im the worst texter of all time. i will take days to get back to someone. there's a hinge girl i met at a party a few weeks ago and we're supposed to get drinks. She last texted me about 8 days ago and i have yet to respond even though im into her. The fucking worst lolshe doesn't know about living that busy #hollywoodlife
If it's important enough that you want a response... call.
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A text with an 11-day wait... or a phone call that gets an immediate response. Which is more time efficient?
No, that's about how long it takes me to respond to someone's text.
im the worst texter of all time. i will take days to get back to someone. there's a hinge girl i met at a party a few weeks ago and we're supposed to get drinks. She last texted me about 8 days ago and i have yet to respond even though im into her. The fucking worst lol
Like, you were busy for 264 hours?
But eleven days ? Get the fuck outta here. That person ain't thinking about you bro.
im the worst texter of all time. i will take days to get back to someone. there's a hinge girl i met at a party a few weeks ago and we're supposed to get drinks. She last texted me about 8 days ago and i have yet to respond even though im into her. The fucking worst lolThat's actually surprising to hear about you. She probably thinks you ghosted her at this point lol
im the worst texter of all time. i will take days to get back to someone. there's a hinge girl i met at a party a few weeks ago and we're supposed to get drinks. She last texted me about 8 days ago and i have yet to respond even though im into her. The fucking worst lolSo behave differently? This isn't rocket science to figure out.
its not about behaving differently. It's about feeling like it and i don't at the moment. I'll get back when i get back... unless it's an emergency. I do understand the ramifications of this type of behavior with some people.
but thats only bc ive been so busy...as you post on Gamefaqs.
If they don't respond the same day, they don't care or they're dodging you.This, pretty much. I don't know how anyone can have notifications and not reply. I have to reply instantly.
for me, it's effortless to post on FAQs. For text, idk there's this kind of intimate space that i have to enter that's off putting to me. It actually gives me a lot of anxiety to the point that I just put it off. It's usually not about me being busy. Kinda sucks, the older I get get, the more emotionally unavailable I get or the more anxiety digital communication gives me with actual people. Gamefaqs takes 0 effort/intimacy lol.I am surprised to hear that it gives you anxiety. You seem so confident.
11 days isnt a theyre still waiting on respondingAlthough I think it's mostly this unless it happens quite frequently. Sometimes I read it when I'm busy but forget to respond when I'm not busy, but usually I realize the next day at the latest.
its a they read your text when they werent available to respond, and then forgot
I wouldnt be too upset about it tbh. If it was something you needed to get an answer on you shouldve followed up a day or two later
If it's important enough that you want a response... call.
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A text with an 11-day wait... or a phone call that gets an immediate response. Which is more time efficient?
im a one word text responder"k"
"k"
Often times if I dont want an actual conversation, I just text a question for an update.
And honestly, it wouldnt bother me much if folks didnt address the lack of responding with My bad! I was busy!.
Like, you were busy for 264 hours?
It's pretty obvious you want a response. And you want it on your timetable. That's the job of a phone call. Otherwise, you hand the response time over to the other person.Most people under 40 hate phone calls
And they can respond *any time they want.*
Most people under 40 hate phone callsI hate to admit it, but yeah. Besides my parents, if someone calls me, I'll decline the call and then text them to see what they wanted lol