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https://youtu.be/v7bu1iCa_ss?si=M-sCoSHYMbt0KGOh

inb4 YT Video.

It's just over 8 minutes long, but kind of crystalizes some critiques I have of the left, coming from a cismale who is on the left. I feel that the left's innability to talk to young, impressionable boys is detrimental to society because it leaves then disaffected and more vulnerable to right wing propaganda. And that is *not* a good think in the long run, especially if we want to sieze political power for long periods of time.

What does CE think? I'm especially interested in what some of the ladies here think on this topic.
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to win the civil war we need to court young boys?
You, take a bump. Flatback.
EmilyTheCEman posted...
to win the civil war we need to court young boys?

The fact of the matter is that people's political opinions are shaped in their adolesence. When I say "young boys" I'm talking about boys between the ages of like, 12-19.

And civil war? What?
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I'm not watching that video but yeah, the mainstream/progressive left doesn't spend much time courting the young male demographic, and the right pounces by appealing to the worst in them. I'm not sure what the solution is.
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I think it's less that and more that we need to crack down on the alt right bullshit propaganda
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No.

They just don't legitimise and encourage their worst instincts.
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AloneIBreak posted...
I'm not watching that video but yeah, the mainstream/progressive left doesn't spend much time courting the young male demographic, and the right pounces by appealing to the worst in them. I'm not sure what the solution is.

The only thing I can think of is not demonizing them. Like, yes, teaching men such things like consent is king is important...but opening with that line is just a way to make them feel like they're being attacked for being monsters, simply for being men. Or some of the more radical feminist rhetoric making rounds that paints men as trash, or that women feel unsafe around them? I just feel that if the rhetoric was changed it could help immensely.

Why not open with other things first? Why not rope them in with issues that are important to them, *then* move on to other stuff that is important to the movement as a whole, and to women in particular?

The thing that I keep circling back to in my mind is the one we make fun of the right all the time: "the left was mean to me so I became a Nazi". But like...there is some truth to that, no? If you're in a space that makes you feel like shit for existing, you're not going to want to be in that space.
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I mean, first off. The right have big money putting their brand of shit on a pedestal with a big megaphone...

Can't talk about the "effect" of something that is not equally representing, let alone fairly.... That doesn't make sense to me.

Like look at AoC. You're a cute person if you think all we need is a one good relatable figure head, and ignore all the shit slinging and narrative controlling power the right has.

I mean it's possible, but the person would have be to be godly level of charismatic to overcome the propaganda machine the right has.

I think attack their weapon of choice is better... propaganda. Or educating people about that stuff. How we go about doing that... well that's tough.. ugh, it's frustrating.
ai123 posted...
No.

They just don't legitimise and encourage their worst instincts.

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DarthAragorn posted...
I think it's less that and more that we need to crack down on the alt right bullshit propaganda

I don't know how you do that in a free society. The only way to fight it is to engage and deligitimize it. And also attack it at its core: I see fascism as mostly the result of a bunch of sexually frustrated men wanting to take out their anger about not being able to get laid on society. So we convince them the truth: that fascists are losers that can't get laid and maybe that pulls away some? Like, why do you want to join these other people in your misery, when if you just become more sociable, that you're more likely to find a partner?

ai123 posted...
No.

They just don't legitimise and encourage their worst instincts.

Please extrapolate, if you will. And please explain why there are more and more disaffected men running to the right than the left, in your estimation.
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Xenogears15 posted...
If you're in a space that makes you feel like s*** for existing, you're not going to want to be in that space.
That's only true in such a miniscule level in terms of actuality, and more fearmongering, and propaganda which is why it has any hold to begin with.

I'd ask you to name people of relevance that contribute to that, you won't. But I could name hate spreaders on the right who are relevant.

ok what do you think the left should be doing
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TC, you're buying into the picture the right dishonestly frames... and asking as to work our way up from there.

There is something wrong there, I think.

Honestly sad and fucked up how much control they have. And it's not like the left is given equal opportunity, and just failed.

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This type of argument just doesn't really make much sense in the end. It's mostly just validating the young, white, male persecution complex.
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There are issues but I dont think coddling them is a solution.

If people see someone like Andrew tate and think being a sex trafficker is cool then at the end of the day these people are solely responsible for themselves becoming fucking pieces of shit.
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But the right says the left is turning all the impressionable children trans.
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What would courting young boys look like?
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COVxy posted...
This type of argument just doesn't really make much sense in the end. It's mostly just validating the young, white, male persecution complex.
Based on a dishonest take. That we somehow have to address as the left?

