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Bailey Base! Such a hotty!

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TheCyborgNinja posted...
You sound like you're fixated on her, in a very unhealthy way for both of you. For normal people "time" would be my response, but 7 years regarding somebody you barely knew?! I'd say go to therapy because this is a symptom of a deeper issue. I'm not bashing you, I'm giving you helpful advice that you clearly need.


Moonjay posted...
It sounds like you didn't know her. At all. So firstly you need to get your head around that. The feeling of her being special was just infatuation, which feels amazing, but it has to end.

You may need to go to a therapist or psychiatrist for help. Obsessive thoughts can be a sign of underlying mental health issues.


This is a reply to these two posts.

I actually do see a therapist. I haven't mentioned this though. I mentioned something else not long ago. Basically sometimes when I like someone, I guess it becomes a bit obsessive. I'm not super creepy about it. It's something I keep to myself. I don't even look up the girls I"m into online. I stopped that (except for today I guess).

But yeah, I'll mention this as it's something that's been bothering me for a long time. I don't think about her as much as I used to a few years ago. It was worse back then. I used to think about her almost daily. But now I just think about her every now and then.

keyblader1985 posted...
This is really the best advice here. I had a somewhat similar situation, with a girl I was stuck on for a few years. We were friends and I never got anywhere with her (mainly because she was married), but even after we lost touch I kept thinking of her for a while. Eventually I had to realize that I was building the situation up in my head, there was nothing that could be done now, and all I could do was move on and work on myself.

The best thing to do when you feel like s***, is to do something to improve yourself or give back to society so that you're not s***. Whether it's something big or small, do something so you can say that you're interesting and that you have something to offer.


Sounds like good advice. Thanks.

TheSlinja posted...
dont be so down on yourself, ily chito <3



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