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Topic***OFFICIAL Superbowl LIV: 49'ers @ Chiefs Topic***
Varandil
02/02/20 8:30:15 PM
#197
It's just a shame that their music is so completely AIDS. Had to mute it.

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TopicFound out my girl was cheating on me for 3 months..
Varandil
01/18/20 6:12:32 AM
#45
Get rid. The concept of removing toxic people from your life applies across all relationships, whether it's partners, friends or family.

TL:DR version: Cheaters cheat, and not just sexually. If you let her get away with it, she'll abuse your trust in other ways too.

Story version: I was seeing this girl for a little while (was never going to work out long term anyway for a bunch of reason, chiefly as I was 28 and she was 18). She cheated on me multiple times when going out with friends - in hindsight not a surprise, she was easy AF when drinking. Despite that, though, we did naturally get on really well so we stayed friends. Cue 3 years of me being helpful and supportive multiple times, and her only making time for me when she felt like it.

We were talking about going on holiday somewhere, and settled on Berlin - we were paying 50% of everything each so it was all good, but I needed to get the deposits on flights and hotel down quickly so I paid those off and that counted as part of my 50%... then 3 days before, she bails on the whole holiday because she'd spent too much money clubbing, costing me a whole load of money (hotel returned deposit, airline wouldn't). Have barely spoken to her since, despite numerous attempts by her to "reconnect". Fact is, whether it's relationship, emotional, financial... if she's happy to abuse your trust one way, it won't be limited to just the one.

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TopicThe most prolific rapist in British legal history assaulted almost 200 men
Varandil
01/13/20 12:48:44 PM
#6
It barely seems to have registered with most people here in the UK. Too many absolute fucking morons obsessed with the Harry and Meghan BS to notice anything else.

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TopicWere you raised religious?
Varandil
01/13/20 12:42:59 PM
#10
At home, no, not at all. My school had assemblies every morning, with the Friday one being led by the local Vicar, but that's about it.

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Topic"What is something you believe the President has done well?"
Varandil
01/13/20 12:39:36 PM
#9
YellowMustard69 posted...
Everyone else already hates us and has for decades and has never been shy about making it known.
I don't think many of us ever literally hated the USA. Rolled our eyes at you a lot, sure, but that's about it.

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TopicIf a stranger's 5 year old 'steals' your phone, what do you do?
Varandil
01/11/20 8:48:35 PM
#7
Duncanwii posted...
Challenge them to a game of Yugioh.


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TopicI don't like when a girl's name is just a boy's name with an 'a' after it
Varandil
01/11/20 8:45:01 PM
#35
Purely posted...
Alexa
This one is kinda cheating though as Alex works for both male and female.

How do you feel about AlexanDRA coming from AlexanDER... It's not quite the same thing but almost

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