Syntheticon posted...
No, we all know when we're crossing a line.
Long before you get to any sexy times, you;ve already done half a dozen things you know you shouldn't be doing-the easy rule is "would I want my partner to see me doing this/would they be ok with it". If it fails that test, you know what's up.
I usually go with "Would I be okay with my partner doing this with another guy?" since I tend to date girls that have similar relationship boundaries as me. Generally if it's something sketchy or will lead to something sketchy I just avoid it, it's not hard.
I also understand that it's easy to get swept up in the moment when the hormones are going crazy and have your brain sit back while your body goes on autopilot. I've slept with girls I didn't really want to sleep with before, so again, have to be more careful to not put myself in those positions. Not get too intoxicated, etc.
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