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CW_McGraw
08/29/25 7:33:47 PM
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She has said she is currently in a relationship. The app claims she is currently online. What am I to do with this information?

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Zikten
08/29/25 7:34:22 PM
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Probably should just pretend you never saw it
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Dissident_77
08/29/25 7:34:31 PM
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Swipe right

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The_Popo
08/29/25 7:36:46 PM
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Match. Mingle. Plow.

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Ryven
08/29/25 7:38:06 PM
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Does it say non monogamous on her profile?

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boomgetchopped3
08/29/25 7:38:51 PM
#6:


CW_McGraw posted...
She has said she is currently in a relationship.

Howd that come up

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CW_McGraw
08/29/25 7:55:02 PM
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boomgetchopped3 posted...
Howd that come up
She's the new one in a team of 3 that now includes her and we all talked about that stuff during the extensive downtime we had during our professional development days.

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Freddie_Mercury
08/29/25 8:32:06 PM
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  1. assume shes cheating
  2. call her out in front of everyone at a meeting
  3. find out shes in an open relationship
  4. get fired and claim unemployment



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Compsognathus
08/29/25 8:35:16 PM
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Zikten posted...
Probably should just pretend you never saw it
100% the right answer.

You barely know this woman and you know even less about her social life. For all you know she claims to have a boyfriend to ward off a weirdo at work. Or they are in an open relationship. Or maybe she is just regular old cheating. But absolutely nothing good will come of you doing anything with that information. It will burn you.

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Arcanine2009
08/29/25 8:35:53 PM
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Which dating app? There's a chance she might be in an open relationship, or maybe she is looking. If the relationship is fairly new, then she might have not deactivated her account.

You can either choose to bring it up in a innocent joking way, or not mention it at all. If you want to be on good terms with her, I'd say nothing.

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Umbreon
08/29/25 9:00:24 PM
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Ignore it.

Unless you two have a casual enough relationship where poking fun at each other every now and then is perfectly fine. Then right swipe for the lulz.

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doshindude
08/29/25 9:09:32 PM
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Its not your business.

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CW_McGraw
08/29/25 9:11:09 PM
#13:


Compsognathus posted...
100% the right answer.

You barely know this woman and you know even less about her social life. For all you know she claims to have a boyfriend to ward off a weirdo at work. Or they are in an open relationship. Or maybe she is just regular old cheating. But absolutely nothing good will come of you doing anything with that information. It will burn you.
I do definitely believe she has a boyfriend. She's dropped too many specific details about him for me to assume it's merely a way to repel men. That being said, I plan to ignore this like you suggest. I just don't do these dating apps typically and I'm not familiar with how to approach this.

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