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I want an app that's easy to store short term things I need to do, long term (sorted by week/month/etc), highlight more urgent ones, and shows it on my screen (like a widget) without me needing to open the app.

What does the best at this?
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I'm not sure that gay guys find straight porn as repulsive as straight guys watching gay porn. I'm sure it is to some degree, but there's a lot of cultural stigma around being gay than being straight. So it's like, a straight guy watching gay porn, not only are you instinctually not into it, but society also (unfortunately) lets you know how 'wrong' it is. Whereas a gay guy watching straight porn is just the instinctual side of it, not also cultural.
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Lost_All_Senses posted...

Psh, flying out of state to kiss pillows in other area codes. SAD

lmao
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Space_Man posted...

when kissing/making out with girls I've really liked.

But I feel like literally anything is better with people you like than not. Even sitting there doing nothing is better with people you like than complete strangers. I'm just talking about the feeling of it I guess. Kinda like how a professional guy masseuse would feel technically better than a girl you like giving an amateur massage, even though the latter implies deeper things (teehee).

CantKeepMeDown posted...

You're inexperienced by your own admission. I assure you that once you get good at it (and you're with someone good at it) that it feels a lot better. Even more so with someone you're in a relationship with and genuinely care for.

The kisses I've had that were good did feel good, but idk. I mean I'd rather kiss someone than watch someone kiss someone else, but I feel like it was mainly good because of the situation surrounding it instead of the actual feeling itself. I also would like a gf or something to do more often :\
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I've only kissed a handful of girls but idk, I found the actual feeling to just feel okay. I think what it's implying is nice, but the physical feeling is like, uh what. It looks intimate and romantic and close but it doesn't really feel like it, lol. Especially when the other person doesn't get your rhythm, it's kinda uncoordinated
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postin
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Banana_Cyanide posted...

So I just talked to my mom about this

Who cares who your mom is lol
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YoshitoKikuchi posted...

Why do guys call girls "baby"?

Girls also call guys baby, though less frequently. However, you're right, it's a weird term of endearment.
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Idk, I think it's a little weird. Because then that implies that I'm fucking my daughter, which is weird.
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Musician. I already am, so why wouldn't I go from low tier to god tier
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No_U_L7 posted...

Master Kazuya posted...

In my perspective, I used to keep being friends with girls like this because I always hoped that eventually I'd win them over or something. It's more of a defensive mechanism to 1) stop getting manipulated for attention and 2) stop myself from thinking stuff might mean something and just accept that this is how they are and moving on

Its mostly mindset in that you're upset about the way she feels about you and take it as an insult. If someone with a ton of girls in his life kinda liked her, he'd talk to her but be less needy and much more cool, which conveys more value to her. But by adopting the mindset of the 2nd guy with multiple girls, suddenly girls will start treating you like that guy and you'll have more girls in your life. Dont take things personally when a girl isn't into you, focus on yourself and the right mindset you should have

Idk, I'm not necessarily petty towards them. Just honest. As in, we can be friendly but we're not gonna be friends. She asked so I told her. Also the only way to get from "my mentality" to "2nd guy mentality" is to be honest with myself and eventually this stuff subsides.

Same thing with just people in general. If someone you are trying to be friends with doesn't ever want to hang out with you, but they are friendly towards you when you're in the same place, it's obvious where you stand. You don't have to assume they are horrible, but you do realize where you stand in their life and just adapt.

If I'm not getting interest from a girl that I want, there's no reason for me to try to adopt some different kind of mentality on the off chance she'll find it attractive. The best net outcome is to just forget her and move on to someone who does give a shit.
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No_U_L7 posted...

Master Kazuya posted...

I've cut her off from hanging out with other coworkers and stuff cause I was sick of her playing me. She's asked/assumed that I hate her, and I told her straight up that it's fucked that she wants to flirt so much but play it safe, and that I'm done with her if that's gonna continue.

What do you mean by supplicate

you're sounding too controlling for your status relative to her. you want to be so high status that she's chasing after you. trying to control her has the opposite effect and tells her you don't have other girls in your life

In my defense, I used to keep being friends with girls like this because I always hoped that eventually I'd win them over or something. It's more of a defensive mechanism to 1) stop getting manipulated for attention and 2) stop myself from thinking stuff might mean something and just accept that this is how they are and moving on.
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EnragedSlith posted...

