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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 2:17:31 PM
#41
This person is not his friend, and being "triggered" by the presence of an abuser is a bit different than "I don't like your friend"
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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 1:53:31 PM
#38
Literally "if you know it was abusive how come it happened"

Fucking ce
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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 1:52:47 PM
#37
Because hindsight is 20/20 lol
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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 8:36:04 AM
#26
C7D posted...
Tactical_Spork posted...
Tmk posted...
"have you tried not choosing to feel bad?"

CE, brilliant as always.

*le "men cant be abused because they are MANLY real MEN you should just nut up" faec*

Wow thanks CE all my trauma is gone I'm not afraid to exist anymore


You need a psychiatrist not reassurance from a message board. If you were that triggered just by being in the same room with one of my other friends, you would no longer be my friend.

He is not friends with my ex.
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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 8:35:18 AM
#25
Patchwork posted...
Tactical_Spork posted...
Smashingpmkns posted...
What was your friend supposed to do?

I mean -literally- anything other than fucking laugh

"You aren't welcome in my house" would also have been an appropriate response since the others who live there like to consider it a "safe" space; apparently this does not extend to known abusers.


What are the dynamics here? How much of what happened was known to your friends? Physical or mental abuse?

This friend knows everything that happened.

The abuse was months of manipulation and gaslighting, using suicide threats to keep me in check, trying to control my social circle and isolate me, facing me with ultimatums and double bind decisions constantly, and normalizing all of it. There were multiple instances where I was also coerced into sex, coerced into unprotected sex, guilted about having sex (or not having sex), and in one case my consent outright violated.

It was the most scarring experience of my life and it changed me for the worse.
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 8:28:56 AM
#22
Tmk posted...
"have you tried not choosing to feel bad?"

CE, brilliant as always.

*le "men cant be abused because they are MANLY real MEN you should just nut up" faec*

Wow thanks CE all my trauma is gone I'm not afraid to exist anymore
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 8:14:42 AM
#17
Smashingpmkns posted...
What was your friend supposed to do?

I mean -literally- anything other than fucking laugh

"You aren't welcome in my house" would also have been an appropriate response since the others who live there like to consider it a "safe" space; apparently this does not extend to known abusers.
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 7:26:35 AM
#11
orcus_snake posted...
WHat cna yoru ex do to screw up anything about it.

Be there

Literally seeing her gives me panic attacks and in the past ive just been told to "shut the fuck up"
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 1:24:42 AM
#7
AzurexNightmare posted...
Even if we give you attention right now, what would change?

Nothing. I'd still wake up with the same garbage people in my life.
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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 12:50:09 AM
#2
I should have had a good ass noght but im in fucking tears in my room rn because ive realized i truly have nobody. I'm nothing to the people I held closest.
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Topic>abusive stalker ex shows up to event im running
Tactical_Spork
03/26/18 12:43:39 AM
#1
>"best friend" who runs the venue just looks at me and fucking laughs

I need to stop surrounding myself with trash holy shit
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicSantorum on the walk out: They should solve their own problems.
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 2:22:27 PM
#17
Rick Santorum is subhuman
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TopicLady cop leaks police investigation info to gang member she was fucking.
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 2:02:22 PM
#44
UnfairRepresent posted...
Patchwork posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
Darklit_Minuet posted...
Good. Secrets are bad and the police shouldn't be able to keep them from us

...


Ignore him. He lives in a fantasy world.

I think he's just trying to argue for the hell of it


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TopicHowToBasic face reveal
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 1:57:00 PM
#12
I'm kinda surprised filthy frank wasn't in it

Also wouldn't be surprised if it's actually frank cuz there is no way his ain't-shit-ass dudebro beats are making him enough money to live
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicRecommend me some 1980s punk music
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 1:37:53 PM
#19
Zounds
Rudimentary Peni
Killing Joke
Exit Order
Cinderblock
Krimewatch
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicLol After defending homophobia, Killer Mike now doing PSAs for the NRA
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 1:34:36 PM
#21
Kitt posted...
HeyPuff posted...
Is that the dude in RTJ? They suck

Trash opinion.

