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I remember sitting in on an interview that another manager was conducting. There was a guy around 30 being interviewed who brought another older man with him. The older guy introduced himself by name, but didn't really explain the relationship between the two.

The older man completely blew the interview for the actual applicant. The actual manager doing the hiring was a younger woman, who was dressed in business appropriate attire. I was wearing jeans and a long sleeved t shirt. For reasons that I'm going to assume were sexist/ageist the dude only questioned me despite me clearly not running the interview. He kept asking about other positions that might be available that had nothing to do with the graphic design one that the interview was for. Shit was bizarre.

A few weeks later the applicant called in to ask about the status. I was transferred the phone call because the other manager was out that day. I told him that we went with another choice. I did take the opportunity to ask who the other guy was. Turns out the applicant lived in a halfway house and the guy was essentially his escort to make sure he wasn't out getting into trouble. I mentioned that next time he might want to leave him in the lobby. Living at a halfway house is fine. Bringing a rude guest into the interview is not helpful for getting a job though.
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-BrokenSpiral- posted...
... Bringing your parents though?

It's virtual interviews, which means they aren't actually bringing their parents anywhere. It just means they live with their parents, at all.

And of those people who live with their parents, only 26% have their parents in the same room while they virtual interview.

And of that 26% of people who virtual interview with their parents in the same room, only 29% actually had the parent appear on camera at all, even if they were only in the corner and said nothing at all

This story is such a hilarious nothingburger
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I hate articles like this. I strongly feel there is a lot of context and key information they're leaving out for the dual purposes of clicks and shitting on zoomers.
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Enclave posted...
Why are so many of you falling for the generational divide propaganda? We all hated the absolute nonsense bullshit that would be written about us millennials so why are you lapping it up when it attacks zoomers or gen alpha?

I don't think anyone is viewing this as a widescale thing. The article itself is clearly fudging a bunch of stuff to make it seem like a pattern but we can still talk about the behavior itself being absurd.
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specialkid8 posted...
I do do this?n't think anyone is viewing this as a widescale thing. The article itself is clearly fudging a bunch of stuff to make it seem like a pattern but we can still talk about the behavior itself being absurd.
Talking about the behavior that is done by an extreme minority and being misrepresented is exactly what the people who wrote the article want. "But wouldn't kids today suck if they did do this?" is not a productive conversation.
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So the article was a bunch of bullshit and people jumped at it anyway. Doing so much better than our boomer parents everyone, nice job
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Gwynevere posted...
So the article was a bunch of bullshit and people jumped at it anyway. Doing so much better than our boomer parents everyone, nice job

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Doe posted...
Is it millennials's turn to lap up articles about how bad the new generation is

We're certainly getting there, however I personally refuse to continue the generational abuse that is shitting on the younger generations for merely existing and trying to find their own way.

If this somehow works in their favor and the employer doesn't look unfavorably upon them for it, then hey, more power to them.

Society likes to talk about seeking wisdom from their elders and the implied intent (haven't read the actual article) seems to shame them for that very notion.
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Some HR people on social media have been saying the same thing, and I agree with it. It essentially boils down to:

"If you can't interview without your parents, then I'm going to assume you can't work without them either."

The fact that some in this topic are trying to defend it is just... Dang, how sheltered ARE you??? xD
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Umbreon posted...
We are not immune to propaganda.
This board seems to pounce on anything gen Z related no matter how obviously bullshit it is

It just seems strange when a gen gets shit on for being themselves and then they start doing the same thing to those younger than them
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If that happened at my office they'd literally be laughed out of the office.
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lennethsoki posted...
The fact that some in this topic are trying to defend it is just... Dang, how sheltered ARE you??? xD

Oftentimes "sheltered" = "being loved and supported".

lennethsoki posted...
"If you can't interview without your parents, then I'm going to assume you can't work without them either."

Nonsense. Possibly having anxiety over something as important as a job interview doesn't translate into job performance. There are people who interview terribly and are great employees, as well as vice versa.

As long as the parent isn't the one actually doing the interview for them, I see nothing wrong with having that moral support.

The parent can also be beneficial if the interviewer is trying to lie during the interview process with something say a first-time employee has never experienced and their parent has experienced plenty of times during their past interviews/employment.

I've never had a parent for an interview, however if I did and someone was trying to feed me some bullshit about how "we have to pay you shit because that's the standard" and my dad/mom was like "actually it's not, you're trying to undercut my son on what they should be paid" then that seems like a good thing.

HR representatives/interviewing managers are some of the most bullshit people around who will gladly lie to your face for their company's benefit.
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ssb_yunglink2 posted...
This board seems to pounce on anything gen Z related no matter how obviously bullshit it is

It just seems strange when a gen gets shit on for being themselves and then they start doing the same thing to those younger than them


They say abused people often pick up habits from their abuser.
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Persona posted...
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Lmao love that movie
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Kradek posted...
The parent can also be beneficial if the interviewer is trying to lie during the interview process with something say a first-time employee has never experienced and their parent has experienced plenty of times during their past interviews.


