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teep_ posted...
Damn, I can't believe someone would go on the internet and tell lies!

This has devolved into a shit show, so I'm just gonna wish everyone itt a blessed Ramadhan and a pre-emptive Eid Mubarak for Wednesday and go to work :)
Dont look at me Im not trying to be you just some guy looking for anything to hate on you
I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner....
I clicked TC's name fully expecting 'This user is no longer an active member'
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Dudebusters posted...
Honestly, props for this. Atleast you admitted you hopped on your alts via meme. Respec.
No. I am not teep why are you so insisting on 2 random users showing their face and post decent amount are the same person?!?!
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Garioshi posted...
I'm literally doing that! That's what this topic is about! Being gay or trans or whatever should be normal and utterly unexceptional! That's what my second post in this topic was about!

Your 2nd post is attacking the people who want to make it normal. Let's look back at your 2nd post...

Garioshi posted...
The 9-1-1 topic, obviously, but I know nothing about the context. I'm talking much more generally about angry mobs of terminally online people demanding that authors stop "queer baiting" by not explicitly stating a character's identities, and even more specifically about that demand actual human beings announce their identities because they're otherwise "appropriating" an identity that they may be in proximity to. If we want to treat not being straight or cis like the unexceptional things that they are, we should not have the expectation that they MUST be announced.

There's a high power group that wants to limit the number of queer characters because of bigotry and they are often successfully able to point at international marketing to to justify their bigotry as a business decision. This pressures a lot of creators to change their story from intended purposes and hide that a character is queer. The people on twitter are sick of that and complain. You are taking aim at those complaints.

If you actually want it normalized, representation is a huge factor in normalizing it. A character just being queer without it being a plot point or a joke just as they could be British without it being a plot point or a joke is normalization.
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super_felicia posted...
No. I am not teep why are you so insisting on 2 random users showing their face and post decent amount are the same person?!?!

Can you really not see why I would be suspect of two people who just happened to both enter a topic at the exact same time, saying the exact same thing, and their only defense is "Look both of us posted selfies in the same topic, which "one" of us created, on the internet, where anybody can steal any pic and claim it's them!"

Really? Do you not see how weird this defense is, completely unprovoked? Especially when you responded to me, after I responded to teep, as if I had responded to you?
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Dudebusters posted...
Can you really not see why I would be suspect of two people who just happened to both enter a topic at the exact same time, saying the exact same thing, and their only defense is "Look both of us posted selfies in the same topic, which "one" of us created, on the internet, where anybody can steal any pic and claim it's them!"

Really? Do you not see how weird this defense is, completely unprovoked?
Its just what i am how I am I was not even defending the teep guy I was just annoyed at how you had a copy paste job and no direct link? Does this make sense now? Or will I have to record myself livestream talking to this teep person at the same time who I never interact with before this much
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super_felicia posted...
Or will I have to record myself livestream talking to this teep person at the same time who I never interact with before this much

Actually yeah please do that
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https://youtu.be/ifaoKZfQpdA?si=EN-uMCzorFWNjoAI

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/e/eff823f3.png
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KiwiTerraRizing posted...
I dont care if anyone wants to announce it but I dont care either way. None of my business.
agreed. i couldnt careless, doesnt affect my life any.
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Dudebusters posted...
Actually yeah please do that
If you go on the vocaroo topic still up you can hear my British mixed race voice is that sufficient to you?
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@Garioshi
I'm literally doing that! That's what this topic is about! Being gay or trans or whatever should be normal and utterly unexceptional! That's what my second post in this topic was about!