Talk about rigged game.
Xenogears15 posted...
And please explain why there are more and more disaffected men running to the right than the left, in your estimation.
Can you demonstrate that more young men are going right than left? Site some sources?
EthanSilver posted...
That's only true in such a miniscule level in terms of actuality, and more fearmongering, and propaganda which is why it has any hold to begin with.

I'd ask you to name people of relevance that contribute to that, you won't. But I could name hate spreaders on the right who are relevant.

But those feelings of not belonging makes some young men more susceptible to that terrible propaganda from the right. I'm not saying that it happens a lot, but I cannot ignore that it does happen. Disaffection is a real thing, and a REAL issue that young men are dealing with nowadays.

People of relevance I cannot name, you are right. This is moreso personal interactions that I've had in real life and online with individuals. It was happening so much that I can't help but to wonder how widespread it is, especiallly with this crisis of young men turning to the right wing. And even if there is ONE person of relevance that is spouting that anti-male rhetoric on the left, that one person will be excorciated online by right wing influencers and held up as an example for their disaffected young male followers as: "See what this crazy feminist thinks of you? They're all like that on the left!"

AceMos posted...
ok what do you think the left should be doing

I gave some (short) examples. I'm honestly unsure of what big changes could be made, and was wondering if anyone else who feels this way had their own ideas on how this could be addressed.
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Tenlaar posted...
Can you demonstrate that more young men are going right than left? Site some sources?
Honestly, just seems to me like innocuous falling for the right's shit on their end...

I said it before, awe inspiring and sad how powerful their propaganda machine is.
Tenlaar posted...
Can you demonstrate that more young men are going right than left? Site some sources?

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/0/5/AAAEGgAAE2Wl.jpg

More coming, let me find the links.

Article is a year old, but still only a year: https://thehill.com/homenews/campaign/3675477-young-women-are-trending-liberal-young-men-are-not/

A more recent article: https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/4125661-high-school-boys-are-trending-conservative/
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emblem-man posted...
What would courting young boys look like?

Yup. Thats the issue.

When people like JP clarify and dive deeper what you start to notice is that courting young men actually means tossing women back into the kitchen.
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Xenogears15 posted...
More coming, let me find the graphs
Yes, show us how propaganda is effective.

I'll address the bigotry against males that is prevalent on the left. Oh wait....

Can't just be lies and fearmongering, things used before, things that have been effective before...

Honestly, it's sad, because I think you mean well... I really do. But that you don't see how fucked up it is to have to right a mistake that doesn't happen, and where the judge would be the one lying about you to begin with... media/ceo's and such.
Xenogears15 posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/0/5/AAAEGgAAE2Wl.jpg


If young women are more willing to date older men than date someone with a different political affiliation, I welcome this division.

>_>

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EthanSilver posted...
Yes, show us how propaganda is effective.

I'll address the bigotry against males that is prevalent on the left. Oh wait....

Can't just be lies and fearmongering, things used before, things that have been effective before...

Honestly, it's sad, because I think you mean well... I really do. But that you don't see how fucked up it is to have to right a mistake that doesn't happen, and where the judge would be the one lying about you to begin with... media/ceo's and such.

I'm agreeing with you that this is propaganda. And that's the core of the issue. Because I'm feeling that this propaganda is actually working on young disaffected men, and that that's not a good thing.

I know how it looks, but--anecdotally it may be--I'm seeing far too much of it in my personal life for it to be a concidence. I've got family members and friends with young kids who are coming from liberal households but their young boys are drifting rightwards. And that's not counting the spaces I see online.

The issue is propaganda. How do we counter this and get these young men to see the light before it's too late? And this isn't just white kids. These are Asian and Latino kids, too.
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TC what you say is true for cis WHITE males.

Very few young males of color are getting wrapped up in the blatantly racist conservative party of old rich Christian whites.
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KINDERFELD posted...
TC what you say is true for cis WHITE males.

Very few young males of color are getting wrapped up in the blatantly racist conservative party of old rich Christian whites.

I just edited my post to answer this: not entirely true from what I am seeing. Latino and Asian kids I've seen falling for this bullshit, too. That's what really made me start to worry about this issue.
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Cpt_Pineapple posted...
well CE does call anybody bringing up men's issues an incel

To be fair, the way they're presented here is usually...not too flattering.
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Xenogears15 posted...
Because I'm feeling that this propaganda is actually working on young disaffected men, and that that's not a good thing.
It is, why rely on propaganda otherwise?

But it's not because "it's real," more they are buying into the lie. Understand? Can't undo a mistake that doesn't happen. In terms of prevelency, reality. This stuff isn't new either.