If I were a betting man, I'd say this is part of the reason why some companies are trying to shut this down. Imagine trying to get illegal information (That a young person trying to get their first job) out of someone, only for their more experienced parent to inform them said question is illegal to ask.
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BignutzisBack posted...
Work at a large clinic, my boss was talking about this a few weeks ago. I guess they've had multiple applicants doing this and are absolutely gobsmacked by it lol. If it happens this often in the middle of bum fuck Arkansas I'm sure it's a borderline nationwide epidemic

Good recruiters deserve it.

Maybe stop making ridiculpus interviews
lennethsoki posted...
Some HR people on social media have been saying the same thing, and I agree with it. It essentially boils down to:

"If you can't interview without your parents, then I'm going to assume you can't work without them either."

The fact that some in this topic are trying to defend it is just... Dang, how sheltered ARE you??? xD
Maybe someone should have been with you to read the topic and tell you what was actually happening.
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As a Gen Z, thats wild and they need to grow beyond mommy and daddy.
So far, 2021 has been 2020.1.
people in here literally defending insecure corpos

if you're scared of a parent seeing literally anything about your business then you're a scheisty ass sketchfest and you're saving the kid time turning em away
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no y'all trying to pretend the point is about independence and not defending scheistyness but you ain't fooling me with your corpo crying

you're also literally insulting special needs people who do have escorts to work as well, as if that isn't already a totally real situation that shouldn't be treated as inherently mockable
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Hypnospace posted...
Oh shut the fuck up. You know damn well we're not talking about special needs people and haven't the entire topic.
The only people who wanted to talk about bringing parents to in-person interviews were people who didn't look at the article and/or wanted to shit on zoomers.
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corpo crying, shocker

you move the goal post from "well if you want to avoid a shady interview you're gonna need someone with you at work all the time aren't you" as if that isn't a totally okay thing some people already need, pretty sad to cry when I call that out as bullshit
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Probably because the parents know the employers will try to scam or underpay naive children.

Maybe employers need to stop being disgusting selfish lizard people
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Hypnospace posted...
Oh shut the fuck up. You know damn well we're not talking about special needs people and haven't the entire topic.

Look at how many times he's posted "corpo" lol, dude thinks he's Johnny Silverhand defending manchildren from the evil Arasaka CE posters

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This is just another example of a larger social shift that's been happening for at least a generation: kids are staying kids longer. I don't have an opinion on whether it's good or bad, it just is what it is.
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BignutzisBack posted...
Look at how many times he's posted "corpo" lol, dude thinks he's Johnny Silverhand defending manchildren from the evil Arasaka CE posters
lol that was my first thought too. Dude keeps using that word like it actually means something. The real world is going to be very difficult for him.
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Umbreon posted...
I don't see why they can't have an interview where a young person has a parent in their corner.
That actually makes sense.

I was thinking it was like, the parents can answer the questions for them if they don't know, which is obviously ridiculous. But being there to ask the questions the kid wouldn't think of is actually probably a really good idea.
There's a difference between canon and not-stupid.
What are the parents supposed to do at the interview, answer questions for the kid? Just sit there looking stupid?

I can't imagine this not being a huge red flag for any employer. If the potential employee can't go to an interview without a parent, there could be some deeper issues going on.
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Heavy_D_Forever posted...
lol that was my first thought too. Dude keeps using that word like it actually means something. The real world is going to be very difficult for him.
tbf the real world shows you that a lot of corporate people really suck
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Hypnospace posted...
Is this topic about special needs people or is it about an entire generation of people

Again, we've already established that the article is bullshit, but it shouldn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that we've been talking about adults that are expected to attain independence and cannot have an adult with them every single time they need a big boy task done.

And your logic is stupid. What "sketchy tactics" would a parent catch onto in an interview that an adult wouldn't
Trying to act like someone between the ages of 18-21 should have the same level of experience as their parent is weird.
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Hypnospace posted...
And your logic is stupid. What "sketchy tactics" would a parent catch onto in an interview that an adult wouldn't

"what would someone who's been working for years know about work that someone headed for their first real job wouldn't"

yep, I'm the one thinking stupid
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you can hate kids and love corps and business all you want, I tried taking you to school and you refuse to learn
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YoBlazer posted...
This is just another example of a larger social shift that's been happening for at least a generation: kids are staying kids longer. I don't have an opinion on whether it's good or bad, it just is what it is.
I am happy for them considering I had to grow up at like 10 years old
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LeoRavus posted...
What are the parents supposed to do at the interview, answer questions for the kid? Just sit there looking stupid?

I can't imagine this not being a huge red flag for any employer. If the potential employee can't go to an interview without a parent, there could be some deeper issues going on.

