Lurker > Master Kazuya

If you're hunting to eat or whatever, I get that. But for sport seems really dumb. What a sissy way to prove dominance over life. Anyone can use a gun. Go fight those animals with your fists if you wanna kill things for fun, especially animals that could kill you back. Or donate the meat to someone that's hungry. That'd be wholesome. Or if animals are bothering the safety of your house/family or an invasion is causing an ecological imbalance. But you're fucked up and insecure if you just wanna kill things for the hell of it.

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She said although shes into me, she cant get all intimate with someone because she knows she'll catch feelings and can't do it if she already knows it wont work out long term. I never said it straight up wouldn't work out, just had hesitations, but I suppose they mean very similar things. Sometimes I feel like I should just lie to get laid but I don't wanna be an asshole.

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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...

This is probably the best decision. You already have second thoughts. Don't lead her or yourself on

Yeah. I responded as normal and at the end just let her know the truth that if she wants something long term, she deserves better cause I'm not sure, but if she just wants to meet up and talk and flirt and stuff, I'd be down to meet her.

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I'll just be honest with her and say that she deserves someone with no hesitations if she's looking for something long term.

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ThePrinceFish posted...

how limited is her arm mobility

No clue, enough to take selfies and pose for it though I guess.

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Apparently she cant go long distances without an electric wheelchair and has limited mobility in her arms. But she's hot af. I'm conflicted. I feel as though someone long term, I'd need someone generally able bodied. Which sounds awful but it's true.

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Awesome posted...

sounds like shes waiting for you to ask her out

She has a bf
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I've seen her around growing up cause I grew up with my younger cousin but recently we've been more cool with each other, like I had to pick up something for my uncle and she offered to come for the ride, she actually invites me to join in on conversations, etc. She's pretty cool so far and cute
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...

Some of the cegals would miss me

I never got entangled with any of that shit. I honestly found it astounding that people would still manage to find IRL drama on this random ass board.
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This site and board are shells of their former selves. Idk how there are even new people here. What keeps you here, or coming back?

Originally I liked the content and the amount of activity. Personally I've mostly moved to reddit, but the reason I enjoy coming back is that discussions here are much more real and honest, even if the userbase has shades of being toxic masculine or whatever. I'd rather read real opinions where 'up/down voting' consists of me paying attention on my own will instead of dumb buttons for other people to decide.
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I feel like it's not
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Sex yes, porn no
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OMFG she just responded. Wow. Life is silly af.
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Imagine being bothered by this
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MabusIncarnate posted...

Being patient and quick to move on is how I eventually found the right one and happiness

I always have this lingering doubt in the back of my head that, if I just pursued a little bit more to show that I actually wanted her, maybe it'd work. Maybe I didn't seem as interested so she lost interest but showing that I give a damn is what she wants. Idk, you're probably right in the grand scheme of things but it just sucks not knowing.
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This shit is so confusing cause I feel like I've lost girls doing both.
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Jiek_Fafn posted...

She told you that she didn't have anything to say and you took that as "let's send more texts". She clearly wanted to just get down to business and trade nudes. She probably got fed up by your lack of dick pics and just found someone else.

Idk how far into the post you read but she said she felt intimidated by having nothing interesting to say and then sorta fell off.

I wanted to meet up with her and so did she but she was traveling all of last week and said she'd be back next week and we could meet up then, and she said that texting in the mean time would be good. So there was intent to meet up anyway. I might as well get to know her better while she's in another state.
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So at first we were messaging a bunch, then she just disappeared. About a month later, I hit her back up to try to reconnect and she said she felt intimidated cause she didnt have anything interesting to say and was still interested in connecting, so we kept talking. We'd send messages at least once a day for a whole week, like several messages at a time. On Saturday, I sent her messages and she sent me one in the midst of my multi string message. I finished messaging (with plenty of room for her to add in her input) and she still hasn't responded. To be fair she had a concert she was going to Sunday and is either flying back today or whatever but even while she was traveling this week we still texted every day.

Do you think I should send a follow up message tomorrow or just wait?
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Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...

If recent events are anything to go by, nudes have a constant habit of ending up all over the internet.

Can't blame her for being cautious.

It's on snapchat though
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Like, what exactly are you ashamed about? I already want all of you. I don't get it.
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They're cool lil kids (1, 3, and 2 years) but all we do is baby talk to them and we don't even talk about anything else. Just all about the kids. I get why but I don't feel like just going googoogaga for like 2 hours with my family I've known my whole life.
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LockeMonster posted...

hoping it escalates.

I'm not trying to argue if I'm a great morally flawless guy, but I am saying that hoping vs making something happen are different. Just never liked the whole thought police thing people like to do.
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LockeMonster posted...

Chasing someone

This is so frustrating, having to repeat myself to people that don't read other posts
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MarqueeSeries posted...

Fuck it man

Who cares if she has a bf? It's not a fiance or husband. If she ends up deciding that she'd rather pursue something with you, then that's great. If not, and she's happy with her bf, that's cool too.

Some of y'all take this shit way too seriously

Yeah idk why people are being weird. People act like I'm trying to sabotage or do something fucked up. It's just a work crush with someone that is attractive and I have some chemistry with. And honestly people forget that girls have agency over their relationship. Sometimes it's the girl that actually chooses where the relationship go, she's not being mind controlled by men.
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Lost_All_Senses posted...

Does she treat anyone else similar?

She's super nice to her students moreso than the other people but in terms of staff, not really

Super Saiyan 3 Goku posted...

How would you feel if one of your girl's co-workers was trying to slowly win her favor with the ultimate goal of asking her out?

I'd find it hot that other dudes lusted over her lol
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku posted...

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Feline_Heart posted...

Opposites attract. Just keep on doing what youve been doing and dont overthink things too much. Also try to get her to hang out with you outside of work so that she wont just see you as a work friend

I asked her to a coworker hangout I organized and she was willing, but then I had to move it last minute and she couldn't make the second date. I genuinely wanna hang out with her outside of work to get her out of her witty mode and connect deeper

What the hell are you doing? She has a BF. Back off.

I haven't asked her out, I just want to. I left it at "I owe you a drink sometime" cause she did a nice favor for me. Also, she's asked me to study once. So chill the hell out.
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glitteringfairy posted...

She's got a bf

Yeah that's partially why I'm keeping my distance a little and not pushing or asking her to hang out one on one even though I want to
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Feline_Heart posted...

Opposites attract. Just keep on doing what youve been doing and dont overthink things too much. Also try to get her to hang out with you outside of work so that she wont just see you as a work friend

I asked her to a coworker hangout I organized and she was willing, but then I had to move it last minute and she couldn't make the second date. I genuinely wanna hang out with her outside of work to get her out of her witty mode and connect deeper
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I honestly don't think our lifestyles match up too well or whatever, and sometimes conversation feels a lil forced, like she'd rather say something witty than keep digging deeper, but like, she actually acknowledges me lol. I mean pretty much every coworker says hi and stuff but she goes out of her way to do it, waits for me if we're walking to the same place, asks me when my lunch break is, and sometimes just stops in the room to say "just stopping by to say hi cause I haven't seen you all day". Just like, little things that shows she's being a human and not just some coworker that feels obligated to be polite. She follows up about stuff on my Snapchat, she remembers stuff I said pretty well and even takes my advice on the job. It feels like 90% of my other coworkers are just being nice to be nice or are in work mode and don't care to be casual.

I mean it helps that she's hot af too, but yeah. I feel like it wouldn't work because she's kinda structured, safe, and driven and I'm kinda lazy, risky, and super go with the flow. Also cause she has a BF lol.
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