I tend to not associate with either, being a close-minded SJW myself. I've closed myself off from all these reasonable intellectual opinions.
Serious talk, I've met two out-of-the-closet racists that both bullied the same black kid. Actually, the whole school thought the racist kid was cool and the black kid was "a total f*****" because they got in a fight because the bully called him the n-word. I kid you not I was the only kid I knew of that thought (and said it out loud) that the bully was a piece of shit.
I grew up in a Conservative area, so try and guess how many anti-gays I knew. I count... everyone I met in the first half of my life.
I did know one racist white girl that openly hated whites, but I think me being her friend maybe opened her mind a little, or at least I hoped. I give her a pass because she was really mentally unstable and exposure to demographics you don't like helps.