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| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 2:22:45 PM #162 | -Ando- posted... God, any tiny bit of sympathy you might have had gets washed away with this stupid shit. You're the topic creator and you can't even maintain interest in your own topic by replying to people? I have replied to a LOT of posts itt. The argument that guy was trying to make had already been made irrelevant by the posts I pointed to.... it was like the only valid response. And really, fuck you anyway. I don't care if she's half your age or twice so. Who the fuck makes a topic on this site asking for advice on whether to hang out with someone?Posts #70 and #107. TaylorHeinicke posted... You didn't answer the question.Idk probably a complex I have because when I was growing up, attractive people never wanted to be friends with me, then I had a glow-up and it makes me feel good when an attractive person shows interest in friendship with me. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 11:27:54 AM #133 | JahanDotson1 posted... Dude just fucking ask her out.Posts # 103, 104, 107, 109 |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 11:26:31 AM #132 | TaylorHeinicke posted... if this is all supposedly platonic then why do you keep emphasizing her attractiveness?I have lots of super hot friends. I'll talk about them, too if you want. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 11:09:11 AM #123 | I guess most of you should be thankful that you'll never have this temptation, because an extremely attractive 19-year-old will never be super attentive to you. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 10:57:14 AM #121 | People are still "tagging" the topic. You can all see the resolution in posts #103, #104, #107, possibly #109. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 9:21:21 AM #108 | gunplagirl posted... It's a coworker he talks to in 6 minute increments a day, the coworker part especially is concerning but the fact they talk for literally single digit minutes per conversation is just... Christ.For fuck's sake. Probably 30 minutes per week on average, seeing each other once or twice a week, if that. That means sometimes we just say hi, sometimes we talk for an hour. You can not seriously think that an average time means that it is split into identical increments. I said we work on opposite shifts. We have a one hour overlap, IF she closes that day. So with a one-hour overlap, once or twice a week, if that.... 15-minute to one-hour conversations are a lot, and can be very heart-felt. And even if it were literally 6 minutes per day every time....... a lot of conversation can happen in 6 minutes several days per week. People have definitely established close bonds with much less time. I guarantee someone has made a significant impression on you with less time before, and vice versa. This is exactly why as a general rule, I ignore you in this forum, and i know I'm far from alone on that. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 9:16:39 AM #107 | bsp77 posted... You are likely feeling validated and good about yourself by having this younger, attractive woman interested in you, whether sexual or not. I get it, as I have heen there. But trust me, that this is unlikely to end well.It's true. Your comments have spoken the loudest to me. I think I'll just find happiness in knowing she's my work bestie, and never spend time with her alone outside of work. See? This is why I needed this topic. Very productive response that showed me I was about to make an irrational decision out of emotion. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 9:04:56 AM #103 | bsp77 posted... She does sound like she is interested. I had a female "bestie" with the same list. She was about 10 years younger. We had a complicated relationship, which eventually led to us briefly dating and she confessed to being in love with me the whole time. I then broke her heart because of a lot of issues. Be careful, my man.Hm. I know I stated in the OP that one risk is she might get feelings for me. But I hadn't put much thought into the magnitude of how heart-broken she could become if that did happen. A young girl like that could end up being completely crushed by a situation like that, and me expressing an interest in hanging out with her might get her hopes up that something real can develop one day, when realistically, it can't. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 8:48:45 AM #93 | Shadowplay posted... It sounds like she wants to date youI will extend a giant olive branch to everyone who has responded negatively to me in this topic, that I absolutely disagree that any portion of my list indicates that. How often do girls that merely want platonic friendships say something like that?Not often, but it happens -- especially if she doesn't think you would try to date her. In her case, it means she trusted me enough to say that without me getting the wrong idea. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 8:26:27 AM #83 | kirbyy posted... Tbh not much here makes me think she would genuinely feel a connection.If you mean romantic connection, you're definitely correct. But the comment I'm responding to was telling me to consider that she might not actually even enjoy my company. That's definitely not the case. Lol |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 8:00:10 AM #78 | Cuticrusader09 posted... Especially since women act kind so that the creeps wont act out towards them.K, I'll address this before I check out of this topic, since several users have responded to it. I'm very aware of this concept. So I'll list a few of her behaviors that let me know she's not just nice to me to avoid awkwardness:
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| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 7:37:24 AM #70 | Akagami_Shanks posted... i'll just say this, if you want to hang out with her, why haven't you asked already?Because I'm going to next time I see her? Sorry, this question is a little odd. Think about a friend you hanged out with. You had a first time hanging out with them, yes? Then you must have had a time that you asked them to hang out, yes? Why had you not already asked them to hang out previously? Akagami_Shanks posted... you're making it seem like a date and thats probably why people are gettin creeped outIt's hard to ask someone of the opposite sex to hang out without it seeming like a date. Anyway, thanks to those who participated productively in this topic. I needed some people to talk me through this, as it's not as black and white as some users are making it out to be. I'm gonna ask her, and if we do end up hanging out, I'm going to be very responsible about it, and most likely never go beyond friendship, even if she expresses an interest. I needed this topic to know the exact steps I would take. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 5:23:51 AM #55 | JahanDotson1 posted... He even said he doesnt want to make a move on her That screams BFF zone to me.Bingo! So you were aware of this, but the rest of your posts were worded as though you were not. I have no problem with being BFF zoned while I continue to pursue other women. Right now, this girl provides an emotional comfort for me, and I can tell she gets the same from me. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 5:20:12 AM #54 | JahanDotson1 posted... asked her out yet JahanDotson1 posted... rejection JahanDotson1 posted... romantic interest I've stated multiple times throughout this topic, I am approaching this girl platonically. If she doesn't make a move, there will be none, and I may even reject her move. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 5:08:38 AM #49 | [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Whatever. Seems like it got resolved. gunplagirl posted... The more you repeat it insisting nothing is wrong, the more grossed out I am.Still haven't responded to the post I asked you to. But that's normal for you. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 5:01:47 AM #45 | [LFAQs-redacted-quote] OK, here's the entire convo for context. Metal_Bug posted... Our whole day gets brighter every time we see each other. Buu_88 posted... Do you speak for her? Metal_Bug posted... Involuntary, nonverbal behavior tells me everything I need to know. *everyone flips out, having not read the post Buu_88 responded to* Metal_Bug posted... "Involuntary, nonverbal behavior" was not referring to sexual consent. I was telling Buu_88 that's how I know it brightens her day to see me. That's platonic as fuck, and absolutely not creepy. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 4:47:29 AM #41 | Lol that's what I thought. Cat got EVERYONE'S tongue that responded hastily to post #30. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 4:33:23 AM #39 | gunplagirl posted... I'm just waiting for tc to mention telomeres, I'm getting that kind of vibeRespond to the post directly above yours. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 4:24:02 AM #37 | "Involuntary, nonverbal behavior" was not referring to sexual consent. I was telling Buu_88 that's how I know it brightens her day to see me. That's platonic as fuck, and absolutely not creepy. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 4:16:10 AM #34 | Really? THAT was more creepy than anything I said in the OP? I'm gonna assume none of you have had the experience of seeing someone's face light up to see you before. Must be painful. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 3:49:44 AM #30 | Buu_88 posted... Do you speak for her?Involuntary, nonverbal behavior tells me everything I need to know. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 3:31:31 AM #22 | VampireCoyote posted... Probably not fair to them to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship any time soon.Right. As I said in the OP, right now my goals with her are platonic. We love venting to each other and being around her takes the sting away from things we're going through. And despite what I said in post #8, if she tried to turn things sexual, I can see myself saying "No, I don't want to lose your friendship." But I can also see myself giving in. She is drop dead gorgeous, after all. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 3:18:43 AM #19 | gunplagirl posted... What about this seems like a good idea? Metal_Bug posted... 19y/o Metal_Bug posted... drop dead gorgeous girl Metal_Bug posted... Our whole day gets brighter every time we see each other. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 3:14:28 AM #17 | [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Co-workers. We work on opposite shifts, though. At the actual, physical work place, we get to talk to each other for like, 30 minutes total per week, tops. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 2:59:57 AM #8 | Master_Kazuya posted... You wanna bang a hot and crazy 19 year old that you vibe withI mean there's not a lie here. While we're hanging out, I have no intentions to try to make any sort of move. But if she wants to, I'm probably shitting myself if I said I would stop her. |
| Topic | Im 32, thinking about asking a 19y/o to hang out. |
| Metal_Bug 08/18/22 2:32:23 AM #1 | From being on CE, I know a large portion of you are against this, but I'm about to confess it all anyway. Feel welcome to judge, encourage, or discourage me. I'm almost positive she'll agree to hanging out with me. Right now, I only have platonic intentions -- I would REALLY enjoy just having the company of this drop dead gorgeous girl. We're both going through stuff right now, and we feel so comfortable venting to each other. Our whole day gets brighter every time we see each other. But I know if we spend enough time together, one of us will develop feelings. If not me, then her. And there's another red flag here besides the age difference. She just got checked out of a mental hospital. For the sake of us bonding... or anything else that may happen in the future, that doesn't bother me at all. BUT people will already say I'm taking advantage/manipulating her because of the age difference. Add her mental health condition to the equation..... that's not gonna make me look good. Anyway, there's the situation. I'm not dead set that I will ask her to hang out yet, but I know I want to. Whatever kind of person that makes me. |
| Topic | Is it still believed that most of BOTW2 overworld will be re-used from the 1st? |
| Metal_Bug 08/15/22 7:45:49 AM #1 | I remember that being the rumor at first. Is this still the most accepted belief about the game? |
| Topic | The top 10 wealthiest people in the world today |
| Metal_Bug 08/14/22 6:25:33 AM #39 | Nikra posted... 90% of the planet are owned by10% of the population.Uh no. If those figures are accurate, then it will end badly for the 90%. The 10% will be fine no matter what. |
| Topic | Loved Pokemon R/B/Y and G/S/C back in the day. What should i play next? |
| Metal_Bug 08/07/22 9:15:36 AM #1 | Say I only have time to play one.
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Say I only have time to play one, then I won't be playing any more Pokemon games for a long while. Haven't really played any new Pokemon games since Silver back in 5th grade. Which one will be the best for me to play now? Poll options are out of order. Sorry. |
| Topic | Guitarists, which version of C sharp do you find most useful? |
| Metal_Bug 08/06/22 11:39:13 PM #4 | NES4EVER posted... Top row right and middle row left are the two i would most often use.Right on. |
| Topic | Guitarists, which version of C sharp do you find most useful? |
| Metal_Bug 08/06/22 11:24:31 PM #1 | https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/8/8/AAfBKoAADiXU.png To me, 2nd row, 2nd column makes most sense, because it's just C moved over a half step. 1st column, first row looks appealing because it's not a bar chord, but it's an inversion, so... you think it would be easier to learn 2nd row, 1st column, though? I hate the B bar chord, and it's just the same thing on the 4th fret, but if i need to learn B anyway, I guess that's a better avenue than the bar chord starting on the 1st fret. |
| Topic | Do you consider george carlin the greatest stand up comedian of all time? |
| Metal_Bug 08/05/22 11:00:19 PM #11 | Jim Jefferies was the funniest freakin guy ever before he became political. I'd say Carlin had a better career, though. |
| Topic | Squirtle was the only Pokemon my mom thought was as cute as Pikachu. |
