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Chunky
02/19/23 8:31:44 AM
#1:


I'm a manager and I need an assistant. There's two people I'm considering:

  • Guy #1: This is the person everyone wants me to promote. He's very good at his job, has perfect metrics, never missed a day of work, always willing to do overtime, pretty much has dedicated his life to this job. However, being good at your job doesn't mean you would be good in management. He's a "yes man", he doesn't understand the hierarchy of the company or what management goes through (he only understands his own job), and he follows any orders without question. None of those are necessarily bad things, but I don't really see any management potential in him. He knows the job inside and out, and he's reliable, but that doesn't mean he would be a good manager.
  • Guy #2: This person doesn't apply himself that much, but I see a LOT of management potential in him. He calls off on occasion, he sometimes argues with me and others in management, he's been written up a few times, and tbh he's really not all that great at the job. So why am I considering him? He's VERY intelligent, and he has management written all over him. He's not afraid to speak up if something is wrong, he understands what a manager is supposed to do, he has a great understanding of the hierarchy of the company. He understands that managers have metrics they have to make as well. Basically he understands more than just his own role. Although him being a pain in the ass is bad, it shows he has the balls to be a manager. He may not be that good at the job, but I think he would be an effective manager. You don't need to be good at the job in order to be a good manager.


I know my subordinates are going to be pissed when I promote guy #2 rather than guy #1, and I'm going to hear complaints like "guy #1 is such a good employee, why didn't get get the promotion" and I'm going to facepalm. But maybe I'm missing omething here. What do you guys think? Who would you promote if you were in my situation?

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NeonTentacles
02/19/23 8:39:47 AM
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Just hire off their looks like a normal person would do.

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KanWan
02/19/23 8:48:28 AM
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Depends on how coachable each person can be.. person 1 can learn how to do so through example. There shouldnt be faffing about and it should be clear that the whole position requires confrontation on a daily basis since that is the core of the job anyways.

Making distinctions between good and bad interactions will set him up right

Person #2 though doesnt seem to need any life skills help, what they need is praise and the proverbial carrot to keep applying themselves to.. right now it seems like there isnt one for the guy

Im more like person #2 - but Id personally hire person #1 lol

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Maninstagnate
02/19/23 8:48:30 AM
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Guy 1. Management skills aren't hard to learn and he can teach those under him his own skills which made him great. Also it increases morale with the other associates and shows them that working hard gets you rewarded.

I worked at a big company that would promote Guy 2 but it never ends well and bad management is one thing the company is notorious for.
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Chunky
02/19/23 12:04:50 PM
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Maninstagnate posted...
Guy 1. Management skills aren't hard to learn and he can teach those under him his own skills which made him great. Also it increases morale with the other associates and shows them that working hard gets you rewarded.

I worked at a big company that would promote Guy 2 but it never ends well and bad management is one thing the company is notorious for.
you think so? i'm open to this idea, but to me it's definitely possible to be a good employee BUT not a good manager, and IMO, guy #1 is the perfect example. guy #1 is a fantastic employee, but to me he doesn't seem like a good fit for a manager because he's just a basic "yes man" who does what he's told and never speaks up when he's unhappy.

i just wanted to comment on your statement "management skills aren't hard to learn". i've seen hundreds of people get promoted, and then they don't work out as a manager for whatever reason. sometimes it's because they're too passive, or because they let their subordinates and bosses walk all over them.

KanWan posted...
Depends on how coachable each person can be.. person 1 can learn how to do so through example. There shouldnt be faffing about and it should be clear that the whole position requires confrontation on a daily basis since that is the core of the job anyways.

Making distinctions between good and bad interactions will set him up right

Person #2 though doesnt seem to need any life skills help, what they need is praise and the proverbial carrot to keep applying themselves to.. right now it seems like there isnt one for the guy

Im more like person #2 - but Id personally hire person #1 lol
to be fair, i'm not even sure if guy #2 even wants the management position lol. guy #1 on the other hand has been chasing a promotion for over a year now.

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Skype
02/19/23 12:08:58 PM
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Sounds like promoting Guy #2 will have terrible effects on work morale.

At least Guy #1 sounds like he would be open to being coached. Don't snuff that opportunity unless you want to likely lose him too.

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FatAnimeBooty
02/19/23 12:11:46 PM
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Nobody is going to want to work for Guy #2.
They'll all just think that they're a lazy asshole who doesn't do anything.
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masticatingman
02/19/23 12:20:31 PM
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Hard to say without knowing what exactly this job is.

If this is a very technical field, just go with guy 1 and call it a day. He can be coached into being a prick.

