Wow, my condolences. A month late but I only just saw this topic. Hairs went up on the back of my neck because this is the first time I'm hearing about this here, but reading through the topic, I remember seeing and reading an article about this. The story sounded familiar for many reason and the first thing on google had a picture that I remember seeing, and I remember her last name from the first article I read because it's the same last name as someone I knew a long time ago. Eerie circumstances. Anyway, that seems like an all-around really tragic situation and my heart goes out to you and your family. I wish I had seen this earlier to say it sooner :(
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