pretzelcoatl posted...
You did make assumptions, I am overweight. I've lost 60 pounds in the past 2 years. I've been dieting and exercising since my engagement and marriage. I've simply stopped doing the things that make you fat, and then I started to lose weight. It wasn't magic, miserable, or impossible.
Nobody did me any favors by not addressing that being overweight causes health problems. It's better to call a spade a spade, and then deal with it. Again, if you want.
Look at the language you used in your own. You are using person first language, beyond that No one has suggested carrying extra weight is not harmful.