On Hitler:
His primary rules were: never allow the public to cool off; never admit a fault or wrong; never concede that there may be some good in your enemy; never leave room for alternatives; never accept blame; concentrate on one enemy at a time and blame him for everything that goes wrong; people will believe a big lie sooner than a little one; and if you repeat it frequently enough people will sooner or later believe it. (Like, it is even working on you Xeno.)

This is really hyperbolic, but it's to get a certain point across. A black slave back in the day in the US didn't get degraded and called an "ape," because they sucked at communicating their humanness.

Liars and shit bags are the issue here.
EthanSilver posted...
It is. But it's not because "it's real," more they are buying into the lie. Understand? Can't undo a mistake that doesn't happen. In terms of prevelency, reality. This stuff isn't new either.

On Hitler:
His primary rules were: never allow the public to cool off; never admit a fault or wrong; never concede that there may be some good in your enemy; never leave room for alternatives; never accept blame; concentrate on one enemy at a time and blame him for everything that goes wrong; people will believe a big lie sooner than a little one; and if you repeat it frequently enough people will sooner or later believe it.

This is really hyperbolic, but it's to get a certain point across. A black slave back in the day in the US didn't get degraded and called an "ape," because they sucked at communicating their humanness.

Liars and shit bags are the issue here.

Okay, then we can admit that this is an ongoing issue. And can we also agree that, with the rise of the radical right that it is a potentially more serious issue since fascism first started to rear its head in America since pre-WWII?

Can we agree that fighting fascism is very important, especially with those who are most vulnerable to their message? Liars and shitbags are indeed the issue, but the liars and shitbags are much more influential than we are. And that puts us at a great disadvantage. We need to counter that, and the only way we can do that is if we can actually speak to these disaffected males and convince them over to our side.

Some are too far gone of course, but the point is to catch them before they get to that point.
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emblem-man posted...
What would courting young boys look like?

Three key components, as I see it.

1) Acknowledge the unique difficulties of being a man, with an emphasis on liberating men from them.
2) Affirm a conception of positive masculinity (and femininity) that rejects traditional gender roles as oppressive to men (and women).
3) Don't blame men for their plight, or for the state of society re: gender, and stand up against those who do blame men for these things.

This, or something like it, is the way forward.
The_Apologist posted...
Three key components, as I see it.

1) Acknowledge the unique difficulties of being a man, with an emphasis on liberating men from them.
2) Affirm a conception of positive masculinity (and femininity) that rejects traditional gender roles as oppressive to men (and women).
3) Don't blame men for their plight, or for the state of society re: gender, and stand up against those who do blame men for these things.

This, or something like it, is the way forward.

I think you may be on to something here. Even more potentially useful and less nebulous than my own suggestion.
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KINDERFELD posted...
TC what you say is true for cis WHITE males.

Very few young males of color are getting wrapped up in the blatantly racist conservative party of old rich Christian whites.

That's not the only source. The Andrew Tate bandwagon isn't limited to white males, and there's always been a sort of piecemeal conservative perspective retention in black and latino communities.

And it's true, the left sucks at messaging for young men. Like, think of the common social issues that come up from the left. Do any of them say anything positive for any young men?
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Xenogears15 posted...
I think you may be on to something here. Even more potentially useful and less nebulous than my own suggestion.
Not that the left has the onus to do such things, nor would the right acknowledge it. Heck they've even done it before.

Either way, doing such things can't hurt, and might help a bit. Against the lies.
Cpt_Pineapple posted...
well CE does call anybody bringing up men's issues an incel

I'd be curious to see an example of this but I'm sure they come from the same place as examples of "CE calling anyone who disagrees with them a Trumper."
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I don't get why people are pretending it isn't an issue.
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Guide posted...
And it's true, the left sucks at messaging for young men.
Yeah sure, it's not just the right being shitbag liars who have quite a hold on the means of messaging.

And you falling for that shit. Schooling, health care, working rights... pay.

You'll get thrashed in a debate. You need to muddy the waters with identity politics to even have foot hold.
It's a really awkward topic to dance around IMO. There's definitely male-specific problems in society, just like there are female-specific problems in society, and a lot of the "progressive" spaces don't really put much effort in addressing things beyond like, an abstract generalization about it existing. I don't think it's a specific attack against men so much as it's like, indifference? It's generally some sort of hand-wavy ignorance of the topic because they don't want to talk about it.

Add to that that there also seems to be backlash for some reason any time this topic is actually addressed, like progressive spaces don't want to care about male-centric issues. This is like the 6th time Vaush has faced drama for this one tweet.

