I made it clear to my gf early on that I treasure my off days and she respects that. I work very long days so when I finally get my days off I don't want to do anything.

She respects that and only asks me to do things like see her parents, or her girlfriends if it's an important event. Maybe once a month or less
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My gf and I fight pretty regularly over familial obligations

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