Well I'd argue that people needing to announce themselves is on those who have banned or attempted to ban LGBTQ+ rights and acknowledgement.
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super_felicia posted...
If you go on the vocaroo topic still up you can hear my British mixed race voice is that sufficient to you?
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/80736388?page=10

insert SpongeBob pissed off pointing at millions of different options you can take to disprove he and me are the same person on alts
I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner....
honestly the most effective use of lgbt characters in media integrating them the same as any other character, and stuff has been getting a lot more better and natural about it. Media has gone from having characters need to have awkward sitdown conversations about what it means to be gay or showing gay kisses like they're some sort of insane plot twists to just... Having people who happen to be gay and letting them be characters. It's infinitely preferrable
Looks like this gamer's paradise has turned into a gamer's hell...............................................
Hypnospace posted...
Lol what a mess of a topic.

Should've clarified you don't have an issue with people "coming out" and this shitshow would've been avoided
Thats why i thought it was bait from the beginning. Reading this knowing that it was made directly because of the 9-1-1 bi character just seemed wack as hell

Hee Ho
bfslick50 posted...
There's a high power group that wants to limit the number of queer characters because of bigotry and they are often successfully able to point at international marketing to to justify their bigotry as a business decision. This pressures a lot of creators to change their story from intended purposes and hide that a character is queer. The people on twitter are sick of that and complain. You are taking aim at those complaints.

If you actually want it normalized, representation is a huge factor in normalizing it. A character just being queer without it being a plot point or a joke just as they could be British without it being a plot point or a joke is normalization.
I agree that representation is good and I have never said otherwise. That being said, good representation and normalization also includes making these depictions (or at least a lot of them) mundane and without attention called to them, and as I've already stated, there is a non-trivial amount of pressure on creators and actual real life people to do the opposite. In addition, there are plenty of people that are "openly" gay or trans or whatever, but tend not to explicitly state it to everyone they know because it simply isn't relevant 90% of the time.
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Garioshi posted...
That being said, good representation and normalization also includes making these depictions (or at least a lot of them) mundane and without attention called to them

Again, this one was done without attention being called to them. The only reason attention was called to them is because people like you flipped out over seeing a guy kiss another guy on TV. So why did you make a topic about it, in the first place, if you don't think attention should be called to it?
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Hypnospace posted...
Teep and Felicia are not the same person.

They don't even post remotely alike.

There.

I'll believe you, since I have no reason not to. Which makes me question why both Teep and Felicia felt like defending TC and Guide in an obvious bait topic.

We know TC isn't acting in good faith, based on their post history, at the very least. Guide certainly isn't much better. So... Why defend them in this topic?
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KanWan posted...
I used to feel very much the same way growing up as a Latino kid knowing how much better others had it. I spent some of my youth punching kids in the park. I spent my youth getting jumped every now and then by my own kind. Books, celebrity roles, tweets, spotlights, and cameras. What does any of that have to do with my experience as a young man? What does any of that have to do with me changing the trajectory of my life just to say I am here

I realized something

its not about this generation, its about the next. Its about the kids. The kids who will take over. The kids who want to be something else other than what their same identifying peers want them to be. To be much more than just your group (although its fine to be within it) and what they try and sell you. Its about mixing all of these learned lessons and hoping that a child says were not so unlike eachother.

there is an actual good and even wholesomeness to learn in creating symbols that represent many. I wouldnt have empathized with whats going on now hadnt I took the scrutiny of my own peers the day I said youre being racist to the white kid, what the fuck is that years ago

And imagine the garbage I hear now lol

But it is good
and it is worth doing

remove yourself from the circle that keeps trying to close you in, you dont have to be with the status quo

just align yourself with it as a means to a greater end

the discussion you want to have will come.. eventually
Youre so good with words
I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner....
StealThisSheen posted...
Again, this one was done without attention being called to them. The only reason attention was called to them is because people like you flipped out over seeing a guy kiss another guy on TV. So why did you make a topic about it, in the first place, if you don't think attention should be called to it?
I do not care about the specifics of this because that's not what the topic is about. This is a completely different subject. The 9-1-1 topic PROMPTED this one; that doesn't mean this one is also about 9-1-1 or anything discussed in the topic because, again, I have not read it and I do not care about it. You keep putting these intentions that I don't have into my mouth for absolutely no reason despite my explaining over and over exactly what I mean.
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Garioshi posted...
I do not care about the specifics of this because that's not what the topic is about. This is a completely different subject. The 9-1-1 topic PROMPTED this one; that doesn't mean this one is also about 9-1-1 or anything discussed in the topic because, again, I have not read it and I do not care about it. You keep putting these intentions that I don't have into my mouth for absolutely no reason despite my explaining over and over exactly what I mean.

