Her reaction to what you asked isn't a normal reaction at all. You didn't do anything wrongOr I don't even know if I would have that reaction. When you enter a job, you give them your name. I would expect there to be people who knew my name ahead of time. My job has me go to different locations from year to year, and when entering a new place I have definitely had people come up and go, "Hi, are you (my name)?" then introduce themselves. Seems totally normal to me.
Like think about it. Most people would've just said "yes, how'd you know" and laughed it off. I would've.
Fuck her , her actions were literally the creepy stuff .
She's being a weirdoThis kinda sounds like she going to use that and other stuff to quit.
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Same kinda thing happened to me once. Pretty close to exactly the same.
I worked in a large office where we all had cubicles and our names were on the outside of the cubicles.
So a group of new people started and one girl sat right next to my good friend there and I noticed she had the same last name as my daughters teacher so the name stuck with me.
then a little bit later she came up to me and started talking to me because she said she saw me at a store (I never saw her) and I was like your name its ****** ********** right? Are you related to ******?
and then after that she started telling everyone I was her stalker and I followed her and I was dangerous and such. I learned this from my friend that sat next to her because shed say it loud to everyone around her whenever Id walk in the building.
It sucked. I did go to management, but then so did she. They told her to stop saying that stuff, but she never did. They asked her to stop numerous times. She never did. So a number of people at that place always thought I was s bad and scary person all because I saw her last name on the outside of her cubicle.
Also, just try to ignore her, or at least keep interactions as minimal, you dont need to apologize, explain or be friendly towards her at allYou should definitely be the minimum level of friendly that you normally are at work. Just be cordial and pleasant to the same degree that you are with everyone else.
You may want to nip this in the bud by talking to the higher-ups about the girl's odd behavior.
This happened
I would immediately tell your supervisor what happened, giving them your same pattern of logic you followed to reach the conclusion that was her and your interaction.For your own safety and security this is correct.
That way should she cause you any trouble, your boss will know ahead of time. You don't want her to be the first one to say something and get you in trouble.
You may want to nip this in the bud by talking to the higher-ups about the girl's odd behavior.Do this, cut off the source right now and have your boss or whatever deal with it before it becomes your problem.
There's a chance she's actually into you though, girls play those sort of games like thatEven if that were the case (it isn't just FYI), it would be far, far too risky for TC, as a male, to act on something like that. All it takes is one complaint to HR and he could lose everything. Depending on what story she makes up he could even go to jail.
There's a chance she's actually into you though, girls play those sort of games like thatDo you actually know any girls?