Lurker > clyde_frog

What's wrong with the people on this board?

That poor fuckin girl. You lied to her, and then come to gamefaqs and post her private texts to try and feel better.

Nah you're an asshole for this. You already established youre a liar to this chick. She's supposed to believe you about your "seizure" fuck outta here

Ideally you need to not have this conversation over a goddamn text.

I feel like TC was completely in the wrong initially?

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/6/2/3/AAZ897AADI1f.jpg

Like, this not only ignores his GFs problem, but the dude doesnt even apologize. He also says it in the most downplayed way possible. As if you just decided to drink for funzies and just got drunk. I wouldnt even believe you had a seizure tbh.

She seems unstable afterwards, but TC definitely is the asshole initially imo.

Dunno what line she is supposedly crossing.

If you're going into couple's therapy with an adversarial mindset, it undermines the process.

Not that it isn't a possiblly expected part, but reframing from "you and me" to "us" is generally an important first step.

Also the silent treatment is fucked up, my dude.

My dude, that is a two way street.

But its much more fun to ignore her, make her squirm and post her falling apart texts on a gaming forum

/s

C'mon bruh the least you can do is respond to her

Yup both toxic. Shes all over the place but the silent treatment is childish. Are you both teenagers or something?

From her perspective it sounds like TC stood her up and got blackout drunk with his friends while she was up waiting. By phrasing it as "basically had a seizure", and by not even considering getting medical help, it seems like TC thinks the seizure wasn't a big deal. So why are people blaming her for thinking the same?

this seems off. i had a seizure when i was younger but it was like the lightest of seizures to the point where i just barely lost consciousness; my mom still called 911 but when they got there, after checking me out, they said it wasn't necessary, however, you should still go to the ER and get looked at. even if it's a shorty, 911 may not be necessary, but you should definitely still go get looked at

I also have a problem with girlfriends who message when out with friends and want attention. Or boyfriends. Not a gender thing.

you agreed to those plans bro. she didn't force you into anything

so this is my breakdown based on what you've said:

-10pm- start hanging out with friends, start drinking
-10:30pm- she messages you to come over, you agree to come over
-12:30am is when you decide to leave
-you have been drinking for 2.5 hrs, 2.5 ish beers, and half of a mixed drink that who knows how strong you made it
-you were drinking for 2 hrs, knowing you were going to leave at 12:30 to drive apparently 40 minutes away to her place
-seizure happens right before you leave the house at 12:30a
-you also admit that just this week you blew her off, so there's is already precedent for her being upset at you blowing her off in this week alone

You made those decisions, TC. You agreed to go to her place and continued drinking. You blew her off earlier in the week. The seizure isn't necessarily your fault if you've already drank before with that medication, but you were still going to drive. I don't want to hear "i'm not a lightweight", that's subjective information and a cop who pulls you over wouldn't see it that way if he detected alcohol in you.

So you had a seizure for the first time in your life and you didn't get immediate medical attention...?

Why not...?

Also what did the Dr in the ER tell you about the seizure?

Did you reply back to her tc?

I didn't read all responses, and, seizure notwithstanding, you were wrong to hang out with your friends for so long if you had plans and she had a hard day. However, her reaction is NOT okay. No one should deal with that verbal abuse.

I've been through enough shit to know you can't be with people like that. Lots of women are much better than that.

and how many drinks did you have in that time period?

Maybe she's not fully comprehending what it means to have a seizure.

When did you stop drinking between 10p-12:30a?

Idk I feel like TC is missing details. Normal people don't react like that to a seizure.

There's some history behind a response like that

so when did the seizure happen?

when did you start drinking?

Still waiting on da pics

Why did you wait until 2 PM to respond? That seems like the kind of thing you respond to immediately once you see it.

Is this a new medication that you're taking? Were you not aware as to how it interacts with social? How did you "basically" have a seizure? You either had one or you didn't.

This is obviously only a snapshot of a single event, but I get the impression your girlfriend feels that you neglect her and instead focus on drinking with your friends.

You got "really drunk out of nowhere?" I mean I can see why she got pissed at you if you said you were going to meet her and decided to get drunk instead.

Is this a new medication that you're taking? Were you not aware as to how it interacts with social? How did you "basically" have a seizure? You either had one or you didn't.

This is obviously only a snapshot of a single event, but I get the impression your girlfriend feels that you neglect her and instead focus on drinking with your friends.

were you going to drive to her place after drinking? if so, yeah, you're an asshole. if you were going to walk then naw.

she's an asshole regardless, if you did have a seizure.

I've only seen like four Asian people in person

Take vacation then quit without notice

No, you already 'finished' with the parentheses...

Oxys? Vicodin? Addies? Vyvanse? Xanax bars? Valium? Ambien? Concerta? Percs?

I loved Forensic Files. GOAT show.