Do I miss certain aspects of single life? Of course I do.Yes, weird matches her weird is a great description. She mitigates my general anxiety and I mitigate her social anxiety. With past people, we would make each other worse.
Would I trade my family for any of it? Hell no. My wife is the only person outside of my immediate family who has truly loved me for who I am and has no desire to change anything about me. My weird matches her weird, and you cant put a price on that.
And my daughter is the greatest thing in my life and watching her grow up is the privilege of a lifetime.I got 4 daughters. From my first marriage, but my wife adores them.
I've been with the same girl since I was 13 and she was 14.So high school sweethearts? That's so wholesome. Glad to hear you're both happy. And yeah, having a partner that's just as nerdy as you is great
We are now both 36, and we've never regretted a thing about all our time together. I think a large part of it is, because we met so young, our interests and joys have aligned as we've grown.
We game together, nerd out together with comics and movies. We just enjoy spending our time together doing our hobbies.
So high school sweethearts? That's so wholesome. Glad to hear you're both happy. And yeah, having a partner that's just as nerdy as you is great
I think there's a part of our brain that is always a bit wired to think 'what am I missing out on' and the desire to have sparks with someone newThis is my issue. I have had serious FOMO since 2017, but admittedly it is a little better now. For awhile, I was literally going out 5 or 6 nights a week.
I guess it could be missing being truly single and doing whatever to waste time, but I personally mean more like dating around, partying and whatnot.
I still go on dates, I still go to parties when I want. I basically do everything I want whenever I want. Soooo this is not a thing for meWith other people or with her? Not sure if you are poly or not
Didnt you just get married less than a year ago?I know it is a lot, but please everything I wrote throughout here before posting that.
Youre too old and newly married to be reminiscing about the single life lolAnd you have been the first shitty poster in this thread. Congrats!
Youre too old and newly married to be reminiscing about the single life lol
With other people or with her? Not sure if you are poly or not
Yeah, I figured
Or I can just be happy to be having a beer on my deck on the house we just bought. I couldn't do this when single.
Both, and yes, I'm poly. Or rather, I'm non-monogamusWhat's the difference? Real question, not snarky
What's the difference? Real question, not snarky
Most poly people I know talk about it as a fundamental part of their sexuality, like being gay or straight or what have you. I'm not poly, I don't need multiple partners, so the Identity never felt like it suited me. If my primary partner is mono, then I'm mono. If they are poly then I'm poly. I don't have strong opinions about it one way or the other and I don't miss being poly when I'm mono and I don't miss being mono when I'm poly.You're just pretty low maintenance then, I guess?
You're just pretty low maintenance then, I guess?
I don't think I would be capable of a non monogamous relationship.