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TopicAfter losing your virginity, what's the longest you've gone without sex?
The Top Crusader
01/06/20 1:48:39 PM
#4
I forget exactly, my daughter was a really high-risk pregnancy and the doctor said we shouldn't for a long time. At least a few months... until the third trimester maybe... maybe just the second? I really don't remember anymore.

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TopicPlace your bets, CE. Who's Smash DLC Fighter 5?
The Top Crusader
01/06/20 1:46:57 PM
#25
Master Higgens

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Topichow old were you when your friends started to drift away?
The Top Crusader
01/06/20 12:14:23 PM
#73
LinkPizza posted...


Try just having them over. Thats what my mom did. Friend would come over so they could just catch up. Also, what about grandparents. I know my grandma use to watch me often. Or the other parent, for you to have some time with friends. Or whatever...

That's what happens usually, but even then at her age she is all over the place and its hard to really have a conversation when she's doing weird things, and of course I was always polite about it, but I have often been annoyed when my friends' kids would pester me directly, lol. So I try to spare them. Grandparents already do the babysitting when we're both at work, so I hate to abuse their kindness when I just want to goof off with friends. My wife works most evenings and weekends.

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Topichow old were you when your friends started to drift away?
The Top Crusader
01/06/20 10:36:44 AM
#68
Romulox28 posted...
it just happens tbh, when you go through these big lifestyle changes (getting serious with career, marriage, kids, etc) you tend to learn who your real friends are & what friendships have longevity in them, and aren't just a friendship of convenience (i.e. drinking buddies).

your priorities start to shift as your life changes and often it doesn't line up with those of other people and your friendship begins to drift apart because it's like you guys aren't on the same wavelength anymore.

it is a weird feeling. it happened a bit with me when i got married and now it is really happening to me as I am about to have my first kid.

Yeah. For me marriage wasn't a major change, and I'd say the same for the majority of my friends, but having kids is what really does it. My friends are cool and wouldn't complain about it, but its obviously not the greatest thing ever if I bring my two year old to meet at a restaurant or go to someone else's house, and can't really take her into a movie, etc. Can't always find a babysitter or want to pay for one. I just have the two year old, pretty much all my friends have older kids and eventually schedules start to open up again a bit, unless the kids are really involved in sports or whatever then it goes back to just hard to find the time, lol.

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Topichow old were you when your friends started to drift away?
The Top Crusader
01/05/20 10:42:24 PM
#60
There are certainly a few people I was good friends with in high school that I havent spoke to in years, I think in most cases we stayed in touch initially and still hung out and such until marriage or kids came along, plus some have moved out of the area.

Still, I have a lot of the same friends that I did in high school and even some in elementary that I communicate with on a regular basis and still hang out with some timeswe are all 36 or 37 and have wives and kids and such so there simply isnt much spare time for anyone and of course its even less likely our free time will match up often, but we get together when it does.

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TopicHaving seen every other entry, im obligated to see episode 9. Currently seated
The Top Crusader
01/05/20 10:36:40 PM
#3
Yeah I havent yet but I feel obligated to catch it before its out of theaters.

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TopicHow Iconic was The Iron Giant to you?
The Top Crusader
01/02/20 12:26:32 PM
#12
inloveanddeath0 posted...
It's definitely worth a watch regardless of age

I'm not opposed to it, I think it came out when I thought I was too old for animated films and while I don't really look at things that way anymore, just never got around to it.

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TopicHow Iconic was The Iron Giant to you?
The Top Crusader
01/02/20 12:17:44 PM
#8
Never saw it. So yeah I recognize the character but that's about it.

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