| Metal_Bug 08/05/22 10:56:31 PM #1 | Random facts. |
| Topic | "I cant believe the Dodongos suddenly appeared in such great numbers!" |
| Metal_Bug 08/02/22 8:04:16 AM #1 | Not including the babies and the King Dodongo at the end, there were literally only THREE in that cave, Darunia. Do you exagerate everything? |
| Topic | Does this chart correctly explain the possible dungeon orders in ALttP? |
| Metal_Bug 07/31/22 6:42:38 AM #4 | tri-sapphire posted... Don't think you need the Hookshot for 4I couldn't find a way into Dark Kakariko without it. tri-sapphire posted... Should also put 3 between 4 and 5, and 4 after 3 connecting to 5, since the devs probably intended you to have the Fire RodShit. That makes this chart more complicated, and maybe the wrong format, then. |
| Topic | Does this chart correctly explain the possible dungeon orders in ALttP? |
| Metal_Bug 07/31/22 5:56:25 AM #1 | Without using glitches, playing as the devs intended. My belief is that you need the hookshot to be granted access to levels 3 and 4, and so on. Unless I can find one of those warp points earlier than I am aware? https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/5/2/1/AAfBKoAADgvJ.png |
| Topic | how many times a week do you masturbate? |
| Metal_Bug 07/31/22 4:56:35 AM #22 | 5 to 9 times per week |
| Topic | MC that is a nobody and no one special but becomes the hero |
| Metal_Bug 07/28/22 12:59:36 PM #38 | Andy from Shawshank Redemption |
| Topic | Former CEman videogamedunkey reviews Stray |
| Metal_Bug 07/28/22 12:48:49 PM #18 | Holy cow I didn't know VGD was a former CEman. I love his videos. |
| Topic | If you were in charge of a Legend of Zelda movie... |
| Metal_Bug 07/27/22 12:46:36 PM #17 | I would make it a direct sequel to Ocarina of Time. Adult Link is now a fugitive in hiding, living among a band of thieves. Wanted for regicide. |
| Topic | I am not gay, but |
| Metal_Bug 07/26/22 11:33:18 AM #1 | [Use predictive text for the rest] I am not gay, but it was that it was that it was that. |
| Topic | Whew. I just learned almost all of the triad chords on piano in 2 days. |
| Metal_Bug 07/25/22 5:13:30 AM #12 | Im familiar with all the major/minor 7 chords now. I've been learning a few scales as well. |
| Topic | Whew. I just learned almost all of the triad chords on piano in 2 days. |
| Metal_Bug 07/22/22 12:10:49 AM #10 | @SiO4, is Harmony the Walter Piston book you were speaking of? |
| Topic | Whew. I just learned almost all of the triad chords on piano in 2 days. |
| Metal_Bug 07/19/22 11:24:44 PM #7 | SiO4 posted... Do learn your scales though.For sure. There are technically only 12, not including pentatonic, blues, etc. |
| Topic | Whew. I just learned almost all of the triad chords on piano in 2 days. |
| Metal_Bug 07/19/22 2:27:20 PM #5 | For anyone who's curious, I've spent a little over a year on guitar, about 2 and a half months on piano. I think I'm already better at piano. It's such a straight-forward instrument and easy to learn. I had been using it previously to teach myself melodies quickly then translate them to my guitar, but only recently decided to start learning to play it forreal. |
| Topic | Whew. I just learned almost all of the triad chords on piano in 2 days. |
| Metal_Bug 07/19/22 2:17:22 PM #4 | Big_Nabendu posted... C am f gRight on. Though I've spent more time with just C F G. SiO4 posted... Do you know your scales?I actually do not, other than a few. I can write them down and draw the circle of fifths, but I can only play a few of them. I spent some time practicing all the scales on the first 4 frets of my guitar several months ago. I've since stopped and forgotten most of them. |
| Topic | Whew. I just learned almost all of the triad chords on piano in 2 days. |
| Metal_Bug 07/19/22 1:48:37 PM #1 | Before 2 days ago, the only ones I could go to by memory if you asked me, were: C major F major G major C minor F minor G minor A minor Then yesterday I decided I would learn all the rest of the natural majors and minors, so I did. Then today I learned all the flat/sharp majors and minors. Think I'll start learning all the diminished 7ths tomorrow. All in all I'd say I've probably spent about 4 hours practicing them. If you called one out, I could play it pretty quickly. Idk how good I'd be at playing them in a song, though. I can't wait to see how many doors will be open to me now for being able to learn and play new things. I'm still a slow AF sight reader. Need to learn/practice more of that. I can only recognize single notes at a time so far. |
| Topic | It irks me how good English actors are at American accents |
| Metal_Bug 07/19/22 9:25:57 AM #3 | Hugh Laurie is one that I know of. Peter Dinklage is the reverse, which is funny because he kind of looks like Hugh Laurie. |
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