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Met mine on POF, and married her.
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maoriwarrior posted...

maoriwarrior posted...

maoriwarrior posted...

Bumpity mcbump

Cuz why not
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maoriwarrior posted...

maoriwarrior posted...

Bumpity mcbump

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maoriwarrior posted...

Bumpity mcbump

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Harpie posted...

One, but he needs to shave that goatee

Really? I quite like it
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maoriwarrior posted...

Bumpity mcbump

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Bumpity mcbump
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gatorsPENSbucs posted...

2 same guys but you took away the red hair?

Nah two different guys yo
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https://imgur.com/a/kRzeg
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-_-

Ok I'll make a new topic I guess lmao
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Sami1000 posted...

Close your account

K
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vbty3 posted...

Wtf is this??

Who knows

Chad-Henne posted...

I guess the second one, because he doesn't have troll-doll hair

Word
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https://imgur.com/a/i9i6j
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Bump for more hot or nots
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vbty3 posted...

You're cute. And I'm not joking. Not "friend" cute, but the kind of "cute" my female friends say they wanna get with.

Right on!

garrspete posted...

maoriwarrior posted...

garrspete posted...

You look like that gay kid from shameless

Ian? Ya I hear that a lot

So no, you're pretty creepy looking

:(
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garrspete posted...

You look like that gay kid from shameless

Ian? Ya I hear that a lot
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Feline_Heart posted...

You look like you'd be a drummer in a band

I can actually drum lol
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JlM posted...

Gotta have a better face pic, man.

Added
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https://imgur.com/a/98eq6
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WizardPowers posted...

You kinda look like the guy that played Shaggy in the Scooby Doo movies

Kewl
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Water, coffee, and like 3-4 sodas a day (diet)
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ssj3vegeta_ posted...

Place it up your butt first, den when you two are in public drop yer pants, ask her to marry you with your butt facing her. If she says yes den tell her to place her finger in

Thank you so much! We have a winner!
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DarthAragorn posted...

Well I wouldn't know one if I've never heard of it before, would I

-_-

I mean uncommon lol
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Something unique that you haven't heard of before when it comes to proposing. Or, ways that you have thought of that haven't been done before.
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Paladins
Tea
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Axiom posted...

You guys are being way too dramatic about this "First choice" nonsense. Breaking up with someone because you aren't their ideal mate even though they genuinely love you is so asinine

As for the night of dancing it's not wrong for you to have been jealous or hurt but I also don't think it's that big of a deal and it's not like she was doing it to purposely to hurt you. In her mind she probably thought it wouldn't bother you since he's completely gay so you should talk to her if you haven't already. I didn't completely read the full topic so if you already solved this good on you

Also the guy sounds pretty awesome from that one post

True. I'll have a chat with her at some point. She has prioritized me ever since I dumped her, besides the texting side of things. So who knows.
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Steve Nick posted...

Most people are missing the point. It's not about being a 'second chance' or whatever.

It's the fact that CURRENTLY your girlfriend STILL prioritizes someone else over you. That shouldn't be the case.

And, like I said she hasn't. N
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ArchiePeck posted...

Good job, TC.

It was rough, but worth it for sure.
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dragnmaninferno posted...

Ya TC you are cute. Believe in yourself.

Thanks man
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MabusIncarnate posted...

Nice job man, you should be confident. You are a good looking guy.

Thanks man!
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leverageblargh posted...

If someone put the before/after in front of me and asked if it's the same person in both pics I would have to think about it

Ya most people have told me that honestly
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Cj_WlLL_VVlN posted...

And I really dislike his character and look in the later seasons. Used to be one of my favorites and part of my distaste for him and association with his character might have colored my opinion.

Lucky me lmao
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Cj_WlLL_VVlN posted...

I mean not really. Maybe grow your hair or facial hair. Maybe put on some muscle.

Im not sure whats putting me off but you have a dumb look on your face in all the pics and look like you do meth. Figured an adult hair cut and maybe some facial hair would fix those issues.

Kind of remind me of Ian from shameless when he's dancing in the gay bars.

I get told I look like Ian all the time
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Cj_WlLL_VVlN posted...

5/10 not hideous/ not hot.

@Cj_WlLL_VVlN any recommendations?

Ultima Dragon posted...

That's awesome dude. How long were you overweight before you decided to make the change?

I'm straight but can honestly say you're a pretty good looking dude. You're toned up and look like you don't really have a problem with loose skin like people that have lost a lot of weight seem to. I don't think anyone would be able to tell.

I was overweight for like 6-7 years man. And thanks! I got loose skin that will droop, but it's not noticeable at all when I stand up.
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armandro posted...

What advice do you have for the fat people that complain about being fat?

To quit bitching and do something about it. That's literally what I did. Doc said I was fat. I got pissed, bitched about it, and then never looked back.
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dragnmaninferno posted...

Nothing wrong bro. You are cute. 7.5 is a great score.

