girl 1:
-conventionally attractive
-likes being more spontaneous ie going out drinking,concerts/events
-solid job
-likes sports (i like sports)
-does active activities like running and pickleball
girl 2:
-attractive in my eyes but a lil overweight. would be conventionally attractive if she lost weight
-has a big job role. highly educated
-into reading
-goes out a little but content with staying in
-not into sports
-easier to flirt with
This isnt an exhaustive list but has some basics. To me, girl 2 makes it more obvious that she likes me and finds me attractive. literally said shes attracted to me and is expecting a kiss the next date. girl 1 has not said anything like this. i kind of ghosted girl 1 for a few days and then asked if she wanted to go out on the weekend, but she was kind of disappointed i didnt communicate. i asked her straight up if she wanted to keep going with this and she said yes so she hasnt explicitly said it but it seems she likes me enough to not drop everything over one slip up.
im planning on going out with each at least one more time, but at some point i would have the drop one if this keeps up. what do i do? honestly if looks were equal girl 2 would be the more obvious choice, but ive known her for less time so maybe things change. im kind of hoping one of them makes the decision for me
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