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| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 09/01/21 1:53:43 AM #40 | But she told me she wanted to stay friends? And friends visits eachother on their birthdays, right? --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/31/21 11:22:17 PM #35 | Well, she did still kinda cheat on me with him so of course there's a part of me who still secretly want their relationship to fail. But I'm not gonna actively try to ruin that. That would've been such a dick move. We probably shouldn't ever get back together though. Her mother was such a pain in the ass I'd rather not ever deal with that hag anymore. It also happens to be her birthday today so I'm gonna ask her if I could come over to her and celebrate it maybe today or tomorrow or later this week whenever she has the time. I'm just thinking about giving her a birthdaycard and some money that she can use to buy something she wants. --- |
| Topic | Some men hunt for sport |
| LeetCheet 08/31/21 10:22:35 PM #3 | Smiffwilm posted... Yes TC. I see your vest. You mean that one's that made out of a real gorilla's chest? --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/31/21 10:15:26 PM #33 | I've seen the guy. He's not exactly Chad material. He's not exactly fit and has three kids from a previous failed relationship. I kinda doubt the relationship's gonna last considering her mother tendencies. My ex herself has a few certain antics that I think is eventually gonna go on his nerves as well. So yeah, I see a few red flags that might be potential reasons for the relationship not working. The future will tell. --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/31/21 4:16:12 PM #30 | Revelation34 posted... Date one of them. The one I've spoken most with is already in a relationship I think(not sure if it's a serious relationship) and she has a slew of other personal problems as well(ADHD, troubled childhood, has a kid with a father who got into an accident and became a vegetable IIRC). Her friend is definitely in a relationship and she's like 22 years old(eight years younger than me). Yesterday was the first time I've ever told her about my ex's crazy mother. I dunno how much she actually listened but I was rambling for quite a while because there was so much I wanted to tell her. I even asked her if it was awkward to listen to all my woes. I don't remember exactly what she said but she told me it wasn't. Dunno if it was just a lie to not make me feel bad but I choose to believe her. But I don't think I should even try it with either of them. Right now I'd much rather get some new friends and begin healing my mental wounds before even thinking about finding a new girlfriend. --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/31/21 1:07:09 PM #27 | DirtBasedSoap posted... streamofthesky posted... Post #16 I didn't financially support her and we each had a separate apartment. Jen0125 posted... Aw, you can achieve that goal. Hey man, don't make fun of my dreams. --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/31/21 9:56:25 AM #24 | Jen0125 posted... I'm so relieved honestly I really thought you could go the incel route after your breakup and I thought this topic was going to be about what bitches your female coworkers are for being women or something No I'm not bitter for my relationship failing and I'm certainly not lashing out on someone because of it. I've decided to just shift my focus on acquiring more friends. Hanging out with some coworkers outside of work is something I'd love to do someday. Sucks that there's that stupid pandemic happening right now which limits my chances of that happening though. I'm imagining my favourite coworkers coming to my apartment for my birthday. That would feel so awesome. EvilMegas posted... With your posting history; I'm sure all of this really, truly happened and is not fabricated. At all. What part of my posting history are you thinking about? I've made a lot of topics/posts about my awkward antics, why does this topic seem so unbelievable? I guess hearing about women talking to me about relationships might seem kinda hard to believe but I can assure you that I'm telling the truth. --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/31/21 3:34:46 AM #19 | Yeah maybe I could've said it better in my first post. With English not being my first language and all that. But when I hear that people have talked about me, I'm always surprised because I've always thought of myself as a boring, uninteresting guy that doesn't leave any impression on anyone. Who even wants to talk about me? I'm boring and most of the time too afraid to start talking with people because I always think that I'll just annoy others with my presence anyway so why even bother. But apparently these two found something about me worth caring about. Muscles posted... Listen to them, and cut the victim complex. You know I have always been cool with you and want to see you be happy, you can't with your mindset. Sorry if this sounds harsh but you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. Yeah maybe I can start improving myself now when I'm not in that relationship anymore. --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/31/21 2:52:25 AM #16 | streamofthesky posted... There's being respectful and being a doormat. I guess I just didn't want to upset her by being pushy so I chose patience instead. I didn't financially support her and we each had a separate