They've been unbearable since they bought into their own hype honestly
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicAlmost every electronic device we own gathers our data to sell.
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 4:20:53 AM
#8
SoundNetwork posted...
Not my switch!!!

Your application use trends or w/e are almost certainly being sold to advertisers
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicAlmost every electronic device we own gathers our data to sell.
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 4:19:13 AM
#6
>Whines about capitalism, in a way that very directly supports socialism
>don't whine about capitalism in my thread
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicHonest Trailer: every Wes Anderson movie. Lmao
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 4:17:43 AM
#5
lmao this is great

Wes Anderson is the oldest Precocious Little Scamp in Hollywood. His whole style & aesthetic creeps me out, and the people who dress like characters from his movies even moreso
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicI think Stephen King's Revival book has fucked me up for life. *spoilers*
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 4:08:11 AM
#6
This is the kind of horror that actually terrifies me and that I actually enjoy.

Lovecraft's shit (and things that successfully take influence from his work) is so good because it fills you with a very real feeling of dread for your own insignificance and helplessness.

Is that the only part of the book that's like that, or is the whole thing working towards that/building to it?
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicAlmost every electronic device we own gathers our data to sell.
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 4:03:08 AM
#4
People talk about a dystopian future like some kind of "what if" that we should fight to prevent; the lack of realization that we are already in an unsalvageable world just further demonstrates how far gone we are.

Capitalism destroyed society.
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicLol After defending homophobia, Killer Mike now doing PSAs for the NRA
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 3:58:26 AM
#18
Also the irony/hypocrisy of what he said to his kids is fucking GROSS
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicLol After defending homophobia, Killer Mike now doing PSAs for the NRA
Tactical_Spork
03/25/18 3:55:24 AM
#17
Damn what a fuckin corn

Link to him defending homophobia?
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicFuckin salty that they skipped WaW remastered
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 8:50:05 PM
#10
Waw was best in every regard
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicFuckin salty that they skipped WaW remastered
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 8:26:38 PM
#1
Best one
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicTrying to better yourself/your life and seeing nothing bc of other people
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 8:23:43 PM
#14
See but then I will have nothing

I'll be just as depressed and won't even have squandered potential to speak for
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicTrying to better yourself/your life and seeing nothing bc of other people
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 8:10:14 PM
#12
Oh yeah and nobody will ever call anyone on shit behavior, and will get mad at me if I get rightfully fed up with anything. Nothing is anybody's fault unless it's my fault.
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicTrying to better yourself/your life and seeing nothing bc of other people
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 7:28:22 PM
#11
TheoryzC posted...
Tactical_Spork posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Uh, find a way to not include them in your life?

Everything I have accomplished and built for myself is built around them as well and I can't bring myself to cut my losses and start from square one

Do it

At this point I'm too drained to pick myself back up
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicTrying to better yourself/your life and seeing nothing bc of other people
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 6:28:02 PM
#5
My life is awful lol
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicTrying to better yourself/your life and seeing nothing bc of other people
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 6:07:29 PM
#4
TheCyborgNinja posted...
Uh, find a way to not include them in your life?

Everything I have accomplished and built for myself is built around them as well and I can't bring myself to cut my losses and start from square one
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicTrying to better yourself/your life and seeing nothing bc of other people
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 6:01:12 PM
#1
When no matter how hard you try, and no matter how much you try to tough it out and keep your chin up, it'sseemingly never enough to overcome the toxicity of others involved. When you do everything you're supposed to and even pick up the slack for other people and it still isn't enough to get the bare minimum out of anyone else.
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
Topicmonkey that has a human face sends social media into overdrive
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 5:57:05 PM
#3
It doesn't tho
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TopicCrazy how the Chao Garden was more fleshed out than the actual game
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 5:40:31 PM
#11
They literally don't even work

Like they just didn't finish making the games
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicWhy do Americans incorrect pronounce 'Lara' as 'Laura'?
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 5:36:29 PM
#18
Yeah this annoys me to no end
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicCrazy how the Chao Garden was more fleshed out than the actual game
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 5:35:16 PM
#8
Damn_Underscore posted...
lmao at revisionist history "le sonic adventure games were so bad mirite!!"

