Stop worrying about the women who complain, theyre always gonna complain theyre complainers
There are other women
dating apps aren't like real life so it's useless to complain about it from either side.Dating apps are the most common way to get a date these days though, if you're under 40
Yeah but how do you know who you're dealing with?
Personally I question if coming into a conversation by immediately drawing attention to things you observed on someone's profile might be too aggressive and potentially come off as a scammer.
Whenever women message me first its always a hi :) or hey hows it goingDo you find those openings off-putting and weak, or are they fine to you?
seems like minimal effort all around
3 times as many matches to sift through.
I feel like you dodged a bullet if a girl will dump you because your greeting message wasn't unique enoughNot really. It's more that a girl typically gets 20 "hi" messages a day. She doesn't have the time or energy to start up a conversation with every single person. So it makes more sense to go with something that stands out more.
That's a red flag
Dating apps are the most common way to get a date these days though, if you're under 40
Yeah but how do you know who you're dealing with?Nah, trust me it works. Even if it's something basic. You relate it to yourself while also asking her a follow-up question about it.
Personally I question if coming into a conversation by immediately drawing attention to things you observed on someone's profile might be too aggressive and potentially come off as a scammer.
Yeah and I think that's fuckedIt's safer
Do you find those openings off-putting and weak, or are they fine to you?
If they are, say so. If not, you don't have an issue.
Mfw I don't even get a hi
hi*sees profile*
Whenever women message me first its always a hi :) or hey hows it goingAre they the same women, who say in their profiles, that won't respond to the exact same thing?
seems like minimal effort all around
Not really. It's more that a girl typically gets 20 "hi" messages a day. She doesn't have the time or energy to start up a conversation with every single person. So it makes more sense to go with something that stands out more.That said, woman are no better with the bad openers.
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:"If cats could talk, do you think their testimony would hold up in court?"
"Hold up I am on the last level of Donkey Kong Country. I am about to beat it."
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:"I can clean the bottom of any size snack cup with my tongue."
"Hold up I am on the last level of Donkey Kong Country. I am about to beat it."
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:I didn't really have an opener for every message. If there's something pop culture related, I make a joke about that.
"Hold up I am on the last level of Donkey Kong Country. I am about to beat it."
What is your opening line CE? Mine is:Well I'm not single anymore, but I tried to relate my first message to something in their profile or photos. If their profile was very bare bones and gave me nothing to work with, I'd go with some variation of "Hi [her name], I'm [my name]. What do you like to do in your free time? I like to [lists some of my hobbies]."
"Hold up I am on the last level of Donkey Kong Country. I am about to beat it."