I just turned 42 and haven't lost mine. Glad that you managed to find someone though. Be thankful you didn't turn out like me.
I am you. I just got lucky. That's all. I have no social life. I'd go home watch porn and play vide games till 3am.You're clearly doing far better, but I'm happy for you regardless.
Glad your relationship is going well, that being said I think society puts too much emphasis on sex and whether or not you have had it.
As a virgin myself, I have to ask: was it worth it?In the end, it isn't about the sex itself (although that can be great) but everything else that comes with it
As a virgin myself, I have to ask: was it worth it?
If it was a hook up? No. Both of us'd be leaving not happy. But since both of us are virgins it was. My life hasn't changed a bit. I still am insecure and anxious. I still have no confidence either.
Id say congrats out of social obligation but given tcs anxiety I think Ill just be honest. I dont know why anyone cares about virginity. Like seriously, this is not omg Ive wasted x number of years not doing this levels of pleasure, guys. The cultural obsession with this is just sillyI can't speak for anyone else, but for me, it's not so much the act of having sex that I crave as much as the feeling that someone could ever give a shit about me by choice and would want to be around me
I dont have any. I got lucky and found a woman who was in the same boat as me. We had a lot of chemistry.Honestly, this is the best part. I lost my virginity at 16, but thats not brag worthy IMO. I lost it to someone I was in love with and she was in love with me. The fact that we cared about each other is what was important. Whether the sex was good or not doesnt matter (we were both virgins too) its having that experience with someone youre comfortable with that makes it special.
If it was a hook up? No. Both of us'd be leaving not happy. But since both of us are virgins it was. My life hasn't changed a bit. I still am insecure and anxious. I still have no confidence either.Well hopefully the insecurity, anxiety and lack of confidence start to improve now that you have a girlfriend. It's not an instant fix to mental health, but it does help still to have someone that's willing to be in your corner like that.
Well hopefully the insecurity, anxiety and lack of confidence start to improve now that you have a girlfriend. It's not an instant fix to mental health, but it does help still to have someone that's willing to be in your corner like that.
And yeah, the first time usually isn't that great. But as with everything in life, you learn as you go and get better. And having a caring, long term partner is a great way to learn and grow.
im almost 39 and still a virgin so ha i win
Did you say when you will see her again?
Shes my girlfriend not a one night stand.Did I imply that at all? Normal question. Jeez
Did I imply that at all? Normal question. Jeez
You asked when I see her tho. I assumed you thought she was a one night.No, I asked when you will see her next. Some people who are dating seeing each other every couple days, others once a week, etc. It is a normal question, especially if you might be going for round 2
No, I asked when you will see her next. Some people who are dating seeing each other every couple days, others once a week, etc. It is a normal question, especially if you might be going for round 2
If it was one night, I wouldn't ask "when". That makes no sense
https://youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o
Nobody lasts long their first time come on man dont be shy.
Was it like warm apple pie?
Nobody lasts long their first time come on man dont be shy.I didn't even finish my first couple of times. My nerves were all over the place and having sex with a partner feels completely different than having sex alone.
Yeah it was also a struggle to keep it...y'know? My intrusive thoughts also got to me "Oh god I cant...does this mean I dont find her attractive?! Does she think I find her unattractive?!"
Yeah it was very, very wet.
Were you able to finish? I couldn't.
I did way too fast. Total time was 3 1/2 hours of cuddling and stuff before actual stuff and then it was over in seconds.
Is Akon still around? He was kinda big when I was a teenager but I haven't heard about him in ages.Last I heard he was doing some legitimately outstanding work in Africa with clean drinking water initiatives.
Was the hole lower than you thought it'd be?Reliving my first time now.
and also a virgin but shes been with a woman
Nobody lasts long their first time come on man dont be shy.