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TopicDerek Chauvin is going to be sentenced sometime in next few hours
BeantownHero
06/25/21 12:00:23 PM
#9
"Derek...lil Derek"



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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:58:13 AM
#253
WashYourHands posted...
There are many car rental services that will rent a car to an 18 year old.

How many 34 year olds have been president?

many, but hardly the standard

not many 34 year olds. I'm not sure what your point is


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:57:13 AM
#251
I got a yikes from tc for being 37 while my wife is 26

I mean, if yall met when she was 24, 25 and just fell madly for each other, nothing but love for ya, and I sincerely mean that

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TopicHas anyone made a Superbad edit where it removes 90% of the cop scenes?
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:51:11 AM
#3
AngelsNAirwav3s posted...
McLovin and the cops were the best plot line in the movie, what is this garbage opinion


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:49:35 AM
#249
an 18 year can give consent, totally means they're of the emotional and mature mindset to do anything!

we dont even let 18 year olds rent cars for goodness sake. How many 18 year old presidents do we have again?

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:36:47 AM
#241
An 18 year old generally not being mature enough to deal with sexual/romantic relations with people significantly older than them means they're incapable of deciding on going on a trip without parental approval...jesus christ

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TopicThoughts on Critical Race Theory?
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:34:06 AM
#71
A completely legit academic study conservative politicians have weaponized to rally ignorant white folks to their side, conservative grifters have weaponized to make money and racists have weaponized to obfuscate their hatred of black people

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:31:51 AM
#238
Artemis86 posted...
The people in my example were not speeding tho.

going the exact speed limit harms no one though, so I'm not sure why you used that as an example. There's no exploitive nature or power dynamics to manipulate by going the exact speed limit. No one is hurt by this action

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:27:12 AM
#230
And I know you're really not that dumb that you can't figure out why an age gap with the younger person being in their 20s or 30s has 0 relevance to a discussion about people who only pursue the barely legal

They're people in this very topic that see no difference between a person in their mid to late 20s dating a person in their 30s and a person in their 30s dating someone fresh out of high school.

Its fucking nuts

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 11:25:10 AM
#229
Artemis86 posted...
Yeah it was definitely the nature of the law and not highlighting the silliness of shitting on people for complying with a law.

If you can't tell the difference between exploiting a law to do something like speeding and doing so to engage in physical relations with an impressionable and vulnerable human being, there ain't much I can do for you.

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 10:55:58 AM
#226
Artemis86 posted...
Lol tc somehow managed to get upset at legal adults performing consensual acts.

I saw so many scofflaws skirting the speed limit today. Some went right up to the exact digit allowed I tell you!

If you wanna compare traffic laws with sexual relations, have fun


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 10:30:47 AM
#221
Yo, we get it. You're from some part of the world where you all have deemed it ok to engage in relations with children. Do you.

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/25/21 10:25:03 AM
#219
Conflict posted...
Or obviously (as this topic outlined) they're doing it because they're the easiest to 'groom' without it legally being considered grooming.

They know this, so they have to keep screaming "18 is legal and that's all that matters"

also, I know there isnt much that can be done given the arena we are in, but this discussion could've definitely used some input from women

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 10:10:07 PM
#169
deoxxys posted...
What?? If I had the chance to bang a hot 50 milf when I was 18 I absolutely would (still would). It wouldnt ruin me. "Oh no, I put my dick into an old pussy for fun, so going to ruin my life, lmao".

Do you think the 30 plus year olds cruising social events populated 18 year olds are the Male equivalent of Milfs?

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 10:04:54 PM
#165
bsp77 posted...
@BeantownHero kinda pathetic. I was having an actual conversation and challenging you vs simply opposing without reason, and you back off. Even when I tagged you.

Here is the bottom line. Judging people without knowing their story is always bad. Maybe a 30 sometning with an 18yo is often bad, but sometimes it's not. Will you judge them all if 33% are actually healthy? What if 20%? What if only 10%? The point is that it is not okay to look at a couple and claim it is disgusting when there is a chance it isn't. Get off your fucking high horse.

so your issue is you believe I'm treating this as an absolute?


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 9:28:42 PM
#156
electricbugs2 posted...
Almost like once you get to college age doesnt mean fucking dick. There was parties I went to that had 50 year old dudes getting turnt with 18 year olds. Thats life. Learn.

and those 50 year olds were gross losers exploiting youthful exuberance and general recklessness.

I woulda partied with 50 year olds as a freshman too, wouldnt have made it right.

