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Topic	'Final Destination' moment caught on film at HS basketball game
BCAM1984 01/23/21 2:03:26 AM #5	DD Divine posted... That still counts as 2 Lol, this wins the topic. Shut it down. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Best Investing App?
BCAM1984 01/18/21 10:39:15 PM #1	Discuss --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Holy shit Tomi Lahren has taken up arms and she's FURIOUS
BCAM1984 01/05/21 2:47:16 PM #20	pogo_rabid posted... If you mute it, you can pretend she's angry at you for coming home late and smelling like alcohol. NatsuSama posted... Until she starts talking. https://youtu.be/pRTq7i0dGnA --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Batman dilemma: You discover a serum that can make Joker sane or cure Nora.
BCAM1984 01/05/21 8:06:19 AM #21	Batman would probably save Nora, but in reality curing the Joker would save so many more lives... --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Find a girl who likes Buffy and video games
BCAM1984 11/14/20 11:40:30 AM #12	Blue_Inigo posted... That's a keeper Truth. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	That time Hank Hill tried to sell propane to Silver Surfer
BCAM1984 10/05/20 3:11:14 PM #2	Lol --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Would you buy a Zelda: Triforce Trilogy?
BCAM1984 09/07/20 10:13:03 PM #19	most definitely. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Company has a 2 day conference with 130 people with masks and social distancing
BCAM1984 09/07/20 10:12:01 PM #1	Your state is still having issues with Coronavirus - Do you attend? Yes No Your state is still having issues with Coronavirus - Do you attend? - Results (18 votes) Yes 33.33% (6 votes) 6 No 66.67% (12 votes) 12 Conference attendees are coming from all over your state. Discuss. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Fighting with my wife bc we're not having sex.
BCAM1984 08/31/20 11:55:02 AM #119	Zanzenburger posted... It is alarming how many times cheating has been brought up as a solution to this problem. I mean, you do you, but if you'd like to take a more moral path, here are some suggestions. First, and I cannot express this enough, marriage counseling is absolutely necessary here. It seems you have already tried on your own and she gets defensive. The issue is more on her than on you now (based on what you've shared). A marriage counselor can give her a more neutral third party opinion and likely support you if you've been doing things right. But I get not everyone can afford a marriage counselor (or even convince the other couple to go). My wife and I have gone through dry spells as well. There have been times I just didn't want it, and times she didn't want it. It can happen for a multitude of reasons, from stress, fatigue, to hormonal problems as others have stated. One suggestion I may recommend is try some foreplay, but without the expectation of sex. Spoon her, touch her seductively, tell her she's beautiful right before bed. I think the other user was right in that she might be self conscious about her weight gain and that affects her sex drive. There was a time when my wife was depressed due to her job being terrible. She wasn't wanting it either. Little romantic things like that in the bedroom, without pressuring her into sex, really helped. It made her feel special. I've learned that a lot of times women don't want full on sex as much as men do, but they do want the intimacy that comes with sex. Give her that intimacy, let her feel good, and she's more likely to give you sex. Probably every other time I did this, she'd get turned on enough that we'd go all the way. Eventually, as her mental health started getting better, she would initiate it herself. Now we're doing just fine. Our sex life was active even when we fostered three difficult toddlers for a year. If it truly is hormonal, the above may not work. Medication could help. She could have cysts in her ovaries, which affect sex drive. Or thyroid problems. or IBS. There are so many conditions that affect a woman's sex drives and it can make them self-conscious and defensive. There are treatments for this that really help, but she would need to be willing to see a doctor. It's a good idea to see one anyways, sex-related or not. <_< If none of that seems to work, then I think the problem is more than just sex-related. At that point there is a completely lack of intimacy in your marriage, and if she refuses to even try, then there are deeper-rooted issues. It's up to you at that point if you think the marriage is worth saving or if it's time to call it quits. Fortunately, if you have documented evidence of going to therapists and doing what you can to help her, it will make the divorce easier on you if it comes down to that as judges like to see which party tried harder to make it work. It's true that marriage isn't easy. It requires a level of maintenance that you don't have to worry about when single or simply dating. For some people, marriage is just not worth the amount of work required to keep it healthy. Personally, the rewards of having a spouse vastly outweigh the work required to keep them happy and your relationship healthy. To have that one person that knows you inside out, that supports you through your toughest times and you with them, to cheer on you during your victories and hate on your enemies for you even though they don't know them. It's amazing. I can't imagine myself in a life without my wife. We have both boosted each other up and have both picked each other up from a dark place at some points in our lives. I just felt I needed to say that because this whole topic puts marriage in such a negative light that it's easy to forget why people do it in the first place. TC, this is the best advice give here. Please read this. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Fighting with my wife bc we're not having sex.
