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Muffinz0rz posted...

I mean as long as you're okay with the gubmint knowing all your conversations and recording them to use against you in the court of law

No offense but not every country is the USA.
Living alone with my cat so i don't care, but i WILL plug it off if i have to talk with anyone in my place.
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Mango Sauce posted...

Hey skyrim

Can't try this here yet.
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

And now i can turn on the light and change its colors with my voice, all of this while i'm listening any music i've asked before.
What year is this ? 2050 ?

(yeah i'm late to the party, but Alexa was released yesterday in my country)

Call me old, but that shit is blowing my mind haha.
Any of you guys got one ? Fun facts or story to share ?
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

Words are not enough, but thanks to every single one of you.
It might not seems much, but that was really helpfull.
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

ThePredominate posted...

Hey TC, my brother was with me as I read your touching topic and he had a personal reason which made him want to leave a message for you.

"Hello, I just really wanted to reach out to you, as my girlfriend of seven years passed away almost a year ago now from cancer. I wanted to say that make sure you have someone stay with you - a relative or friend. There's hope, every day things are hard, but get easier to bear."

Keep safe TC and I think atm every single one of us sends you our warmest sympathies.

Deep thanks to both of you.
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

Luigi and Tails posted...

My condolences to you and your family. This is undoubtedly a situation that's extremely difficult to contend with and I don't doubt the amount of emotion you must be feeling.

There's a saying I like to live by when I've lost family members and friends in the past - cry not for what has happened, but smile because it has.

If you're feeling fragile, which you're absolutely correct to feel, then please don't read my spoiler text below. If and when you feel a little more compos mentis, then have a quick read.

Preface: if you're still raw over the loss of your spouse, and any mention of her or the way she lived her life is painful, don't read this.

Are you sure?

Don't pretend you're okay if you're not.

Seriously. It's literally one step forward and three steps back.

Positive?

No further warnings.

When I've suffered losses, I always try and think of the positives to carry me forward. Their personality will live on with me.

Focus on the simple things - for example, did she have a certain routine that you both laughed about? For example, if you threw a bunch of whites into the washing machine on a Saturday she'd tell you off because whites day was Sunday? Or, perhaps, after her late gym session on Thursday she'd bring back two large hot chocs from Starbucks for you two. Or, maybe she'd get her dance on to Maroon 5 - Sugar whenever it came on the radio, and she was a terrible dancer but you both laughed and danced anyway.

It's up to you to carry on with these traits and make them your own. She can live vicariously through what you're doing and it's a nice way of carrying on her legacy. She may have passed on in body, but her spirit is alive and well with you. To reiterate - don't tear yourself up because she's gone, but laugh and embrace the effects she's had on your life.

It's very bittersweet and much harder to do than some words from a stranger on a video game message board, but if you keep your chin up and soldier through the natural emotions, I truly hope you can minimise the emotional pressure as much as you can.

Don't forget to ask your friends and family for help as and when you feel is right.

I don't even know what to say...
We don't even know each other, and it may just be a message board, but you my friend, just did something amazing, you made me smile and gave me hope.

I wish i could hug you, for your words, for your time, for what you did.
Words will never be enough for this, but thank you.
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

Dyinglegacy posted...

Loss of a spouse is probably the single worse loss a person could experience, followed closely by the loss of a child.

A person who is not well adjusted, likely would not survive such an event.

The gut wrenching psychological agony you must be enduring... There aren't words.

This is beyond words indeed...
I feel like someone just ripped my soul appart.
That house, our house, feels so empty right now, and every single second i'm waiting to hear her voice calling me downstairs like she always did. Hell, i can almost hear it, she used to do this so many times, but she won't, she can't, and i will never hear that voice again...

I know i will have to move on, leave that house behind one day, but for now this is too painful.

Love to every single one of you guys.
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

inTaCtfuL posted...

Damn, I wish I could hug you irl and try to comfort you.

Is there anyone on your family and/or her family that can help yall ease the pain together?

I have wonderful friends and family.
But it's kind of hard to see them trying so hard to comfort me when the only single one person that i wish could do this right now is my wife.
But she's gone now, and i know that this won't ever happen again, that's the hardest part.
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

From the bottom of my heart, thanks to every single one of you.
It might not seems much, but really this is helpful.
My wife always told me that love was the most important thing in life, your words hit me hard, in a good way.
Again, thanks so much for this.
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

Thanks everyone, you guys just made me cry, but these are good tears, i feel stronger knowing there is so much love out there... thanks so much for this, i have no words.
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.

And i feel like shit...
Don't even know why i'm posting this here, i guess i just need some love or good vibes, something like that.
I miss her SO much, this is beyond horrible, my life feels so empty now, i wish i could die (don't worry i won't).

From the deepest parts of my heart, i hope that not a single one of you guys will have to go through this in your life.
Enjoy your time with the ones you love.

Thanks for reading...
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Every gaming system is great, grow up.
Stop defending plastic, it's ridiculous.