apartment. No I just thought that they were so kind to me that they wasted precious work-time just to talk to me and the fact that they were worried about me. I don't think she'll spread the word around to everyone because she specifically asked for my consent that if she could discuss this with one of our coworkers. I don't mind because it's always hard for me to talk about these things with others. I really appreciate her efforts and that she listens to me(and I listen to her in return about her issues). --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/30/21 11:44:07 PM #11 | adjl posted... In a nutshell, you're a nice guy and they're upset that you were treated so poorly. I doubt you did anything specific, you're just a person that they genuinely like and they don't want to see bad things happen to you. Yeah they seemed to be quite insistent for me to just break off completely from her. The thing is that when I visited her the other day(to bring home more of my stuff from her), she seemed genuinely happy to see me and she straight up cried when I told her how disappointed my parents was with her. It really feels like she still wants to be friends with me(she constantly tells me this as well) but my female colleagues tells me that she just wants me as a back up plan in case her current relationship fails. Mead posted... everyone has their own struggles and their own privileges in life, thats true of people from all backgrounds Yeah that tends to happen to you when you're not doing well. I guess I need to do something about that. FrozenBananas posted... bro what the fuck Yeah that happened because she was extremely self conscious about her body. She really didn't like her body and found faults in it everywhere. I constantly told her that wasn't true but she never believed me. She also commonly had stomach cramps and that usually killed her mood as well. She also had traces of HPV for many years and she didn't want me to get infected. Zeus posted... If that was the first time she'd done "the thing" with anybody, she might have been more open to it after you. That or the other guy was better at talking her into... idk, whatever hardcore kink you're probably referring to. No she has had sex with others before me. She's just really awkward in bed. She asked me if she could tell her first though so it's not that she was just gossiping to her friend about me. I was just being respectful of her problems and didn't want her to feel uncomfortable : ( --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/30/21 1:19:40 PM #4 | Mead posted... Yeah it sounds like your relationship was strange in a lot of ways Yes I know that our relationship was really... unique. I can only hope my next relationship is more normal. I also just want to say that life can be unfair for guys too despite how so many people yapping about how many privileges guys have. We don't. It's the rich people who are the truly privileged. And my ex's mother was a sexist shitbag and I hope I never get to meet someone like her ever again. wwinterj25 posted... Anyone would think that when you had to wait six years for sex in a relationship but chad gets it right away when you split is weird. Still it does show that you're respectful of others wishes. Yeah they both told me that I'm respectful to a fault even to someone who clearly showed me a lack of respect. --- |
| Topic | I was lectured about relationships by my two female coworkers today. |
| LeetCheet 08/30/21 12:43:10 PM #1 | I told one of them about my relationship issues and how it all ended. Well long story short she didn't like how my ex treated me and she especially took issue with the fact that my ex made me wait six years to do the thing with her while this new guy managed to do it in a few weeks if that. She even told that younger woman(which she's best friends with) about it all and she was also angered by it. Jeez now that really cute woman knows that I was c-blocked for half a decade. I don't quite know if I should be embarrassed or flattered about the fact that these two women actually cared about my wellbeing. What the heck? What did I do to make these two really nice women to do this for me? Not that I mind, I'm just so surprised that this is even happening. --- |
| Topic | I got told I was attractive tonight |
| LeetCheet 08/30/21 11:36:00 AM #10 | Jen0125 posted... Serious question, your girlfriend you allegedly had a baby with never told you that you were handsome or attractive? Seems weird I think it's downright tragic that men usually don't get any compliments at all from anyone these days. --- |
| Topic | I got told I was attractive tonight |
| LeetCheet 08/30/21 4:48:32 AM #2 | I've think the amount of compliments I've ever received can be counted on my hands. --- |
| Topic | Do you people like Geometry |
| LeetCheet 08/29/21 4:28:59 AM #7 | |
| Topic | Is anyone else petrified of losing their achievments/trophies? |
| LeetCheet 08/29/21 4:27:46 AM #11 | I probably would've been about ten years ago if it happened to me. Nowadays I don't give a fuck. --- |
| Topic | Black Widow is white. |
| LeetCheet 08/28/21 4:33:14 AM #13 | Yeah they should start calling her White Widow so no one can get their feelings hurt about names and colours not matching the skin colour of the actor/actress/actperson. --- |
| Topic | Why do some people on here talk in the third person? |
| LeetCheet 08/27/21 4:10:49 AM #14 | Me Leet no talking in third person. Me Leet always talking like this. --- |
