It actually originated in a Palmolive commercial where Madge the Manicurist soaked her clients hands in Palmolive dishwashing liquid to soften them.
Soft hands mean a sheltered life, you never did any hard work. In response to the question, have you ever killed a man, it implies that Kramer has led a hard life and is likely to have killed someone, without him coming out and saying it.
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