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 9:20:05 PM
#153
WashYourHands posted...
The overuse of the words kids/girls referring to adults while trying to belittle consenting adults having sexual relations is very telling.

yeah, because we all know society in general views kids as adults, fully formed and capable of engaging with their seniors in every social dynamic, the moment they receive their diploma.

reminds me of all the totally welcomed 30 somethings I'd see on frat road at Umass amherst.

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 9:14:32 PM
#148
"why should you want wisdom and maturity in the person you're having sexual/romantic relations with?"

jesus christ

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 9:13:04 PM
#145
Pepys Monster posted...
How many times someone has filed a tax return is the most important aspect of a relationship.

it's all good. I'm sure you only go after the kids barley able to vote who have old souls

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 9:08:24 PM
#141
VayneSolo posted...
It's a good thing to leave a mark on people like you. I'm happy for it. Lmao

Why should we give a shit if you and people like you look at someone sideways? What difference would it make if some random people thought badly of me?

nope, enjoy that 18 year old with all that maturity and wisdom and I'm sure you're looking for in someone who, maybe, has filed a tax return twice


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 8:59:20 PM
#134
Pepys Monster posted...
Hit the gym, take a shower, get a clue. Then you wouldn't have to be so bitter towards others who have relationships.

I've been with my partner for 5 years, the fuck are you talking about?

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 8:58:39 PM
#133
Gwynevere posted...
So this entire topic just comes down to wanting to project your worldview and hope that others give you some reassurance?

What a let down

I'm sorry that's what you took from all this


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 8:56:40 PM
#131
Alucard188 posted...
You created a topic about age of consent just to start an argument, and call yourself well adjusted in the same breath.

expressing disdain at a general atmosphere of creepy behavior towards younger people in terms of views on sexual relations is starting an argument and demonstrates someone isnt well adjusted? what an odd take

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 8:54:42 PM
#129
bsp77 posted...
But where is the dividing line of when it does become okay? Is it an age hugher than 18? Is it a certain age gap? Is it the Parks & Rec rule? I admit that someone in their 30s dating an 18 year seems creepy, but without making up some rule (and I hate arbitrary rules), it has to be taken on a case by case basis. How did they meet? Was the older one purposefully going so young or did it just happen? Do they actually truly like each other, or it just youth vs power/money?

Case by case basis, with the majority of cases being fucking creepy/downright exploitive, formed my opinion on the matter.

theres a reason why those who seem perturbed by my stance have to conjure up these outlier scenarios, when it reality, significantly older people engaging in relations with barley legals are almost certainly finding them in situations one of them shouldnt be in, or are exploting a power dynamic.

it's like some of yall dont have women in your lives and are approaching this soley as an academic exercise. it's kinda wild


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 8:47:49 PM
#123
Tenlaar posted...
TIL: following a law = exploiting that law.

Glad you learned something

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 8:45:00 PM
#122
VayneSolo posted...
Prudish Americans or trolls. Also, American laws do not apply worldwide.

Grown ass adults, under the law, have the right to date and fuck people fresh out high school

me, and most of the well adjusted members of society, are gonna look at you sideways, and rightfully so.

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 8:23:33 PM
#104
Pepys Monster posted...
Guys with no game: Those guys succeeding with young adult women are predators. >:(

the fact that you think older men picking up younger women is a sign of advanced game is very telling

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 8:19:57 PM
#101
bsp77 posted...
Uncalled for. What is wrong with 37 and 26? I am 44 and my girlfriend is 28. I assume you have a problem with that. I wasn't purposefully pursuing her and we had been friends for 3 years first. It just seemed right. Who are you to judge?

what about any of this have to do with exploting age of consent laws?

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Topicscott cathon creator of FNAF exposed for alt right views
BeantownHero
06/24/21 7:17:08 PM
#290
"Love thy neighbor, unless they're black or brown, women who are pro choice and/or feminists LGBTQ members who want equal rights and non European immigrants"


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:51:23 PM
#83
WashYourHands posted...
If she is an adult idgaf who she lays with tbh.

my oldest daughter is 22 btw, she has been shuffling between being straight and bi. She lives her own life

yikes, but do you. Hopefully your wife feels the same.


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:47:10 PM
#81
WashYourHands posted...
Do you loose sleep at night thinking about how you were taken advantage of?

No, do you lay up at night praying your future daughter doesn't use your marraige to justify banging the local 30+ year attending frat parties at her university?

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:45:31 PM
#80
CanuckCowboy posted...
Thats a very disingenuous response.

You're right. How did I not consider a scenario like the 18 year who came out of a coma 10 years later dating a college freshman after going back to school when forming my opinion on age of consent and those who seek to exploit it? forgive me.