| Topic | Are video game ratings more than guidelines?? |
| LeetCheet 08/25/21 10:03:24 PM #7 | Yeah they are more like guidelines than actual ratings. I mean, the ratings existence in the first place was because parents wanted to easily know what game is suitable for their children. --- |
| Topic | Wario loves garlic. He eat whole cloves of it day and night. |
| LeetCheet 08/25/21 1:54:26 AM #1 | So try not to get caught in his mouth. Once that smell gets on you it'll stick to you for quite a while. --- |
| Topic | Alabama Nurse AND her Unborn Child DIE from COVID-19 who was afraid of VACCINES |
| LeetCheet 08/24/21 11:32:48 PM #2 | I thought women were recommended to not take any vaccines while they're pregnant though? --- |
| Topic | How do I become attractive to women? |
| LeetCheet 08/24/21 11:24:44 PM #73 | And I'm just saying how it is. Just because it doesn't happen to you that doesn't mean it never happens to others. And why it doesn't happen to you as to other girls... Well, I think you already know that yourself. Not trying to be offensive here. Just saying how shallow people can be(both men and women). You seem to be pretty confident in a yourself, so that makes me think you're quite happy with your transition. And that's great. I wish more people(myself included) could be more confident about themselves. Edit: Oh you deleted the post. --- |
| Topic | How do I become attractive to women? |
| LeetCheet 08/24/21 11:10:25 PM #70 | Kanatteru posted... i don't know how to date but i'm a girl so apparently everyone is throwing themselves at me constantly and i don't actually need any advice so idk what the hell i'm supposed to do Guys are much more likely to throw themselves at girls than the opposite. That's why there are a multitude more guys on dating apps than girls. Just because it doesn't happen to you that doesn't mean it doesn't happen to others. Like my ex girlfriend, while I was together with her she had a lot of guy friends and many of them texted her daily. And even before we broke up she had already found someone else and she almost entirely stopped texting me. Of all the girls I've met and shown interest in, they've all shown me how dismissive they were and how much empathy they lacked. It's so hard to find any decent people these days, so many of them are so damn selfish and don't give a shit how other people feel. --- |
| Topic | How do I become attractive to women? |
| LeetCheet 08/24/21 2:38:32 PM #21 | joemodda posted... Lmk cuz I'm literally invisible to women Yeah you're invisible to them unless you're rich or attractive. --- |
| Topic | Who is the greater captain? |
| LeetCheet 08/24/21 9:36:43 AM #17 | |
| Topic | Who is the greater captain? |
| LeetCheet 08/24/21 5:55:37 AM #6 | |
| Topic | Israels coronavirus cases surge despite being one of the most vaccinated country |
| LeetCheet 08/23/21 1:09:13 PM #2 | Almost like people think they're invincible as soon as they got their shots and started to live like normal again. --- |
| Topic | Hey now |
| LeetCheet 08/23/21 6:11:40 AM #5 | rexcrk posted... Get your game on No it's; It's time to d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-dDUEL!! --- |
| Topic | Thing that people warned would happen in Afghanistan happened in Afghanistan |
| LeetCheet 08/23/21 1:41:42 AM #38 | Notschmendrake posted... Its easy to sit on the sideline and spout out about how we shouldnt be there and we shouldnt go back and yadda yadda yadda The men are also dying and being tormented by the talibans. It's ignorant to say that only women(and children) are affected by this. Way over half of the victims have been males. --- |
| Topic | 3 AMERICANS say their lives are DESTROYED after Popular Website BANS PORN!!! |
| LeetCheet 08/23/21 1:23:26 AM #20 | Maybe get some proper jobs instead of exploiting your bodies for money. I mean, eventuelly you're gonna get old and by then those same bodies ain't gonna cut it anymore. --- |
| Topic | ITT: Fat Controllers |
| LeetCheet 08/22/21 11:05:58 PM #12 | |
| Topic | Is Lokarin the Canadian Icoyar? |
| LeetCheet 08/22/21 11:04:17 PM #21 | Is ICOYAR even around anymore? I don't think I've seen him here for months. --- |
| Topic | Did you know in Dark Souls you can actually escape grabs? |
| LeetCheet 08/22/21 1:22:08 PM #5 | |
| Topic | lmao. trump booed at rally after telling people to get vaccinated |
| LeetCheet 08/22/21 12:13:28 PM #11 | That's interesting. I never heard how bad it was for him. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/21/21 5:08:41 PM #47 | Cruddy_horse posted... LeetCheet posted... Ouch. Sorry to hear that. But I'm pretty sure you're 100% right. When she gets into another relationship, which she could potentially do in the future because, well, I've already said it above, I will just get devastated again. Though, I doubt that guy will have the same patience for her mother that I had for over seven years. He will probably quickly realize how lost of a cause her mother is and he will get the hell out of there. I just realized how much it sucked to hear that she banged a guy from her work. Even if we were 'on a break' from each other. She could've at least waited more than a few weeks until she started inviting people home. I know she didn't really like that stuff and maybe he forced himself on her? I mean, it did seem like she wasn't proud of it. ... It's 100% impossible to somehow get together with her again when she had sex with another guy, isn't it? Now I'm imagining some guy banging her in the same bed we used to sleep(as in Zzz) together in. Goddammit I hate my life so much! I feel so betrayed. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/21/21 10:00:37 AM #44 | Yeah but I still feel like crap. She was the one who gave me strength to cope with my life somewhat. Everything feels so pointless now and I'm so hungry but I don't feel like eating. I'm going to see my mother in a few hours at least. Tell her the bad news. What really breaks my heart is that she's expecting us both. I haven't even told my brother whom which I share the same apartment with. But that's mostly because girls have always been an awkward topic between us. But I feel like I'm an asshole if I don't tell him. --- |