Subordinates in a very technical field arent going to give a fuck listening to a supervisor who doesnt understand what their job is/entails.

Im speaking from experience on this. Just because somebody has power doesnt mean theyll be respected at all. You just lose workers who feel like theyre banging their heads against a wall trying to get straight answers.

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02/19/23 12:31:57 PM
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FatAnimeBooty posted...
Nobody is going to want to work for Guy #2.


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rexcrk
02/19/23 12:40:48 PM
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Guy #1. Surprised this is even a question. He obviously cares about the work. Just teach him managerial duties (if hes even interested in the position) and it should be fine.


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TheGoldenEel
02/19/23 12:41:57 PM
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If you dont promote Guy 1 youre going to lose him as an employee and piss off other people in the meantime

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Arcanine2009
02/19/23 12:44:48 PM
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Uhh can you rely on #2 based of his punctuality, being written up and him, arguing with others? A good manager also tries to get along with people.

You can coach people with managing. Does #1 actually want to manage and lead others? Maybe don't promote yet and talk with #1 about this.


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ThisIsAKnoife
02/19/23 12:45:39 PM
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Lol management skills. Quite the oxymoron.

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Norman_Smiley
02/19/23 12:45:57 PM
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How smart does a manager need to be in your organization? Most of the time is seems like someone of average intelligence can do it just fine.

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Maninstagnate
02/19/23 12:57:23 PM
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Chunky posted...
i just wanted to comment on your statement "management skills aren't hard to learn". i've seen hundreds of people get promoted, and then they don't work out as a manager for whatever reason. sometimes it's because they're too passive, or because they let their subordinates and bosses walk all over them.

If they let their subordinates walk all over them then you need to chew your middle management out for being too friendly. They should realize that they are for the company first and foremost now.

I have seen coworkers actually pay more attention and start listening to someone just because they added management to their name tag.
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CARRRNE_ASADA
02/19/23 12:57:35 PM
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#2 doesnt sound reliable though, which at the end of the day is what makes the dept thrive and accomplish goals. And also what the other people said about work morale.

Something similar happened recently in the dept I just left. This mediocre guy was chosen as team lead. Hes been in coaching plenty of times and just not an overall great employee. Just helped the supervisor in some matters. Now when people found out a lot were pissed. Enough that quite a few jumped ship. Cause why work hard enough if at the end of the day it means nothing?

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Gwynevere
02/19/23 1:00:54 PM
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Eventually guy 1 is gonna get tired of chasing the promotion and split, and other people are probably gonna be dissatisfied enough with guy 2 that they'll bounce too

Seen this exact shit at nearly every job I've worked

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cuttin_in_farm
02/19/23 1:06:04 PM
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TC, you literally have an employee that does his job well.

Why do you think he suddenly would be unable to learn a difference role? Did he not learn his current one?

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b_nolan
02/19/23 1:11:24 PM
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You'll probably regret promoting guy #2 after only a few months.

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Jiek_Fafn
02/19/23 1:18:44 PM
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Which one makes your performance better? It's that one.

You being your best conceivably means you'll make the company better. Have some faith in your skills or gtfo the way for your replacement. Promote meritocracy by subjecting yourself to those same trials.

Also, why weren't you grooming possible replacements beforehand? Lots of times you won't find out who's up to the challenge until you actually give them a shot. You should've given them a taste of their responsibilities and gone from there.

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WingsOfGood
02/19/23 1:29:10 PM
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Chunky posted...
I'm a manager and I need an assistant. There's two people I'm considering:

* Guy #1: This is the person everyone wants me to promote. He's very good at his job, has perfect metrics, never missed a day of work, always willing to do overtime, pretty much has dedicated his life to this job. However, being good at your job doesn't mean you would be good in management. He's a "yes man", he doesn't understand the hierarchy of the company or what management goes through (he only understands his own job), and he follows any orders without question. None of those are necessarily bad things, but I don't really see any management potential in him. He knows the job inside and out, and he's reliable, but that doesn't mean he would be a good manager.
* Guy #2: This person doesn't apply himself that much, but I see a LOT of management potential in him. He calls off on occasion, he sometimes argues with me and others in management, he's been written up a few times, and tbh he's really not all that great at the job. So why am I considering him? He's VERY intelligent, and he has management written all over him. He's not afraid to speak up if something is wrong, he understands what a manager is supposed to do, he has a great understanding of the hierarchy of the company. He understands that managers have metrics they have to make as well. Basically he understands more than just his own role. Although him being a pain in the ass is bad, it shows he has the balls to be a manager. He may not be that good at the job, but I think he would be an effective manager. You don't need to be good at the job in order to be a good manager.

