ugh, this thing with the girl I like at work, I over thought it and it backfired

So my coworker invited two of us guys to the bar yesterday for today. I didn't want anyone else going so I was like 3 of us is good, and he said I'm going to ask the front department (hers) if they want to go. I didn't want them to go and I was hoping he wouldn't ask and he didn't. Then I was like they're gonna find out we didn't invite them, so I then asked her myself if she wanted to go and she said just text me tomorrow and let me know when you're going. So now we just had to ask the rest of her team.

So today I asked my coworker if we should ask the front department and he was like if you want to and I was all . I shouldn't have asked her then. So I asked her team they're welcome to join and then I texted her where we're gonna be at. She responded back saying she couldn't make it and I was a little relieved. I texted back no worries. Then she responded back asking if we would be down to go with her and her friends out tomorrow and I was just like uggggggghhh. I said yes and I told her my coworkers said yes too. I would have rather been at home these days but I learned that if you say no to invites like this you don't get taken into consideration anymore.

Thats crazy

I hope your job doesn't involve making any sense at all.

same tbqh

You give a sense of nervous energy, which would have you written off already, unless you're very different in conversation from how you post.

Also, she's the type to hang out and you're the type to stay home, it seems like?

shockthemonkey posted...

What

Texas S M A S H

SomeGuyUO posted...

So my coworker invited two of us guys to the bar yesterday for today. I didn't want anyone else going so I was like 3 of us is good, and he said I'm going to ask the front department (hers) if they want to go. I didn't want them to go and I was hoping he wouldn't ask and he didn't. Then I was like they're gonna find out we didn't invite them, so I then asked her myself if she wanted to go and she said just text me tomorrow and let me know when you're going. So now we just had to ask the rest of her team.

So today I asked my coworker if we should ask the front department and he was like if you want to and I was all . I shouldn't have asked her then. So I asked her team they're welcome to join and then I texted her where we're gonna be at. She responded back saying she couldn't make it and I was a little relieved. I texted back no worries. Then she responded back asking if we would be down to go with her and her friends out tomorrow and I was just like uggggggghhh. I said yes and I told her my coworkers said yes too. I would have rather been at home these days but I learned that if you say no to invites like this you don't get taken into consideration anymore.

One: dont date your coworkers.
two: dont date your fucking coworkers.
Three: you need to go to the hospital. Youre having a stroke. Or I am trying to read this.

basically that was mad weak stuff TC.

You could've just like....asked her out this whole time.

That was a lot of text

Why dont you just ask her out? Seems like the easy thing to do rather than all this nonsense

Jesse what the fuck are you talking about

This is like some relationship advice thread from CE 20 years ago.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/8/8a726113.jpg

literally unreadable

There's too many people involved in this story for you to just use pronouns. At least use titles or names, so it's easier for people reading it to differentiate.

Like, is the girl you like the one that you invited to join your group? Or did you invite the manager of that girls department?

tc I want you to forget everything you just wrote

https://youtu.be/AYDjo-1bt-U?si=kePexriD_b6TTJKs