| Topic | 343 Industries is the worst major game developer out there. |
| LeetCheet 08/21/21 2:07:56 AM #15 | 343i is by far the most incompetent developer I've ever seen. Every single one of their games has had quite a few glaring issues. 4 was a decent first try but the new artstyle was so horrible and a lot of stuff didn't mesh well in the MP. MCC was a broken mess even after months worth of patches. They eventually started fixing it after 5's failure. 5 was so bad in a variety of ways. No splitscreen, the story was shit and the characters were annoying, they ruined the Master Chief and you barely got to play him. Halo Wars 2 is probably the only game they had an hand in that I actually liked. Yeah the MP was lootbox'd to hell and they didn't include the last DLC in the season pass but it was still the most fun I've had in a Halo game since Reach. And Infinite seems to be a shitshow as well. Last year's E3 it got so much bad reception from fans that they had to delay the game. What if they actually released the game when they were originally going to? They would've been torn to pieces by reviewers and fans alike. It still baffles me how MS is still letting these people run this franchise. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/21/21 1:49:49 AM #42 | Cruddy_horse posted... Dude honestly based on your last few posts you really need to cut this girl out of your life, I know it must be hard but from the way you describe things there's A LOT of red flags, she's likely lying to you about a fuckload of stuff to make you feel a little bit better and she's trying to direct the blame towards her mother and you're falling for it. Even if her mother is an awful person it doesn't take away from the fact she's not so good either. Hurts to read that but there is probably some truth in what you're saying. Though I think it's true that she isn't enjoying sex because she's so extremely awkward at it. I mean, she has never masturbated even once in her entire life(she's 38 btw). I told her that she's missing so much and because she's a girl, her orgasms has the potential to be so much better than I can ever have. I'm starting to think she isn't all that sexual to begin with. Yes guys' orgasms is pretty easy and straight forward to achieve but it only lasts for a couple of seconds and then they're unable to get another one for a while. Which seems kinda disappointing compared to women's that can get not only once but Multiple times and they can last for minutes. The only downside as far as I understand is that it can be widely different for different women and some can't even get it at all. I still feel like guys are getting the short end of the stick though : ( --- |
| Topic | No way... Hayden Christensen hacked T-Mobile! |
| LeetCheet 08/20/21 11:31:34 PM #17 | |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/20/21 5:54:37 PM #38 | Thanks man. I hope you're doing better as well. And I appreciate all the posts in this topic. There's a reason why I keep coming to this board. Even though I've felt like I've been a complete ass many times. I just wish I could translate my social skills I have here to IRL somehow. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/20/21 12:19:46 PM #36 | Yeah but it sounded like she didn't enjoy it much as she said it was just awkward. That kinda felt good to hear for some reason. She also told me that her mother still doesn't like me despite the fact that we spoke to eachother a few weeks ago. I told her how hard my life has been and how much I struggle with everyday things. When we talked it felt like she finally understood me somewhat and told me that she never disliked me and that I was welcome to visit them any day. As it turns out she was lying through her teeth as she's been continuing to say bad things about me to my ex because she didn't want us to be together anymore so she could have her to herself(she forced my ex to go on vacation with her last week). That old bag didn't even listen to anything I told her. She doesn't care if other people are depressed or lonely or if she makes other people feel even worse. I figured as much, because when we talked, she told me multiple times all throughout our conversation that we both needed to take a break from eachother and said that I needed specifically a male friend that I can hang out regularly with. Fuck that b****, I've never met someone so damn selfish and unsympathic as that lying ass****. