KogaSteelfang posted...
Intrusive thoughts for sure. This is my first time hearing of cute aggression. Can't say I've ever experienced that.
Its like seeing something that's extremely cute or adorable and then feeling like you don't know what to do with it and you just want to hug or squeeze them so tight.
Seaman_Prime posted...
Idk if those two things are related. But yeah cuteness aggressiveness is definitely real lol. Especially with dogs for me.
I suppose puppies would give me such a thing. I get excited when I see a dog or cat but I don't know if I've ever done that. Like I said, before my daughter was born, I didn't know about it.
As for intrusive thoughts, yeah its just weird. It feels shameful to think about.
KanWan posted...
I guess I can get the cute aggression
like wanting to bite into a girls booty, but really hard :3
or squeezing someones cheeks so hard because theyre so cute and make you feel like you want to explode into a smoke of confetti
I...think that's more like lust o.o lol At least the butt thing
Asherlee10 posted...
Cuteness aggression is pretty common and normal. Assuming you have enough self-control to just let the moment pass.
Intrusive thoughts are a lot tougher. That requires establishing a toolbelt of methods to stop them in their tracks. That will take some Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help teach you those tools.
Yeah, I wouldn't ever fall into making mistakes like that but I have imagined stuff with knives or cars or even heights and I felt ashamed by it. I would even get angry with myself. Awhile back, I learned that it was a common behavior and then I felt a little safer but there's still that annoyance at myself that I'd think that.