This, quite literally, makes no sense. If you don't care about the other topic, why did it "prompt" this topic?
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Dudebusters posted...
I'll believe you, since I have no reason not to. Which makes me question why both Teep and Felicia felt like defending TC and Guide in an obvious bait topic.

We know TC isn't acting in good faith, based on their post history, at the very least. Guide certainly isn't much better. So... Why defend them in this topic?
Guide said Im hard to understand in how I type in my own topic smh. i wasnt defending tc I was defending the teep post with no link and a copied date which can be fake my post saying about i wasnt insulting the tc I just wanted to share my post didnt mean i agree with this tc either
I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner....
StealThisSheen posted...
This, quite literally, makes no sense. If you don't care about the other topic, why did it "prompt" this topic?
The subject of the topic reminded me of a related (but not the same) subject. I explicitly said this 150 posts ago and it appears that none of you have the ability to read and have been dumping vitriol on me for absolutely no reason.
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Garioshi posted...
The subject of the topic reminded me of a related (but not the same) subject. I explicitly said this 150 posts ago and it appears that none of you have the ability to read and have been dumping vitriol on me for absolutely no reason.

We can read. The problem for you is that, no matter how many times you say "I swear I didn't make this topic for bigoted reasons," your complete and utter lack of ability to defend or make sense of the topic says otherwise, since you keep using alt right buzzwords.
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StealThisSheen posted...
We can read. The problem for you is that, no matter how many times you say "I swear I didn't make this topic for bigoted reasons," your complete and utter lack of ability to defend or make sense of the topic says otherwise, since you keep using alt right buzzwords.
And we're back to people just making shit up about me. What alt-right buzzwords am I using? What arguments am I failing to defend? You gave me "one more chance to save myself", and when I answered consistently with everything I've been saying this entire topic, you continued to attack me without ever acknowledging it. I have never seen myself taken in bad faith so horrendously like in this topic.
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I don't know how some of you function in the real world with hair trigger tempers

Every opinion not worded perfectly is an unforgiveable one
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Garioshi posted...
The thing with SJWs is that they like to make extreme comparisons. For example, the worst among them might say, "You speak German? You know who else spoke German? HITLER! You're obviously a Nazi. Please stop contaminating our perfect non-Nazi world with your filth."

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WHAT UP!
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Hypnospace posted...
Because the reason everyone reacted negatively to this topic was because they thought TC was complaining about people coming out.

When it became more clear that his real issue was with people being invalidated for not coming out (see: post #24 when he mentions groups accusing private LGBT people of "appropriating" identities) it was obviously a matter of him wording it poorly/leaving out vital clarifications in the OP.

Quite honestly if I was him I would've locked this topic ages ago because very few people are actually going to notice those clarifications.

Edit: Oh yeah, another way TC fucked up was by saying "the 9-1-1 topic prompted this but I didn't read into it" which only further fueled that initial reaction. As opposed to "The 9-1-1 topic had me thinking about LGBT people who are bashed for not coming out" and elaborating further on that.

Bottom line is TC is terrible at clearly expressing his thoughts on issues.

That last sentence is true, but it doesn't warrant/justify the extremely vicious reactions CE likes to give when they know they can get away with it

On the question of who is more toxic, it's obvious
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It's weird how certain users seem desperate to defend a poster with a very bad faith history.

