Still live with family members feel like a complete loserI'm 42 and exactly the same, except I haven't had a job in 24 years either. I don't want kids though and never having a gf isn't that big a deal. I like not having responsibilities.
Still live with family members feel like a complete loser
I'm 42 and exactly the same, except I haven't had a job in 24 years either. I don't want kids though and never having a gf isn't that big a deal. I like not having responsibilities.
Am I the biggest loser on the beach?Been hearing moist Critikal say that every five minutes when he streams he needs new material lol.
No job since 18? How'd you pull this off?I live with my parents.
I'm 42 and exactly the same, except I haven't had a job in 24 years either. I don't want kids though and never having a gf isn't that big a deal. I like not having responsibilities.Do you live with someone who pays for all your needs? Do you have a handicap of some sort?
Do you live with someone who pays for all your needs? Do you have a handicap of some sort?I live with my parents and I have severe social anxiety. I have done absolutely nothing with my life in the last 24 years because I just don't want to be an adult and have responsibilities and work for a living and all that. So I don't. My parents are okay with this. I'm sure they wish I had a normal life but they don't want to force me.
I live with my parents and I have severe social anxiety. I have done absolutely nothing with my life in the last 24 years because I just don't want to be an adult and have responsibilities and work for a living and all that. So I don't. My parents are okay with this. I'm sure they wish I had a normal life but they don't want to force me.Whats the plan if something happens to them?
I live with my parents and I have severe social anxiety. I have done absolutely nothing with my life in the last 24 years because I just don't want to be an adult and have responsibilities and work for a living and all that. So I don't. My parents are okay with this. I'm sure they wish I had a normal life but they don't want to force me.You could try getting a work from home job.
Been hearing moist Critikal say that every five minutes when he streams he needs new material lol.Wait am I loser cos I'm overweight despite going college then smh
So long as you're not overweight or out of shape but still saving money & working, I don't think it makes you a loser OP
I think context always matters. Like if youre purposefully living with elderly or disabled relatives to help watch over them and take care of them that is completely different than someone who decided to never leave home and just mooches off their parents.I did this (and also care gave for others that I wasn't kin to) for a decade and you can absolutely get paid decent money for it
There are always situations that can arise out of nowhere and cause a setback. A sudden loss of your job, a sudden divorce and you have no where to go. These are much different situations than never leaving the nest.
Some people cant leave home though because of a disability or whatever. It happens. Many people have many different circumstances.
Your situation is your business but I just hope your feelings about your situation arent being influenced by others. If its simply how you feel about your situation then maybe you can work on either why you feel that way or change the circumstances of why you feel that way.
Whats the plan if something happens to them?No plan.
You could try getting a work from home job.Too much anxiety.
You could try getting a work from home job..
I work for Scribe America. I work at home and say MAYBE 30 words a day and only to one person
The work is easy and stress free for the most part
They're always looking for new hires, no experience or education necessary. Just need to have a GED, pass a background check, and pass a urine test
So there are absolutely things out there for people with bad social anxiety if you're willing to try
No plan.You need to make a plan. You don't want to be on the receiving end of the world without one in that situation
Too much anxiety.
.Doesn't pay much but it's better than nothing
Good advice. Think I'm going to check out that job opportunity
You need to make a plan. You don't want to be on the receiving end of the world without one in that situationOne of my wife's friends has cystic fibrosis terminally confined to a wheelchair and she's able to hold down a WFH job as a writer. She and her husband (yep) are looking for a house last I heard.
You need to make a plan. You don't want to be on the receiving end of the world without one in that situationOh trust me I know I am really going to be up the creek without a paddle one day.
Oh trust me I know I am really going to be up the creek without a paddle one day.Try something that involves no one but you. Try to learn an instrument, draw, code, just something so that when that day comes you can have a skill in your back pocket
Still live with family members feel like a complete loser
Try something that involves no one but you. Try to learn an instrument, draw, code, just something so that when that day comes you can have a skill in your back pocketI've never once in my life had any life ambitions or goals or dreams. The only thing I am good at is doing nothing. I've been shut-in for 24 years only going out in public a hand full of times during that entire time span. I'm immune to cabin fever. All I want to do is be left alone. I would absolutely apply for disability if I knew I could get it. I don't want to work.
So long as you're not overweight or out of shape
WTF is this?It gives outsiders an excuse to say you're lazy or not working, last thing you want is to be able to be perceived as a NEET who is out of shape or doesn't look like they take care of themselves
Still live with family members feel like a complete loser
I blame BidenomicsExplain this with data to back the claim
same
Do you have a decent job or striving to better yourself if you don't already? Do you help your parents out? That's not a loser in my eyes if you meet those two.
I live with a parent. if I get it a long term relationship, I'll move out. But I need to find someone to live with her, cause she has health stuff.
Do you have a decent job or striving to better yourself if you don't already? Do you help your parents out?Probably not directed at me but I'll answer. No job and not really striving to better myself except I did start working out in 2019 and have kept it up to this day. I exercise every day for about 10-15 minutes. Pushups, crunches, some weight lifting, and walking/jogging on our treadmill. I do help my parents around the house with chores but that's it.
Probably not directed at me but I'll answer. No job and not really striving to better myself except I did start working out in 2019 and have kept it up to this day. I exercise every day for about 10-15 minutes. Pushups, crunches, some weight lifting, and walking/jogging on our treadmill. I do help my parents around the house with chores but that's it.
Probably not directed at me but I'll answer. No job and not really striving to better myself except I did start working out in 2019 and have kept it up to this day. I exercise every day for about 10-15 minutes. Pushups, crunches, some weight lifting, and walking/jogging on our treadmill. I do help my parents around the house with chores but that's it.How often do you talk to people not your parents like other family or random people or friends/acquaintances are you OK with your social skills?- im shit at social skills irl btw
Look man. If you were truly healthy and happy with your life then you wouldnt be in this topic right now.Except I've posted in topics exactly like this dozens and dozens of times over the last two decades and nothing has changed. I've posted on other forums too. If I really deep down don't like my life, then I don't like my life. But I'm still not going to change anything.
Thats probably the only advice that I or anyone else can give you that holds any value. Introspection .
Sometimes we delude ourselves into thinking things arent problematic when they really are. Being able to recognize I dont like my life is a necessary first step into making any sort of positive change whatsoever.
I think perhaps thats what this topic will do for you.
Probably not directed at me but I'll answer. No job and not really striving to better myself except I did start working out in 2019 and have kept it up to this day. I exercise every day for about 10-15 minutes. Pushups, crunches, some weight lifting, and walking/jogging on our treadmill. I do help my parents around the house with chores but that's it.Can't you atleast do some very basic jobs like a bagger at a grocery store? Or do surveys, they pay like shit but that's better than nothing I guess.
How often do you talk to people not your parents like other family or random people or friends/acquaintances are you OK with your social skills?- im shit at social skills irl btwI haven't really talked to anyone in person outside of my parents and my little brother in the last 24 years. The last time I talked to anyone else in person, was a psychiatrist/physiologist when I was 18 and he only made things worse for me so I quit seeing him.