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:41:53 PM
#74
CanuckCowboy posted...
Because you made a blanket statement about what's morally okay.

I'm sorry I didn't include every and all situations when I started that skirting the age of consent is fucked up.

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:39:13 PM
#69
WashYourHands posted...
jealously is a terrible disease

Olympic level gymnastics.

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:37:36 PM
#65
Also what if one person is 22 and never went to college and the other is an 18 year old college student?

college aged =/= college student

You're drawing very arbitrary lines. A guy in their 30s exclusively pursuing 18 year olds is fucked. No argument there. But what if they just meet and hit it off and one thing leads to another naturally? Why do you think that's so wrong?

Bro, of course they're gonna be exceptions to every general rule. You think the 33 year old returning college student falling for the college freshman (which is super fucking weird) is a common occurrence? Why are you adamant about arguing outliers?


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:34:22 PM
#60
WashYourHands posted...
37, and my wife is 26

ok, I can see why you said what you said

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:33:18 PM
#59
Gwynevere posted...
Okay, so now that you've added details that weren't there initially, is it just the age difference that's immoral or is it also the fact that drugs and alcohol were involved?

I'm not seeing a lot of consistency here

older predators enticing barley legals with vice is as old as time itself. I used my personal experience as an example


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:32:15 PM
#57
Tenlaar posted...
Did this woman rape you, yes or no?

do you draw the line of inappropriate relations at rape?

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:22:58 PM
#49
WashYourHands posted...


ok, you are getting the WalkingLobsters tag of bad opinions

How old are you?

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:22:20 PM
#47
CanuckCowboy posted...
Who said anything about luring a kid with booze or drugs?

You said it was morally wrong without any other context or details.... if it just happens is it wrong?

I can't really think of a situation, outside of two college aged kids, where it would be morally ok


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:19:42 PM
#41
CanuckCowboy posted...
Why?

Also you dont get to decide whats morally wrong.

luring an 18 year kid in with promises of booze and drugs is fucked up. Also, of course I'm not the sole arbiter on morality. I'm not entirely sure what your point behind that was

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:17:25 PM
#38
Tenlaar posted...
You could actually explain yourself instead of telling me to watch an old ass comedy movie. What is the "spirit" of age of consent if it's not that when somebody reaches a certain age they are free to choose to be with whomever they want?

Ok, since you seem determined to play dumb, it's when someone is zeroed in on a technicality (He/she is 17, good to go), while ignoring the societal and moral implications.

my 3rd sexual partner, at 18, was a woman in her late 30s. She absolutely was in the moral wrong.


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:13:49 PM
#31
Tenlaar posted...
First, you said "CEman" in your OP. Your fault that you made this thread specifically talking about men, not me. Second, what is this "spirit" of age of consent that you are making up?

I'm talking about a specific group of men. Most men dont tie themselves into knots justifying dates barley legal adults.

As for the spirit of AoC laws, see the movie "Waiting" and the character Ryan Reynolds plays for good reference


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:09:55 PM
#22
COVxy posted...
Age of consent is a topic that people are deliberately uncritical about because they don't want to be seen a certain way.

tell us how you really feel bro

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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:08:59 PM
#21
Tenlaar posted...
Infantilizing adult women "for their own good": the thread.

The fact that you believe respecting not only the letter, but spirit of age of consent is equated to infantilizing, and infantilizing of only women, speaks more about you than I believe you were prepared for.

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TopicIs there a legitimate argument for not paying college athletes?
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:05:17 PM
#51
AngelsNAirwav3s posted...
Only like 20 schools actually make money from their football team

let's see what that number looks like when schools arent intentionally blowing money on expenses in order to cry poverty

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TopicIs there a legitimate argument for not paying college athletes?
BeantownHero
06/24/21 6:03:47 PM
#50
Squall28 posted...
Because professors and janitors are more essential than athletes. If I have a choice of lower tuition or having a sports team, I pick lower tuition. If tuition stays the same and they can get the money elsewhere, sure. Go ahead and pay them

janitors are the lifeblood of a multi billion dollar industry that requires a talent very few on this planet have?


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TopicToo many of yall justify skirting near the Age of Consent
BeantownHero
06/24/21 5:53:26 PM
#1
Weasel techniques, like a laser focus on the textbook definition of pedophilia, to the argument that legality is the only factor that should matter in romantic or sexual relations, CEman around here gotta do better. Its pretty gross right now

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TopicDrake Bell pleads guilty of being a pedophile
BeantownHero
06/24/21 5:39:38 PM
#119
arguing semantics on a message board during a discussion in which a grown man groomed and pursued an underage child

that's certainly one way to get your opinion across without being modded...

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