Well, I guess it's not that weird, seeing who they are, but...
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StealThisSheen posted...
It's weird how certain users seem desperate to defend a poster with a very bad faith history.

Well, I guess it's not that weird, seeing who they are, but...

Even the term "bad faith" can be completely weaponised online though

I've been on CE way too long to trust the dog piling users like to do in these situations comes from "good faith".

We're all pretty miserable IMO and some of us like to vent on easy targets
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
Even the term "bad faith" can be completely weaponised online though

I mean, we already know your take on things, specialkid.
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StealThisSheen posted...
I mean, we already know your take on things, specialkid.

Oh wow you actually still think I'm that dudes alt even with the way that topic ended up going.

Is there anyway for a mod to like, prove me and this other random dude who I hadn't heard of before that day aren't alts?

I like defending people when it's 10 on 1. Deal with it
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
Oh wow you actually still think I'm that dudes alt even with the way that topic ended up going.

Is there anyway for a mod to like, prove me and this other random dude who I hadn't heard of before that day aren't alts?

I like defending people when it's 10 on 1. Deal with it
Why do you feel you need to prove anything to him? Just don't engage with people who think their opinions are so profound and act like some gatekeepers of morality.
Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
I like defending people when it's 10 on 1. Deal with it

Oh, trust me, we know you use this excuse, since you routinely defend alt righters under the guise of "you guys dog piled them!"
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VeggetaX posted...
Why do you feel you need to prove anything to him? Just don't engage with people who think their opinions are so profound and act like some gatekeepers of morality.

I agreed with his take on the other topic about the skateboarder and the car. I didn't even realise we had a feud going lol. But I take your point
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StealThisSheen posted...
Oh, trust me, we know you use this excuse, since you routinely defend alt righters under the guise of "you guys dog piled them!"

I just can recognise misdirected anger when I see it.
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VeggetaX posted...
Why do you feel you need to prove anything to him? Just don't engage with people who think their opinions are so profound and act like some gatekeepers of morality.

Are you gonna just block me, yet, or are you gonna keep whining in every topic since I disagreed with you once or twice?
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StealThisSheen posted...
Are you gonna just block me, yet, or are you gonna keep whining in every topic since I disagreed with you once or twice?

Talk about a pot calling the kettle black
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
Talk about a pot calling the kettle black

Whatever you say, specialkid. Atleast I haven't defended open racists because "Stop dog piling him, guys!"
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StealThisSheen posted...
Whatever you say, specialkid.

By your logic I should be this TC's alt too right? Since I made a single post defending him

Really gross behaviour by you tbh
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
By your logic I should be this TC's alt too right? Since I made a single post defending him

Really gross behaviour by you tbh

You, quite literally, choose to defend racists and homophobes simply because "I always defend the 1 in a 10 v 1!"

You have no room to talk.
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StealThisSheen posted...
You, quite literally, choose to defend racists and homophobes simply because "I always defend the 1 in a 10 v 1!"

You have no room to talk.


No, I can see a potentially edgy at worst and poorly explained opinion at best get treated like the person killed a puppy before making the topic

I can't make you see my perspective but just know I'm nobody's alt.
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
No, I can see a potentially edgy at worse and poorly explained opinion at best get treated like the person killed a puppy before making the topic

You aren't even denying what I said, you're just attempting to defend it.

You play devil's advocate for literal racist and homophobic users, who regularly get suspended. You've earned the reputation you have.
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StealThisSheen posted...
You aren't even denying what I said, you're just attempting to defend it.

You play devil's advocate for literal racist and homophobic users, who regularly get suspended. You've earned the reputation you have.

Omg I'm not entertaining your bullshit I must be a horrible person

Can you at least admit you don't actually think I'm that dudes alt? Put yourself in my shoes for a second.
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Also, just to spell it out: I know you're not specialkid, but you might as well be. That's the entire point. You take up for the worst people, willingly, all because "I must fight the majority!" That's dumb.
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