She sounds like a mess and youre trying to take advantage of sad pussy. Truth is this girl isnt going to want anything substantial from anyone for a while, and Im not sure why youd want to put up with being used. Always left me feeling wrong.

I'm only in it to smash, I'm definitely not looking for a relationship with this ho
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No_U_L7 posted...

don't supplicate, make sure she sees you as a good viable target to sleep with, hard to do when she's shot you down for over a year so be really cognizant of it. don't let her ramble on about her ex, you'll become the friend she vents to instead of a sexual prospect. the night should be about you and her

I've cut her off from hanging out with other coworkers and stuff cause I was sick of her playing me. She's asked/assumed that I hate her, and I told her straight up that it's fucked that she wants to flirt so much but play it safe, and that I'm done with her if that's gonna continue.

What do you mean by supplicate
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Spiderman

Xavier too but he's also really fucked up if you think about it.
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She's an excoworker of a place I worked at for a year. She just broke up with her bf and he kicked her out so she's living with friends. She denied me a bunch throughout the year, but she finally agreed to chill and stuff recently, after I made it pretty obvious that I'm trying to fuck without outright saying so. Anything I should do or not do?
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If I need to, say get my car fixed, the places are only open 9-5, you can only schedule 9-5, and most people work 9-5. Where am I supposed to get the time to do anything? Or calling medical places, or calling government buildings, or scheduling shit, or calling insurance companies, etc. Everything operates 9-5. It's frustrating as hell trying to schedule anything.
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EliteLevel posted...

Im self employed.

But even if I worked for someone else the answer would be no.

So then why would God be more spiteful towards you and how you live your life than an employer
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EliteLevel posted...

There is an afterlife you know. I dont want God punishing me for giving away parts of the body He gave me.

Does your employer punish you for buying stuff for other people?
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Fuparulez posted...

Honestly? Because fuck a system that says it's illegal for me to sell a kidney while I'm alive but wants my spare parts for free after I'm dead.

How would they pay you after you're dead though? They're just asking and it only helps other peeps. It's spiteful but you never get the reward of the spite because you're dead, just some other person out there might die.
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EliteLevel posted...

I want to rest in peace, not pieces.

But you aren't asleep. You're dead. You have no idea if like, an earthquake will hit your cemetery or it burns up or what have you. Even if it doesn't happen in the next 50 years, what about the next 1000? 1,000,000 years? How long do you think you'll be able to perceive your own state of rest? You think you'll be able to perceive your own rest until the sun dies?
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Why would you care about your organs if you're dead?

More importantly, how would you care about your organs if you're dead?
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She was this random person that was at work for a week and a half as a special assistant, we talked and got along and stuff, turns out she has a bf cause I asked her out, but I was still willing to give a hangout a shot. She's the one who suggested hanging out. We planned for last Friday, but she was busy cause apparently someone her mom knew died so she felt like being with her. She said she felt like a jerk and that she'd make it up to me. I messaged Monday asking how things were with that whole situation, she updated. So far nothing since Monday.

I feel like maybe asking one more time today but then dropping it after that if she doesn't want to. Otherwise, I'm not too motivated or anything.
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God. She has SO much fucking control over it. Her range is ridiculous, her pitch is one of the most accurate I've heard, and like she can belt and whistle in the same fucking bar with no transition difficulties. It also just sounds pleasant; like just soft and light and gentle, but when she wants to go ham, she can definitely do that. The only very minor flaw is that sometimes her embellishing is a little pretentious, but nowhere NEAR the level of other singers like Christina Aguilera. But she also does it really well, so it's a very minor flaw that's actually more of a good thing than a bad thing.

Also she's cute as fuck. But that's not relevant to her vocals, but it does add even more to why I like her. Her personality is a little annoying though lol
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Just realized she was doing basically the exact same harmonization as the last chorus in the actual song. It's a lot more pronounced in the video though.
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I heard it both ways before but i say 1
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https://vocaroo.com/i/s1nLJyELkki5



I tried to get the chorus right for both vocals. I liked the way the harmonization sounded.
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My current job is pretty chill and easy. Honestly, I love it, I'm just sick of the company. I work with little kids. Here's the situation.

