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MaxEffingBemis
11/01/2025
11:26 AM
#1
Regularly? Backstory: I finally asked my coworker out and shes someone Ive been spending a lot of time with the past few weeks. Talk to her at work. We have lunch together every day. We clearly like each other. Or at least interested in each other. Were still getting to know each other of course. Weve hung out outside of work once. But now were supposed to have dinner together at a restaurant so Im like what do we talk about lol. How do we make this different than our every day thing at work.
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MacadamianNut3
11/01/2025
11:28 AM
#2
ask her how big it is
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BlueAnnihilator
11/01/2025
11:28 AM
#3
Why does it need to be any different?
Evening_Dragon
11/01/2025
11:29 AM
#4
Just talk like at work, I guess?
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MaxEffingBemis
11/01/2025
11:30 AM
#5
BlueAnnihilator posted...
Why does it need to be any different?

Evening_Dragon posted...
Just talk like at work, I guess?
Yeah youre probably right. Im just overthinking it
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divot1338
11/01/2025
11:34 AM
#6
All the places you can fuck at work obviously.
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DrizztLink
11/01/2025
11:36 AM
#7
Is steak tartare just meat salad?
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Glob
11/01/2025
11:36 AM
#8
BlueAnnihilator posted...
Why does it need to be any different?

This, but if you want it to be different, lean into the awkwardness and acknowledge that you talk all the time, then ask her to tell you something you wouldnt know about her? Or take turns to ask each other questions with full disclosure. Ive done that on dates before and it can fun. It can also be a really good way to check for red flags.
Microsoft
11/01/2025
11:39 AM
#9
Since you already like each other and talk all the time anyway, it'll just come naturally. Don't get so hung up on thinking of it as "first date" and you'll be fine. Have fun
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divot1338
11/01/2025
12:08 PM
#10
Evening_Dragon posted...
Just talk like at work, I guess?
Do not under any circumstances talk about work.
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EpicMickeyDrew
11/01/2025
12:08 PM
#11
Is she hot
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VeggetaX
11/01/2025
12:09 PM
#12
I don't like to go down sorry about that
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BucketCat
11/01/2025
12:17 PM
#13
divot1338 posted...
Do not under any circumstances talk about work.
this

also playing 20 questions on a date can be fun and works just as well for a complete stranger as it does with someone you've known for a little while
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HudGard
11/01/2025
12:29 PM
#14
I would let common ground and work talk break the ice and grease the gears. Once things are moving along you can start asking more personal but innocent open ended questions to get to know them better.
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KaZooo
11/01/2025
12:43 PM
#15
You talk about the same things but probably a but differently.

Emphasize on a bit.
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