If the general definition of "Loser" existed on wikipedia, you would see a group selfie of these board invaders as one of the example images.
This person has a reflexology certificate. So I was pressured into a foot massage. Because I walk so much and thought ok, its a good trade. Then in the morning, the back massage where he jumped on my back, then groped. I immediately stood up. Only an hour prior, he flashed in his robe when I woke up after couch surfing that night.
Reflexology is full of these pervs because one of the "tests" in applied kinesiology is pressing down on the area right above a woman's boob, I fucking kid you not. Another test involves shoving the patient's foot into the kinesiologist's crotch.
Also, if this guy is a roomate of yours, then get out ASAP, because this is already escalating. If for some reason you are unable to move out, then at bare minimum put a lock on your bedroom door and avoid any future couch surfing. What I am going to warn you in the below wall of text is going to horrify you and give you a lot more anxiety, but it's something that you need to know and deal with. So try to take a deep breath. Ignore my post if this is something you already dealt with some time ago.
This guy is a future, if not imminent danger to you, because he is escalating in short time.
There is still a significant possibility that it won't escalate beyond this level, but the risk that he will escalate further is also significant.
First he flashed you. Then he touched you. You know what comes next if he decides to escalate.
Oh, speaking of, and
just a heads up, you'll want to check your dresser and perform an inventory of your intimates,
because sneaking into bedrooms and stealing them is often one of the "warning steps" that these pervs take when they escalate.
Usually this is the very first step they take (or 2nd if they begin with voyeurism.)
IF it turns out that you have smoking gun proof that this guy stole some of your underwear, you need to report it to police immediately, no matter how humiliated you may feel and much you may just want this whole thing to go away (I know the feeling, because I'm a Mee Tooer as well. (It wasn't remotely as severe, as it was a kid in HS who groped me and made a lot of lewd comments and worst of all, pressured me into kissing him *again I was 15, but also new to the school, a common victim of bullying, and he was my only "friend" at the time.* I was ashamed, obviously, and felt that all-too common "I brought it on myself/what if I'm judged" feeling. Then he victimized another girl a year later, and I knew I had to set aside my shame and speak up to a teacher. At that point in my life it was the most difficult thing I had ever done. The teacher was very supportive, which was a huge relief. The kid got expelled and hopefully received the help he needed.) If anyone gives you some sort of "you brought it on yourself" victim blaming grief, make sure to point out to them that it doesn't excuse his behavior, and that he exploited you when you were in a vulnerable state.