A: I stay at my job but I get more hours (40 hours) and more money (18.5 an hour). I'd be in a Kindergarten classroom half the time and then afterschool play with kids the other half. However, I'm sick of the company and ready for something different. It would be 1030am-630pm.

B: I go to a public school where I help high schoolers with disabilities. It's 18.3 an hour and 38 hours. Really good experience and potential to move up, also more reputable location, but there's no 'play' part of the job. It would be 8am-3pm.
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KhanJohnny posted...

Did you even float the idea past him??

No, but I should've. You're right.
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film in portrait mode
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Cool to see some level headed people enter the topic
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KhanJohnny posted...

TC how close are you to future roommate?

On a 10 scale, 10 being closest friend, 5 being good work acquaintance level, I'd say like 7. We chill every now and again and it's good but he's not a regular friend or one I talk to that much outside of hanging out
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Authentic_fan posted...

The reason you're being immature is that you live with the guy she's with.

By being a crybaby about the whole thing, you're making things harder on them.

If it was some random girl, sure, but that isn't the case. Your bullshit is now affecting the lives of two people within your social circle and the whole thing started because YOU caught feeling a with your FRIENDS girl.

The girl and I were friends before they started even hooking up. And I tried asking her out before they got closer. And he doesn't live with me yet. I'm not denying I'm in a grey area but I'm not like stealing a friend's girl.

What's done is done and nobody can change that, no matter how ignorant you are, no matter how much you can't comprehend. The best thing to do is plan for a better future which is what I'm doing.
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Authentic_fan posted...

The only issue that i have with this is that you tried to fuck your friends girl and then got pissy when she told you no

First of.all, you shouldn't be trying to fuck your friends girl. That's fucked up.

Second of all, now you're ruining shit for your friend because now he's gonna have to deal with her being uncomfortable around you.

This whole thing is your fault. Quit being a wuss and go get your own girl. Stop trying to turn your friends fuck buddy into a housewife

Idk, they're just FWB. I don't see a problem with that. If they are dating, which I guess it's seeming like it, why on EARTH would she try to mess around with me when I have feelings? I, me, TC, etc, I'm the one who said, let's stop. That's clearly the best course of action for me, for her, and for the friend. But she reached out. How much more clear could I make this to you? Are you her? You seem to be just as not clear about it.

Even if she's uncomfortable or whatever, at least by not being friends, IT CAN'T GET WORSE. Holy shit. Both you and her don't understand this apparently.

You even said yourself that it's okay to cut people out where you're not getting what you want. That's what I'm doing. But you are so eager to vilify me that you're forgetting your OWN principle just to have a reply in the topic.

By cutting her out, I'm getting over my own feelings so I can have them for another girl. Yet another reason why this arrangement works out for everyone involved in every way possible. But your trigger finger doesn't like that shit. You want to keep pointing out dumb shit without realizing your own holes in doing so. Holy hell.
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Authentic_fan posted...

And yet she didn't cheat with you. Wonder what that's about.

I wonder what on earth you even mean by this.

Authentic_fan posted...

She probably just doesn't want to have to deal with stupid bs when she comes to your apartment to fuck her dude.

I told her we can still be chill and civil when we're in the same place. Which we have been. She sent that to me after we were in the same place a few times. I kept the dynamic just cordial and polite but still being myself. Like how you'd treat an acquaintance or something. But she wanted more, apparently.
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Authentic_fan posted...

TC: I know you're banging my friend but I'm in love with you plz love me back

Her: no

TC: you sure?

Her: yeah

TC: okay, we should stop being friends then cuz i have feels

Her: okay

Her: ...let's hang out

TC: You don't respect me!

Here's a more accurate description of your embarrassing attempt to do...whatever it is you're doing.
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Authentic_fan posted...

but you're actively causing drama with your friend and his fuck buddy.

I don't get why some guys think that guys are like the only conscious party in any interaction with a girl. She also knows what she's doing. She also knows what I'm doing. We're talking about two adult human beings here. This isn't like a grown up talking to a kid. You're the kind of guy that doesn't understand that women cheat too. You probably think men are the only ones that are the cause of all cheating.

