I dated someone like this, was the absolute worst
Minimised all my problems because she'd been through worse, used so much patronising language when we would discuss things that had left me pretty down about life
Just invalidated my depression and issues, full on gatekeeping of trauma because I hadn't been abused or something
Conversations were 90% about her problems. She was basically just trauma dumping by the time we broke up with no giveback
Started from the bottom now we here