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I'm 28 if anything.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

I suddenly feel curious about paying for sex. Im 28 and i havent done that in my life before.

How does it feels to have sex with someone as a paid service, without any attachment or feelings at all? Is it any exciting at all? or does it get boring after a while?

I've had casual sex before a few times, but there was usually at least a little bit of chemistry/connection on those times. im Currently dating a new girl since the beginning of the month (First month will be on Sep 03) so i kinda feel like trying something a bit different, just out of curiosity.

Is it any nice at all? or will i just regret/see it as wasted money?
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5'10 / 168lbs

178cms / 76 kgs
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

6 exact inches.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

I'm dating a new girl and after going out 3 times i noticed she eats really really small portions. She is a skinny girl (5'3/160cms and 108lbs/49kgs).

I used to date a girl during the last 6 months and she could usually eat fair/normal portions for her body/weight (She was average in any case) so going out to eat was never a problem since 99% of the time we could go whenever we wanted or choose. In fact, we both had a knack for going out and eating, then hitting my place during all that time we dated, it was a very integral part of our relationship.

As for this new girl, she cant eat much and that means buying her a common plate/dish/portion of whatever we eat would be a waste since she roughly eats 30-35% of it at best, which means i have to help her finish (that happened those 3 times we went to eat something, she couldnt finish, so she asked me to help her with that)

Now, some people make think this could be an advantage since i will spend less food money on her, which is true, but at the same time the truth is right now money is not a major problem for me so going out to eat is something i do like doing, but in this case, this means i will feel kinda limited due to the fact she cant eat much.

I could always just buy a portion and give her a bit of it, but that means i would have to eat less, and of course, it will be a bit very awkward just to buy one portion/dinner and sharing a little bit to my girlfriend, at least people will think im pretty stingy or something like that lol.

Anything i could do about this? Would it be crazy/stupid to think this could actually affect the relationship at some point?

And for those wondering, she doesnt have weight problems or stuff like anoxeria at all, she just eats very little (even if she doesnt eat anything at lunch or during the day, all those 3 times we met were at night and she told me she barely ate anything during the day).
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Absolutely
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Once an ex, always an ex. Even if you started dating again for whatever reason, chances are the relationship wont last. You broke up for a reason and to be honest, this time you will last even a shorter time with her compared to your previous relationship with her (even if you are not to blame for anything)
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

I have been dating a girl since 5 months ago and its been quite a pleasant/nice relationship, however today she told me her manager talked to her and his employees about a few work positions overseas (She works in the culinary/gastronomy field).

She just made the comment and said it wasnt even sure, but there is a high chance she will most likely take the job if the opportunity is given (Her situation is rather modest and she does works hard indeed so it would be a decent boost to her to her salary and stuff, which is kinda the opposite of me since im in a much more comfortable position)

Assuming she was eventually going to take it no matter what... should i start to moving on slowly from her or just wait until there is an official confirmation that she will go? We like each other a lot but i think none of us would want a long distance relationship.

At first i think i should just keep enjoying my time with her but at the same time im not sure if i will regret not moving one from now and opening my chances with other potential girls in the time being (assuming this would be inevitable). This may or may not happen in the next 30 to 45 days as reference.

For those who have been in similar situations before, what did you do?
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Most people say Kamoshida was actually the Plot's peak, with a noticeable decline due to Okumura.
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Persona 4
Water
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

5'10

172lbs
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Ask her which year she graduated high school from. She most likely graduated at the age of 17-19, so make it an average of 18, then just add until our current year.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Wow im on the same boat as you, im 28 and half and back during my 21-22's i thought 30 would have been a good age to marry (based on my expectations-lifestyle) but now that im close to 30, i decided to delay it 2 years (32)
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Been dating a girl for some time, she was kinda open so she didnt have a problem having sex the 2nd week after we started dating, but eventually i noticed something. She never really tried to go down on me, until i tried to go down on here and then she stopped me "Please dont do that"

Turns out she doesnt really like oral sex because she gets grossed/has a weak stomach. I noticed that because certain foods make her stomach revolve a bit. In fact, i did ask her to give it a try for a few seconds that time, but she almost threw up. She said she didnt want me to go down on her because "It would be gross for her if i kissed her with the same mouth i gave her an oral" as well.

What should i do in this case? things are pretty fine and the sex is ok, but we are kinda missing something that is pretty crucial/enjoyable during foreplay, even if we are just not gonna have sex. Im shaved/trimmed down there if anything so its not like there was a forest down there and that grossed her out.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Let's assume i was a Cardiologist and a person who just suffered a stroke/heart attack came into emergencies and needed an emergency procedure/surgery or whatever, but then you realize the person in question was someone who gave you a hard time during your youth days (Bully or something like that)

To add some more drama on it, lets assume that person actually physically assaulted me before once or twice.

What happens in that case? Are doctors really forced to save/help anybody because of their Oath? Im pretty sure they cant just say "I wont save this person because he was a dick with me in the past" but what exactly happens in this case? Do they transfer the patient so someone else does the job?
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Well, everybody talks about both shows a lot and stuff, point is i never had the chance to really get into them

I never watched GOT at all, but i saw people talking about it all the time. As for TWD, i did watch the first 3 seasons but for some odd reason i never continued watching it

I heard GOT is basically a "Hit or Miss" show, that i would either love it or totally dislike it, and as for TWD, is it any worth to catch up with it? someone told me the show's quality has dropped dramatically by now. (I think they are on the 7th or 8th season, right?)
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

I work at my City's state University since 2015 and well, being around the college environment, i got to meet and date a few girls since i started working here, most of them being usually between the ages of 19-22, nothing out of the ordinary here, right?

Last December i met a girl around campus when she was sitting somewhere organizing some paper work to apply for the college (Classes starts on February but they gotta start their paperwork on December usually). Anyway, she told me she was 17 (Becomes 18 in July) which means she graduated from school kinda early, she didn't mind me being 28 (I never lie about my age anyway) so we kinda talked, exchanged numbers and parted our ways.

A few days ago I texted her and we agreed to meet somewhere (We met in the campus but then went somewhere else to grab something). We kinda got along great and i didn't really expected to prey or put my eyes on her that directly, but the vibe was kinda right and we ended up making out for a while.

For those wondering how that happened, well my face hasn't really changed since i became 20 so i still look as someone in his very early 20s, besides i happen to have a pretty strong voice, and it seems a few girls find that attractive so that's why i get lucky every now and then.

In any case, i never expected to make-out with a girl under 18 at this stage (The biggest gap i ever had about making out/dating a girl was my last one, i was still 27 and she was 19, so that would be a 8-year difference) and i have a 11-year difference with this one.

We just made out and stuff, but she is not my girlfriend or anything, we didn't agree anything about that. I guess i should just wait until she becomes 18 to try something but in any case, how should i feel that i kissed a minor and also a girl 11 years younger than me?
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!