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/20/21 9:56:19 AM #34 | I visited her after work today. We had some coffee and cookies and talked. I noticed she had a dark spot on her neck. She didn't felt so comfortable telling me what it was. Afterwards I started picking up the things I left there since I used to partially live there for seven years. I noticed a bodywash for men that wasn't mine. And another pillow(that wasn't mine) on her bed. Oh. So she slept with this guy, which took me 6+ years to get to do. I asked her about this and she said yes. She still thought it was really awkward. I was devastated at first of course, but I told her I wasn't angry. We were on a break from eachother after all. It's her life and she could do whatever she wants. She told me earlier that she wasn't gonna go into a relationship anyway because of her disagreements with her mother. We came to agreement that we would try to stay friends as long as possible and we would still visit eachother like on birthdays or just have a cup of coffee or something. I really hope we can still be friends no matter what. I've already lost too many of the few friends I've managed to get in my life. Still, it still feels like hardest stuff is still ahead of me. --- |
| Topic | You know, I am as much of a pervert as the next guy, but twitch really needs to |
| LeetCheet 08/20/21 4:41:02 AM #14 | OrangeDawn posted... Gaawa_chan posted... There has been guys that got banned because they took their shirt off IIRC. Still, it's a website where you stream when you play videogames. Scantily clad people who are barely even playing games shouldn't be streaming here anyway. --- |
| Topic | What's the most expensive thing you bought this year? |
| LeetCheet 08/20/21 4:37:37 AM #15 | A Masterpiece Starscream v2.0 figure for $275. It looks extremely accurate to the show but it has a tolerance issue with one of the wings when you transform it. So when my copy is in robot mode the left wing is mistransformed. For a figure this expensive it shouldn't have that issue. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/19/21 10:24:43 PM #33 | Jen0125 posted... Modest_Mouse posted...what really When the infection eventually went away we actually started doing it. She's always been self-conscious about her body though. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/19/21 12:50:50 AM #23 | Bugmeat posted... Did you spend a lot of time complaining to her about her mom? Yes but she did also complain about her so I thought it was ok to do it too. Her shenanigans pissed me off so much. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/18/21 7:54:30 PM #18 | I stopped taking them because I thought I didn't need them anymore. This was like eight years ago I think. I was thinking about taking meds again last year and I told my doctor about it and he said he would let me talk to a psychologist. It never happened and I felt like nobody cared so I couldn't be arsed. I hate these feelings and I wonder who my ex is seeing now. If it's who I think it is I'm going to be so pissed. And the guy I'm thinking about is a slob who cheated on his previous girlfriend and he was always flirting with others girls. If she thinks she's gonna get a stable relationship from that guy then she's in for a surprise. This guy smokes and eats extremely unhealthily as well. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/18/21 7:22:33 PM #16 | Red04 posted... Sorry to hear that man, sincerely. Depression sucks but dont blame yourself for it, its definitely not something thats easy to cope with and its difficult for many to understand because the the pain is concealed no matter how much you suffer within. Im not sure how many people know the difference between feeling low and an actual depression. Thanks. I've been on antidepressants before but I've since then stopped taking them. And I'm seeing my therapist next week. It's going to be a doozy because I have a lot to unpack now. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/18/21 7:19:18 PM #15 | Yeah. I always give people another chance because I want to believe that people can change their ways. I lost my first job because I was depressed. I was so desperate for any kind of help I finally mustered enough courage to tell my boss that I was depressed. Later that same week I was laid off. I finally convinced myself to reach for help and all I got was getting spat in the face. Gee I wonder why men don't usually tell other people that they aren't feeling well. Look, I could tell you guys so many stories on how ridiculous this woman is. Like how she judged someone based on their name. Their frigging NAME and she never even met the guy. This woman is so shallow that she refuses to wear a hat during cold winters(I live above the Arctic circle where the winters are really cold) because she doesn't want her hair to get squished. She'd rather freeze her ears off than having her hair messed up. She even complained that my girlfriend applied hairproducts directly on the head instead of on her hand first(and then spread it on the head). Well... At least I don't have to put up with her shit anymore. --- |
| Topic | Guess I'm alone again : ( |
| LeetCheet 08/18/21 6:12:09 PM #11 | Jefejonny posted... ClarkDuke posted...its your fault, man up and stop blaming her mother, ok? its your first step to getting past this.Damn roasted Yes getting unfairly treated by someone who clearly should've known better is definitely my own fault. Jeez like shitting on someone who's already at the bottom is gonna make things easier for that person to cope with life. Why can't people just be more understanding of other people's misfortunes and just be decent human beings for once? --- |
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