Current Events > Welp! I did it! I lost lost my virginity at 34 AMA.

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I'm not fat or unattractive I simply suffer from extreme social anxiety and lack of confidence. I've never been a genuine relation. We had a good romantic date and it went from there. We were both inexperienced (shes 30 and also a virgin but shes been with a woman) and suffered from extreme anxiety like me. My friend she hooked us up. It was very awkward but she understood and reassured me that it's normal and we can learn together. Feel pretty good.

Congratulations and I hope whatever you've got going on blooms into a relationship. I bet that's a weight off your shoulders.

To verify, how long was it?

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I haven't done anything wrong.

Strider102 posted...

To verify, how long was it?

It was awkward and it was a struggle. Lot of emotions and anxiety and I had major trouble y'know? She was super understanding. I felt bad and she did her best to reaffirm my feelings and comfort me. She enjoyed it still and was eager to explore with me.

Was the hole lower than you thought it'd be?

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How?

JACKBUTTMOMMY posted...

this is offensive content.

only to the prudes. if it goes down. it'll be because of them.

he/she or person probably marked this topic too.

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This fake-holy christofascism is cancer.

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Nowhere did I discuss sexual acts. Is this board now for kids?

CRON posted...

Congratulations and I hope whatever you've got going on blooms into a relationship. I bet that's a weight off your shoulders.

It is a relation we've been dating for a bit. We've been together for a little bit but we both fell hard. We had a long talk and we were both ready. I told her we could wait and she said "I'm ready lets' see how it goes. If it gets weird or I feel not okay we can always end it and wait. I trust you".

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The arbiter of all that is offensive, JACKBUTTMOMMY

So....did it take seconds?

Minutes?

Hours?

im almost 39 and still a virgin so ha i win

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Yet youre the one spreading that gospel in this topic.

Congrats TC!

Hope the two of you had a good experience together.

AceMos posted...

i win

gotta reach age 40 first. then anyone who hasn't gotten it on will end up winning.

Strider102 posted...

So....did it take seconds?

Minutes?

Hours?

Don't ask. It was awkward.

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Talking about dating is too. Talking about ANYTHING is sexual now. Kissing? hugging? All sexual now and banned.

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Congrats. What did you think?

Woohoo. Another CEmen entering the white gates. Congrats. It's a good feeling, isn't it?

https://youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o

xTreefiddy350x posted...

Congrats. What did you think?

I mean we both liked it even if I didn't really do much? She had a good time and was happy. Porn and lack of inexperience really fucked my mind over. I deleted my porn stash.

Hey congrats! The nerves are always the worst part.

Dio posted...

It is a relation we've been dating for a bit. We've been together for a little bit but we both fell hard. We had a long talk and we were both ready. I told her we could wait and she said "I'm ready lets' see how it goes. If it gets weird or I feel not okay we can always end it and wait. I trust you".

And it sounds like things have been going well between the two of you. So have you officially started referring to yourselves as a couple? That's always a fun feeling when you've fallen for her.

TC!
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44 year old virgin here. Congrats.

NoxObscuras posted...

Hey congrats! The nerves are always the worst part.

And it sounds like things have been going well between the two of you. So have you officially started referring to yourselves as a couple? That's always a fun feeling when you've fallen for her.

Yeah she made it clear we were dating now. She doesn't do hook ups or casual flings. It has to be with someone she shares a romantic bond with.

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No, ,mostly problems performing and general anxiety. I was focused on pleasing her and was scared I would leave her bored and not satisficed.

That's awesome. Congrats TC. I remember when I made my topic on losing mine. Of course stupid me left the topic open on my sister's laptop and then my nosy mom's boyfriend for whatever reason walked into her room and saw it. I don't think he said anything (actually, he probably told my mom in private since he lived for snitching on me when I was a teenager). It was just annoying that I usually never leave stuff like that open but the one time I do, is the one time he goes in and sees it.

Is it true that they feel like bags of sand?

TuxedoCyan posted...

44 year old virgin here. Congrats.

I thought i'd be that. I was fully accepting of it. I embraced my status.

Congratulations, TC! I'm also 34 and can't see myself ever losing my virginity.

Im 38 and have never been with a woman, Im jealous. Any tips? (Excuse the pun)

Dio posted...

I thought i'd be that. I was fully accepting of it. I embraced my status.

Well good job breaking that wall. I'm never going to get there because I have no job, no money, no friends, no social life, no transportation and I never go outside and on top of all that, I'm extremely picky about who I'd want to have sex with. So it's absolutely not happening for me. But I'm good with it. Can't always get what we want.

I'm not even that bad looking either because girls have showed interest in me (and in some cases, told me they were attracted to me) in the past. I just couldn't take the first step.

es289408 posted...

Im 38 and have never been with a woman, Im jealous. Any tips? (Excuse the pun)

I dont have any. I got lucky and found a woman who was in the same boat as me. We had a lot of chemistry.

To CE!

TuxedoCyan posted...

Well good job breaking that wall. I'm never going to get there because I have no job, no money, no friends, no social life, no transportation and I never go outside and on top of all that, I'm extremely picky about who I'd want to have sex with. So it's absolutely not happening for me. But I'm good with it. Can't always get what we want.

I'm not even that bad looking either because girls have showed interest in me (and in some cases, told me they were attracted to me) in the past. I just couldn't take the first step.

I have a shitty retail job, 1 friend I just made recently and no social life aside from my now g/f.

Before this year I never had a friend in my life and my only real romance was a LD online girl who was cat fishing me and another LD girl who got bored and ghosted me. I lived with my mom till recent too.

Gwynevere posted...

To CE!

TBF I would 100% make this exact topic if I ever were to lose my virginity

Don't worry about having difficulty performing. Online videos make it seem far different than actually experiencing it, especially at our age. One thing I will say that helps with anxiety is that they make pills for this. Anxiety gets easier to handle when you don't have to worry about being able to perform because it works really well regardless.

Hate being this vague but Fandom.

Gwynevere posted...

To CE!

I dont exactly have many friends.

Gwynevere posted...

To CE!

Both my exact thought but also 100% what I'd be guilty of

well lucky you, the first couple of hundred times its like being on drugs for the first time, its just insane and you want to do it over and over.

It is nice that you had a positive experience with a supportive partner. It gets more comfortable each time, and usually you get more comfortable with the same partner once you get to know them better.

I just turned 42 and haven't lost mine. Glad that you managed to find someone though. Be thankful you didn't turn out like me.