Shadow_Don posted...
Yup. Thats the issue.

When people like JP clarify and dive deeper what you start to notice is that courting young men actually means tossing women back into the kitchen.

This is how people like JP are taking advantage of this vacuum. The young boys have problems that aren't being acknowledged, and guys like JP jump in and tell them the answer is this and that, and builds up to the incorrect conclusion of "get women back into the kitchen". Because it's often the only answer these boys are being given, they'll accept it from someone who has all the qualities you're told makes someone "successful". And you're probably 12-16 and don't know any better about how to actually question these conclusions, and won't be able to until guys like JP have had their hold over long enough for the conclusions to really sink in.

The_Apologist posted...
Three key components, as I see it.

1) Acknowledge the unique difficulties of being a man, with an emphasis on liberating men from them.
2) Affirm a conception of positive masculinity (and femininity) that rejects traditional gender roles as oppressive to men (and women).
3) Don't blame men for their plight, or for the state of society re: gender, and stand up against those who do blame men for these things.

This, or something like it, is the way forward.

I like these.
dave_is_slick posted...
I don't get why people are pretending it isn't an issue.
It is, but an artificial one.
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/4/3/9/AAJBROAAEOIH.jpg

Anyway, sort of, but it's not necessarily a bad thing, just an obstacle. Middle class neurotypical cis white boys are way closer to the top of the economic food chain than the alternatives, which means they're very close to being the last people you seek to convince to join the Party. There's just less reason for them to be on the left, in terms of their immediate material situation, than LGBTQ people, working class people, people of color, the differently abled or neurodivergent people. Appealing to them with bullshit is either lying or betraying your principles, and appealing to them with the truth is probably illegal or will get you killed by the government.
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Xenogears15 posted...
I just edited my post to answer this: not entirely true from what I am seeing. Latino and Asian kids I've seen falling for this bullshit, too. That's what really made me start to worry about this issue.

Those numbers are so small they're inconsequential.
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EthanSilver posted...
Yeah sure, it's not just the right being shitbag liars who have quite a hold on the means of messaging.

And you falling for that shit. Schooling, health care, working rights... pay.

You'll get thrashed in a debate. You need to muddy the waters with identity politics to even have foot hold.

I feel like you're assigning a whole bunch of meaning to my words just by a false association, rather than anything I actually said. It sounds like you're accusing me of being right wing, which is like accusing a kryptonian of having a kryptonite habit.

Yes, the right are liars. Just like with everything else involved in dealing with them, counteraction would be a good idea.
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This is like the 6th time Vaush has faced drama for this one tweet.

He's done this before?

No lie, I just stumbled upon this dude on YT. Is this like his thing?
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The_Apologist posted...
Three key components, as I see it.

1) Acknowledge the unique difficulties of being a man, with an emphasis on liberating men from them.
2) Affirm a conception of positive masculinity (and femininity) that rejects traditional gender roles as oppressive to men (and women).
3) Don't blame men for their plight, or for the state of society re: gender, and stand up against those who do blame men for these things.

This, or something like it, is the way forward.
If people didn't reee whenever they heard the phrase "toxic masculinity" I think they would realize that it doesn't mean men are toxic in and of themselves, but the false standards of manhood they're being held to are whats toxic. Not being allowed to show emotion, having to resort of shows of physical strength to gain acceptance etc.

Proto_Spark posted...
This is how people like JP are taking advantage of this vacuum.
We just going to ignore that it's not a "vacuum" and money dictates what gets pushed?

Rigged game. You decide what is highlighted, and also can call out peeps for not being highlighted.
IShall_Run_Amok posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/4/3/9/AAJBROAAEOIH.jpg

Anyway, sort of, but it's not necessarily a bad thing, just an obstacle. Middle class neurotypical cis white boys are way closer to the top of the economic food chain than the alternatives, which means they're very close to being the last people you seek to convince to join the Party. There's just less reason for them to be on the left, in terms of their immediate material situation, than LGBTQ people, working class people, people of color, the differently abled or neurodivergent people. Appealing to them with bullshit is either lying or betraying your principles, and appealing to them with the truth is probably illegal or will get you killed by the government.
There is a lot of weird phrasing to unpack here

But I disagree with the idea that white men have no incentive to be liberals; the idea that you wouldn't be a liberal if there isn't immediate personal benefit ignores the concepts of empathy and charity completely.
Guide posted...
And it's true, the left sucks at messaging for young men.
This is only a fair thing to say in a world where the elite don't have such a powerful hold on "messaging."

Hence, to me, you sound like you're falling for their shit.
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