BCAM1984 08/31/20 11:47:31 AM #117	im not 13 posted... Spend more time with her without the pressures of sex. Go out on date nights, listen to her needs, help more, Be smart with your approach don't do the usual things like just flat out asking for sex. Ask to have a shower with her, offer her massages, nice stay in a hotel etc If all of that fails then tell her how much it effects you and be straight up with her --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Fighting with my wife bc we're not having sex.
BCAM1984 08/31/20 11:42:00 AM #114	Tequilawhatitdo posted... Is she on any medication or birth control? Recently? Her hormones could be whacked right now. also this. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Fighting with my wife bc we're not having sex.
BCAM1984 08/31/20 11:29:36 AM #112	TooLateToGoBack posted... this is a discussion reserved for a marriage counselor, not a GameFAQs message board Also This --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Fighting with my wife bc we're not having sex.
BCAM1984 08/31/20 11:27:42 AM #111	legendary_zell posted... Wow, TC, I suggest you run away from this website because the people here either hate women, have no relationship experience, or have very wrongheaded ideas about relationships. Speak to her like an adult, tell her your honest feelings, and go see a credentialed professional. The people here will lead you astray with their inexperience and bitterness. Do not cheat on your wife or disengage. THIS. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Just finding out about PlutoTv and TubiTV apps.
BCAM1984 08/25/20 11:36:33 PM #6	Phantom36 posted... Shhhh don't tell anyone about Pluto. They still have the channel that streams Cops 24/7 and I'd rather not have a bunch of social justice warriors demand they remove it and ruin that. >.> lol --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Just finding out about PlutoTv and TubiTV apps.
BCAM1984 08/25/20 11:35:38 PM #5	Poop2 posted... locast <img src="//:0">https://giphy.com/gifs/a5viI92PAF89q --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Just finding out about PlutoTv and TubiTV apps.
BCAM1984 08/25/20 11:28:37 PM #1	Wow. Anything else I have missed in terms of free tv apps? --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Favorite Free games on Steam?
BCAM1984 08/17/20 12:37:38 AM #3	SolidShadow3 posted... https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1488-free-games Thank you. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Favorite Free games on Steam?
BCAM1984 08/17/20 12:18:40 AM #1	I got Tomb Raider and Injustice Free on Steam a while ago. Any more recommendations? --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	HD Antenna Recommendations?
BCAM1984 08/16/20 3:23:57 PM #1	Please discuss. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Looking for a meme that explains the problems that COVID19 survivors could face
BCAM1984 07/27/20 10:17:36 PM #3	The23rdMagus posted... Found it. Thank you so much! Appreciate it. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Looking for a meme that explains the problems that COVID19 survivors could face
BCAM1984 07/27/20 9:10:25 PM #1	It discusses and gives a good argument to those who keep saying there is no need to panic because the survival rate is high. It breaks down the percentages of those with potentially long term complications after COVID19. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	Do you agree with what Batman did in The Dark Knight Rises? (Spoilers)
BCAM1984 07/25/20 12:58:45 PM #3	I love the Nolan series. But that was the most un-Batman thing in whole series. He would not take a 8 year break. That was too long. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Topic	I watched the first season of Heroes.
BCAM1984 07/20/20 11:47:59 PM #5	It has its ups and downs. I loved all four seasons. The reboot was not good, it is worth watching, but it is a downer. --- Romans 12:21 - "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
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