If she didn't want the drama, or understood that the more she reaches out, the more drama she's inviting, she'd stop. Everything was clear as day.

Authentic_fan posted...

The real reason you think she doesnt respect you is because she wont have sex with you.

I cut her off because we're not doing anything more which is what I want. I think she doesn't respect me because I told her the best thing for me is to just move on and stop trying to be friends, which she is actively trying to do. There is a difference and stop projecting BS because it's convenient.
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ScofieldReturns posted...

Master Kazuya posted...

Also I'm not sure how much reading/figuring out I want to do with people I bring into my life. I'd rather just have at least a little honesty instead of constantly trying to figure shit out or what something actually means.

So what you're saying is you want a life of celibacy?

Literally all women are like this, adapt or die

I'm saying that some women actually say yes when you ask them out, and those are the kind of girls I want.
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ScofieldReturns posted...

Also guessing he knew her first, didn't make a move (wuss), roommate pounced, he got mad and cut it off

Other guy knew her first, and then I got to know her while they were already fucking, I tried making a move, got denied but she kept wanting me around, I was like, okay how about I just move on and avoiding this confusing woman, she didn't get it, I made it clear, now this shit.
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ScofieldReturns posted...

Uhhhhh are all non pick up artists this bad at reading girls. She said she "cant promise any sort of meaning". She didn't say no...she's saying you can meet up and try to put the moves on her and she might reciprocate, but she doesnt want to say yes because it'll make her feel guitly/slutty since she's "essentially dating your roommate" (?)

Wow you're bad at this, but I guess most guys are

On one hand, I felt she might be doing this, but also, I feel she might just be trying to set up some win/win scenario for herself. Get fucked by the guy she finds hot and hang out with the guy she likes the company of. That way she's getting both needs met without having to commit to either. Also I'm not sure how much reading/figuring out I want to do with people I bring into my life. I'd rather just have at least a little honesty instead of constantly trying to figure shit out or what something actually means. And there's no reason for me to get with someone that has no respect for that. I don't even mean like, a little bit of reading between the lines. That's fine because that's how it is. When it's this much though, idk, what's the point. I'll just find a girl that's excited to meet me instead of doing this shit.

Authentic_fan posted...

So why are you trying to steal your roommates girlfriend

I'm not. They're not official yet, just FWB, so it doesn't mean anything. Also, that's in part of why I'm not gonna be her company. That's also why it's in her best interest to respect it too. Also he hasn't moved in yet.
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https://imgur.com/V14YNdr

Honestly at this point it's pretty unattractive behavior. It's only been a week and she does this shit. If she can't respect a simple boundary how could she respect anything deeper. I've told her explicitly either more than friends or nothing at all. "figure I'd try again every so often" wtf. No respect for me. And then the pity party at the end.
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Species going and coming is just part of nature. Why are we trying to fight that if there's no inherent benefit to us? As in, if any of these endangered species helped us make medicine, or made food, or whatever, than that makes sense. But to keep species like Pandas alive for no reason other than just because we can, it just seems like a waste of resources. That effort would be way more useful investing in humans.

If it's because we feel empathy in being extinct because we don't want to be extinct, again, focus that effort on humans instead of some dumbass birds that have no idea about anything other than hunting prey.

Nostalgia is a silly reason to put so much effort in trying to combat nature for species that aren't us.
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omw
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Russman posted...

These are both a result of base ten being unable to properly represent 1/3.

Base 10 can perfectly represent 1/3rd. It's 0.3333... That's literally what 1/3rd is.
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Damn_Underscore posted...

Let's say I want to walk from one end of the room to the other. Well first I would have to walk one half of the way, then one fourth of the way, then one eighth of the way, and this goes on an infinite amount of times. So according to you, I couldn't walk across a room!

But obviously I can. Come on, even the ancient Greeks knew this!

The room is divisible by an infinite amount of fractions but that doesn't make the room itself have infinite length. An infinitely long line has infinite distance. A 2 inch line can be divided by infinite proportions but the line itself is not infinite length. Saying 0.000.....001 would be like saying there is an end to an infinitely long line.
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You can't have something at the end of infinity. Then it's not infinity.
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Mr_Hakubi posted...

kitchen is still open for business.

wat
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Last bump

I appreciate the experience and support guyz, thanks
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