Cool, thanks man.

Offworlder1 posted...

Good job losing the weight and gaining muscle, just remember to be yourself even after a great change.

I'll never not be myself my friend. Gotta stay humble no doubt.
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PoopPotato posted...

Nice gloves

:)

dragnmaninferno posted...

You are kinda cute.

7.5/10

Hmm. That's a bit lower than I normally get. Any suggestions @dragnmaninferno
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Bump for more rates fam
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Pogo_Marimo posted...

I don't want to sound ignorant, but you don't look like a maori warrior.

It's an odd story haha
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faizan_faizan posted...

Great job on the weight loss but didn't you post these exact same images before?

Some. I've lost more weight since then :)
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Asherlee10 posted...

which one is the before?

The ones where I'm heavier. I'll post my biggest pic in a sec, it didn't upload :/
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Never had astounding confidence, but I've had some good compliments. My highest weight was 300lbs

https://imgur.com/a/rnul6
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Here's a pic of me for reference




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SpiralDrift posted...

maoriwarrior posted...

SpiralDrift posted...

I could never be happy being someone's second choice. I probably wouldn't immediately end it, but I would make preparations and eventually move on. There's nothing worse than feeling less important than someone else to the person you love most.

That's the thing though, identifying who is the first choice. Things have radically changed since that night. I've been number one. I savagely broke up with her that night it all went down, so idk what to think anymore.

Tbh it sounds like this is just the beginning of a prolonged and dramatic emotional struggle.

I know you mean with the relationship, but who is the source of that potential problem?
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SpiralDrift posted...

I could never be happy being someone's second choice. I probably wouldn't immediately end it, but I would make preparations and eventually move on. There's nothing worse than feeling less important than someone else to the person you love most.

That's the thing though, identifying who is the first choice. Things have radically changed since that night. I've been number one. I savagely broke up with her that night it all went down, so idk what to think anymore.
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ClockworkHare posted...

It's cute that you're this trusting and a lot of times that's alright. But sometimes when the girlfriend says she's got a gay guy friend she spends A LOT of time with...he's actually bi/pan/llama/whatever and she knows it. That's the point.

Does this guy ever interact with you too?
Would you consider him a friend or acquaintance to you as well?
Obviously he's not going to automatically be a BFF with you like he is with her.
The point is does he ever initiate socializing with you? Has he tried?

Because if the answer's no: red flag.

You're his friend's boyfriend, he should want to try socializing with you at some point because you're a part of her life. If he doesn't and he's had plenty of opportunities being in the same room, that's suspicious. I mean maybe he's just super shy, but I've known even shy guys try to say hi to their friend's SO at least once to break ice. And the girlfriend should be doing her part trying to get you guys to chat anyway to make sure these parts of her life are compatible. If she doesn't make a couple attempts...that's strange. Women want to make pieces fit. If they're not trying, something's up.

I'm a legit gay guy with a bf and female friends. I'm also friends with their boyfriends because they're good guys. I alert them when I catch one of the girls straying (just like I would tell the girls if I saw one of their men cheating). You know why? Because I occasionally chat with the boyfriends too. We're on good terms, we interact. You get what I'm saying?

If this dude doesn't interact with you at all or at least invite you along to hang out as her bf once in a while and only wants to spend time with her



Now a red flag doesn't absolutely mean the worst is happening. It's just a sign to check on. A lot of the situation could be nothing more than coincidence. Maybe the guy really is gay and they're just friends. If he's already friendly with you, that sounds good. But do your job as the boyfriend and get to know her friends at least on a basic level so you get some of those lingering questions answered without having to start an argument. Get some interaction in there, be sociable. That is your job if you want relationship security, do it. The possibility of making friends with them too is just a bonus. You should be able to do all of that without making drama or pissing off the gf. 2 birds, 1 stone. That's what you have to get in the habit of doing if you want to keep a relationship running.

I got my own work cut out for me sometimes keeping guy whores away from my man and fidelity is a challenge as is among gay men. I know wtf I'm talking about. We're going on 3.5 years living together without an open relationship. For gay men living near a city in the US, that's impressive. You don't get that by avoiding your SO's social circle. You dive into it. You have to.

Oh for sure. In the few times I've met him (three times actually) my GF has been with me. He invited to his place and we played halo. He offered to buy me a switch too :)

Like I said, she has spent 99% of her time with me. She talks about me constantly to him, and he's super happy for her. He even trusted me with coming out. He's never told anyone else that before.
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E32005 posted...

Just sit down and talk to her but I know you won't take that advice

I will if the feeling persists or when it's a good time.
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I'm confident she text him more then me, but check this out.

She sends him screenshots of our conversations, and vice versa. I just read some texts between her and him where she says she's never felt this way with anyone else and how everything is so right (much more romantically and to the point). She even told him that she doesn't deserve me in any way shape or form.

The feelings are there, which totally helps.
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