I was thinking about the firth choice, "No, in fact i'd RETURN the money if they tried!". Part of me was leaning toward this but dunno in what situations would it come up. Perhaps if pride or a not wanting that feeling of owing said family member was an issue I might object or return said money.
There is some bad blood between one cousin and his father with my family so I doubt he or his father will ever want to share any money with us. Still, if by some chance they decide to do so, given the things they have done and said to us in the past, I honestly am not sure if I'll want to accept said money.
"You must gather your party before venturing forth"
"Go for the eyes Boo! Go for the eyes!"