So employers cant underpay kids and wont trick them into MLM, scams, cults, etc?
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Hypnospace posted...
MLMs don't even have interviews
Cutco has interviews.
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Hypnospace posted...
What jobs are you guys fucking applying to that are tricking people into MLMs? MLMs don't even have interviews

Yes they do. I used to be part of Primerica and a big portion of the day was interviewing people.

I think you're confusing MLM, which are businesses that offer legitimate services/products, with pyramid schemes, which is literally just "you give me money so I make money and the people you recruit give you money so you make money, however we never actually do anything". People often use the terms interchangeably, however the tangible difference is one offers a legitimate product/service while the other is purely centered around making money through recruiting.
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Hypnospace posted...
What do you actually think goes through the minds of employers

"Oh gosh, we better not have that parent in the room, they might think we're not paying their child enough"

And it never once dawned on you that the interviewee could literally tell their parents what they were asked about (which is an almost guaranteed outcome anyway)
Nah he thinks an adult needs to be coddled like a toddler and never grow the fuck up or learn how to stand on their own two feet. Im all for accepting help from your parents post high school graduation but mommy and daddy should not be doing the adulting for you.
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Hypnospace posted...
What do you actually think goes through the minds of employers

"Oh gosh, we better not have that parent in the room, they might think we're not paying their child enough"

And it never once dawned on you that the interviewee could literally tell their parents what they were asked about (which is an almost guaranteed outcome anyway)

so since you're starting to see the bigger picture can you just stop and ask yourself - wait, what is the problem with parents being there? why are interviews inherently predatory power plays where the company stacks the deck and the prospective employee has to just yolo alone?

because yes, plenty of employers (and more specifically the flawed, moody, potentially unreliable individuals positioned as interviewers) will not have the best thoughts and intentions with every interview

I'm sure even the kindest most professional interviewers have days where they make a jab or ask a pointless, unhelpful, or quasi legal question - and what's the harm with an extra set of eyes on the interviewees end being there to help out in that event?

or being there and doing absolutely nothing if everything is above board and perfect?
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Cynyn posted...
Nah he thinks an adult needs to be coddled like a toddler and never grow the fuck up or learn how to stand on their own two feet. Im all for accepting help from your parents post high school graduation but mommy and daddy should not be doing the adulting for you.

you ain't talking any different than my fifth graders so idk what you think you know about growing up and adulting

floundering on your own isn't any more adult than any floundering you did as a kid dude, there's nothing wrong with anyone having help finding steady balance

what are you gonna insult therapy next? Seriously, where's the line?
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Literally the exact same lie told about millennials:
https://www.cjr.org/the_kicker/millennials_bring_parents_to_w.php
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Persona posted...
you ain't talking any different than my fifth graders so idk what you think you know about growing up and adulting

floundering on your own isn't any more adult than any floundering you did as a kid dude, there's nothing wrong with anyone having help finding steady balance

what are you gonna insult therapy next? Seriously, where's the line?
That says a lot more about you than your students. And actually floundering on your own is an important part of growing up. You need to have a healthy way of learning how to deal with failure and adversity. Having others solve your problems for you robs you of your own personal growth. Seek help if you need to, lean on others if need be but at least make the effort to try. And gtfoh with that non sequitur about therapy. The line is youre an adult, act like it. Its ok to not succeed and learn from it but its not ok to not even try and let your parents do it for you.
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Cynyn posted...
And actually floundering on your own is an important part of growing up. You need to have a healthy way of learning how to deal with failure and adversity.

sounds like people defending their own abuse

when you say that about growing up, sure, it sounds great

when you're mad at people taking a more healthy approach to a hostile situation (help with an interview) then you're just defending abuse

cause when it comes down to it, are you saying you have a problem if someone calls a parent to ask for advice dealing with a work problem?

people still gotta interview alone even if a parent is with them - the parent ain't gonna answer questions or the person won't get the job. a person still gotta solve problems at work even if they called a parent for advice.

you're basically mad that other people have options you didn't.
just because you probably had to deal with more than should have alone doesn't mean anyone else ever should

even if you overcame bad shit and it worked out better for you doesn't mean anyone else should have to

I dunno. I'll always hate conservative/suffer as I did perspectives because I think things should always be better

But go on being proud of & spreading hurt, I'm sure that'll be a very happy, fulfilling life full of smiles from & for you
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1337toothbrush posted...
Literally the exact same lie told about millennials:
https://www.cjr.org/the_kicker/millennials_bring_parents_to_w.php
what a shock and ppl will just ignore this so they can keep shitting on a entire generation
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These kids are very open to defying their parents standards and practices but don't actually have any substitute for a solid center so they still need a gaurdian/authority figure. Thats a bad combo. I've been encountered with choices like that.

Comes a point you have to figure things out on your own, be able to meet AND solve problems that arise without outside help.
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