They were my favorite games as a kid; they're fucking unplayable now. They're ass breh.

Muffinz0rz posted...
Tactical_Spork posted...
SA2B was such a hot fuckin mess that a mini game had more thought and depth put into it than the main game

euLb52y

Raising chao was a bitch because there were so many variables to take into account. There was absolutely more substance to that than the main game, where the only saving grace was like half of the sonic/shadow levels.
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicCrazy how the Chao Garden was more fleshed out than the actual game
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 5:17:09 PM
#1
SA2B was such a hot fuckin mess that a mini game had more thought and depth put into it than the main game
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicREMINDER: The ability to add Points on Wii Shop Channel will end on Monday.
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 3:58:47 PM
#4
Smash and Sonic and FF2

Das it
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicXSquadder literally became a fugitive
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 3:54:04 PM
#58
Oh my
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TopicEA admits defeat. Battlefront 2 unlocks all characters and removed loot boxes
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 12:58:06 PM
#29
Southernfatman posted...
Now that this war is apparently over can video game fans focus on other companies that currently screwing their fans? Red Dead 2 is coming out soon. It would be a good time to go after Rockstar. Hell, there's plenty of companies to choose from.

Nobody will ever go after R*.
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Topictfw you drunk as shit and donate to a stream that's already ended
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 12:55:59 PM
#8
HeyPuff posted...
How much to who

Just $5 to cr1tikal but like still
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicHow does breaking up work when yr only a couple dates deep
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 2:43:38 AM
#7
But tgen when we're actually hanging out I'm really into them

Fuck
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicIf gratuity is added to your bill, do you also tip?
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 2:42:31 AM
#6
"Gratuity" added into the bill automatically means the owners are taking tips from the servers. This is theft.

Tip in cash whenever possible/avoid using card unless you absolutely must. Card tips get automatically added to a tip pool which, you guessed it, the owner gets a cut of.

The More You Know
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
Topictfw you drunk as shit and donate to a stream that's already ended
Tactical_Spork
03/24/18 2:38:55 AM
#1
Fuck my life
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicIf gratuity is added to your bill, do you also tip?
Tactical_Spork
03/23/18 6:16:35 PM
#4
I do bc that usually means the restaurant is pulling some tip theft bs
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicHow does breaking up work when yr only a couple dates deep
Tactical_Spork
03/23/18 6:00:41 PM
#3
I've only ended relationships that were already serious and imploding
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicHow does breaking up work when yr only a couple dates deep
Tactical_Spork
03/23/18 6:00:06 PM
#2
We've also not had sex or anything

Like if I just didn't want to see this person period it would be reasonable and not completely shitty to just not talk to them @ this point, but I want to be friends cuz I think they're rly cool
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicHow does breaking up work when yr only a couple dates deep
Tactical_Spork
03/23/18 5:57:26 PM
#1
Like idk how to politely end sonething that isn't very serious ?

I want to be friends w this person but I absolutely do not want to be dating anyone rn
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
http://i.imgur.com/6GJoJ.jpg
TopicWhen speaking out-loud, do use the proper an vs a in your sentences
Tactical_Spork
03/23/18 5:11:34 PM
#5
Depends on context

It can change emphasis on certain words/syllables for a different delivery
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicMods can say mean things to you in moderated messages now?
Tactical_Spork
03/23/18 5:07:18 PM
#9
The mods have been power tripping like crazy lately
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"poop porn can be slightly attractive as long as it's not that liquidy sort of poop." ~ hi_polymer
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TopicBoth gun stores and liquor stores sell a legal product that can kill
Tactical_Spork
03/23/18 4:49:07 PM
#32
Liquor stores sell something that can kill. Gun store sell something designed to kill.

There really isn't much more to say here lol
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