Current Events > How the fuck can I be "cute, but not my type"?

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That makes no sense to me. As a guy, if you are a cute girl, you ARE my type, hence that you're cute. Either girls have a really nuanced way of finding guys attractive or it's a weird way to say I'm ugly (just say "not my type").
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There are girls who are objectively attractive who dont really do anything for me. Thats what she was saying to you. She has different preferences
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Yeah I never cared for that BS. If you think I'm ugly just fucking say it lol. Yeah it'd hurt but it's better than lying imo
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bump
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She heard about your small penis. So, you are, in fact, cute, but she likes em big.
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You've never looked at someone and been like, "While I can appreciate their good looks, I don't really have the urge to bone them" ?
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Cute enough to smash, not cute enough to be seen in public
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It means youre cute but you dont get the water works going. Like a cute kid when she wants a Man.
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Friendzone alarm sounded.

Schwarz posted...

You've never looked at someone and been like, "While I can appreciate their good looks, I don't really have the urge to bone them" ?

No. I can't think of a single girl where I thought they looked good and I didn't have the urge to bone them. The only times I've thought this is if boning the girl would cause major problems (she's a terrible person, she has an STD, etc).

I even have the urge to bone some girls I think don't look good.
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it's like when someone sees a dog, they will call it cute but not want to smash it

so you are like a dog to her
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YookaLaylee posted...

There are girls who are objectively attractive who dont really do anything for me. Thats what she was saying to you. She has different preferences

This.

Master Kazuya posted...

Schwarz posted...

You've never looked at someone and been like, "While I can appreciate their good looks, I don't really have the urge to bone them" ?

No. I can't think of a single girl where I thought they looked good and I didn't have the urge to bone them. The only times I've thought this is if boning the girl would cause major problems (she's a terrible person, she has an STD, etc).

I even have the urge to bone some girls I think don't look good.

So you come across like a pubescent. How could she resist?
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YookaLaylee posted...

There are girls who are objectively attractive who dont really do anything for me. Thats what she was saying to you. She has different preferences

This.

Basically its the nice of her saying there's nothing wrong with you, nice try but she's completely unattracted to you

girls have options. You might be good enough if there were no better options. That's what it means. Men are not selective like women are so stop comparing yourself to them lol
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It's almost like personality is a relevant factor in dating or something.

Shocking.
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Master Kazuya posted...

Schwarz posted...

You've never looked at someone and been like, "While I can appreciate their good looks, I don't really have the urge to bone them" ?

No. I can't think of a single girl where I thought they looked good and I didn't have the urge to bone them. The only times I've thought this is if boning the girl would cause major problems (she's a terrible person, she has an STD, etc).

I even have the urge to bone some girls I think don't look good.

Dude how old are you. People can sense the vibe you give off or just see what kinda guy you are by face movements, hand gestures, whatever. She decided that you were cute but seemed to have the wrong attitude or something.

Fucking suprise suprise, she got the attitude right.
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She is trying to tell you the nice way that she has no interest in you.
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You can find certain things about a person physically or their personality that you like but at the same time there's just something that's not really turning you on.
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Physically, you're cute to her, but
(Any combination of)
You don't seem like you'd mentally connect
You don't seem like you'd emotionally connect
You aren't sexy to her
Your personality doesn't captivate her
Your interests don't connect with her
You seem self-centered
You don't seem like you would protect her
You aren't the type of person she has in mind for a long term relationship, which is what she's interested in
You don't seem like you're interested in the type of relationship she's looking for
She isn't romantically interested in you
She's actually a cylon
She's actually three ducks in a girl suit
She's actually three girls in three duck suits in a girl suit
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Girls don't want cute.

SauI_Goodman posted...

She heard about your small penis. So, you are, in fact, cute, but she likes em big.

yeah, the last girl you were with told everyone you were small/uncircumcised so they would rather not
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means she is willing to keep you as a friend and cuck you

It means she wants a guy who wears camo and boxers, has patchy facial hair, does lame shit like 4-wheelers, and smells like onions and musk -- but has a big cock and goes hard in the paint.

Cute in their vocabulary means "You're adorable to talk to."

Cute =/= Hot

Ergo, you got friendzoned TC.
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Schwarz posted...

You've never looked at someone and been like, "While I can appreciate their good looks, I don't really have the urge to bone them" ?

...no, actually

I can acknowledge that some boys/girls are good looking or cute, but I would defo not date em.

The rock is one handsome motherfucker, but I sure as hell wouldnt be going fo' that (if we remove fame/money/charisma/etc).

Eh, everyone has their own principles it is what it is. Physical attraction isnt everything. I had a girl tell me shed never date someone like me because i wasnt religious . We actually had a lot of good talks about faith for a few months since we car pooled to work but clearly it was a huge part of her life that i would never have an interest in.
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What a weird thread. You can enjoy qualities about a person but not be romantically attracted to them and it's literally just that simple.
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