past couple of months (this is a very long, drawn out process, so these things are actually kind of out-of-date) in those particular areas, so I think I'm a stronger researcher for it.
TopicGot a 3.43/5.00 on my first annual performance review, is that bad?
famfam
03/02/23 12:52:37 PM
#1
3.00 is "meeting expectations", so 3.43 is supposedly above what is expected of me.

But 3.43/5.00 "feels" bad tbh. Also, its significantly lower than what I rated myself (although our open-ended feedback pointed at almost identical sets of strengths/weaknesses, which is a good sign, I think). But, I also feel like that's my own bias in how I would score things (I feel like 4/5 is what I'd call good, and 3/5 would be average).

Meeting with my boss in 10 minutes for our meeting about the evaluations.
Topic"Here's why there's no such thing as trans genocide."
famfam
03/02/23 9:04:04 AM
#31
ROOTFayth posted...
I wish all things transgender would stop being on the news, its such a minority, its taking waaaay too much space atm

so many things to tackle that are far more important, just let em do whatever they want as long as they arent hurting anybody its whatever

yeah, that's kind of what trans people want, but the people who are stopping them keep putting them in the news
TopicDo you think regular or polyamorous sex is better?
famfam
03/02/23 7:39:30 AM
#2
"let me ask a bunch of virgins why they aren't having sex with more people than they are now"
TopicBiden admin lawyer may have saved student loan forgiveness plan at Supreme Court
famfam
03/01/23 4:45:17 PM
#3
hope they win (for the sake of my wife, mainly - I paid mine)
TopicSo why do women want to work and have a career?
famfam
03/01/23 8:50:42 AM
#14
"Why do people want to have food, shelter, and financial independence? I don't get it."
TopicI hope that when the supreme court allows Student Loan Cancelation...
famfam
02/28/23 4:37:55 PM
#25
Iodine posted...
Serious question, how would the Biden admin press this further if the supreme court were to void it?

packing the courts push
TopicFlorida Republicans introduce a bill to eliminate the Democratic Party
famfam
02/28/23 4:32:20 PM
#8
pretty smart tbh lol
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