What you have said doesnt in any way indicate that shes super feminist. Hating Andrew state just suggests that her brain functions properly.
It really just depends how hot she is. Also how likely she is to put out
She hates andrew tate
She owns a property in torontonice
Yet all 3 times the bill came she looked away or made no effort. My rule was if by 3 dates a girl doesnt offer to pay (doesnt even have to pay), im done with her or will only entertain a fourth date if its at one of our placesDepends on several factors. Like what else does she do in this relationship? Did she pay for something else for us that wasn't part of the date? Did she help with something else?
What would you do if theres no effort to pay by date 4
What's your plan here? You're apparently still talking. Are you going to break it off, or lead her on but slowly ghost her. You're an asshole if you do the latter.
That's a weird rule tbh
Before you do that. Maybe you should try to communicate this to her. Speaking as an engineer, she may lack social skills. She gets attention all the time but she may be practical in how she spends her money. If you can't do that much. Let someone else discover her worth.
I paid for my girlfriend's food all the time we were initially dating cause I thought that was required? And now we're married.
Seems like a silly rule to have imo, unless you explicitly ask if she could pay. Communication seems to be lacking here, really.
It's kind of funny.
Thats your relationship and Im happy for you. Self identifying as a feminist sort of implies to me you dont need a man and can carry your weight. Also we make similar amounts and are similar age. Why is it 100% me, this is coming from a guy who has had relationships in the past which were 80% me in terms of money. All I valued was "would this person pay" and a "thank you"
The first mistake you made was going to dinner for your dates
Go on the least expensive dates possible, like a walk in the park where you talk or something like that. If she has a problem with that then you know youre right in dumping her
Please move on then. There are bigger reasons to break up with someone.
Thats your relationship and Im happy for you. Self identifying as a feminist sort of implies to me you dont need a man and can carry your weight. Also we make similar amounts and are similar age. Why is it 100% me, this is coming from a guy who has had relationships in the past which were 80% me in terms of money. All I valued was "would this person pay" and a "thank you"