My wife had to fight with her doctor for years before they let her get her's tied.damn why was the doctor fighting it? I know it's a serious decision because once it happens, you cannot go back, but if the person is sane and knows what will happen, then let them do it. what state was this in? just asking because I have a friend who was able to get her tubes tied, and she is only in her mid 20s. she lives in california.