I know my subordinates are going to be pissed when I promote guy #2 rather than guy #1, and I'm going to hear complaints like "guy #1 is such a good employee, why didn't get get the promotion" and I'm going to facepalm. But maybe I'm missing omething here. What do you guys think? Who would you promote if you were in my situation?


sounds like "has management potential" means being a sucky trash worker

basically you think guy 1 is too good because he is an actual good employee and he might I guess look better than you and we can't have that right?
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WingsOfGood
02/19/23 1:34:22 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]


Makes you wonder why this is even a thing. Could it be the previous managers were sucky at their jobs and so they look for people like them?

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Chunky
02/19/23 1:49:43 PM
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So everyone who thinks I should promote guy #1 (so basically everyone lol):

Remember in Office Space when Peter was considered over the other employees because of his management potential? Same situation here.

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Hinakuluiau
02/19/23 1:51:21 PM
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Chunky posted...
So everyone who thinks I should promote guy #1 (so basically everyone lol):

Remember in Office Space when Peter was considered over the other employees because of his management potential? Same situation here.
You've already made up your mind that you want to promote guy #2 so just do it. Don't complain when guy #1 leaves to another company that values him and the rest of your team loses respect for you and guy #2

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Funkydog
02/19/23 1:52:37 PM
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People like #2 being promoted are why people hate management and their jobs.

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Chunky
02/19/23 2:08:29 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

it would be better if i promoted someone who was a combination of guy #1 and guy #2. of course that would be better, but unfortunately i don't have anyone like that.

i agree not everyone starts of management material. sometimes you can just tell when someone will never be management material, the same way when a woman can tell she will never be with a particular guy (we all know this situation). but it's just a hunch, i could be wrong.

CARRRNE_ASADA posted...
#2 doesnt sound reliable though, which at the end of the day is what makes the dept thrive and accomplish goals. And also what the other people said about work morale.

Something similar happened recently in the dept I just left. This mediocre guy was chosen as team lead. Hes been in coaching plenty of times and just not an overall great employee. Just helped the supervisor in some matters. Now when people found out a lot were pissed. Enough that quite a few jumped ship. Cause why work hard enough if at the end of the day it means nothing?
i think some people would be upset if i promoted guy #2, yeah. but that's because a lot of people have the misguided notion that being good at your job = you should get promoted.

cuttin_in_farm posted...
TC, you literally have an employee that does his job well.
we're talking about promoting someone because of their management potential, not giving someone a raise for their hard work.

WingsOfGood posted...
sounds like "has management potential" means being a sucky trash worker

basically you think guy 1 is too good because he is an actual good employee and he might I guess look better than you and we can't have that right?
guy #1 is one piece of the puzzle
guy #2 is the other piece

if i had an employee that contained both puzzle pieces, that would be great. but unfortunately those are not the cards i've been dealt with.

Hinakuluiau posted...
You've already made up your mind that you want to promote guy #2 so just do it. Don't complain when guy #1 leaves to another company that values him and the rest of your team loses respect for you and guy #2
i would complain if guy #1 quit, and i would be upset because he's a good employee. but if he threw a temper tantrum, cried and gave up because he was turned down for a promotion one time, that tells me i made the right decision by not promoting him.

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Alexanaxela
02/19/23 2:11:03 PM
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be prepared for guy #1 to leave unless he gets a raise :D

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Enderknight17
02/19/23 2:11:32 PM
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Promote guy 1 and get rid of guy 2. Management isn't difficult from my experience. Don't ask someone to do something you're unwilling to do. Don't set unrealistic expectations. And always know you get more with sugar than salt.

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Savoots
02/19/23 2:13:46 PM
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You should fire Guy 1, he sounds like an asshole.

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cuttin_in_farm
02/19/23 2:18:30 PM
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Lmao, TC himself must be shit at his own position! Of course his responses in the topic are like this.

Dude says Guy 1 doesnt understand the hierarchy of a role hes not in. No shit. Have you tried talking to him about it?

I wouldnt expect a bank teller to know the responsibilities of a branch manager.

If youre looking for an assistant, its your responsibility to instruct them on their tasks and expectations.

TC just wants someone who already knows everything. Guy 1 is a yes-man? How do you know? Can you recall a situation in which he disagreed with something, but went along with it anyway?

Or are you assuming?

And all of this:

Jiek_Fafn posted...
Also, why weren't you grooming possible replacements beforehand? Lots of times you won't find out who's up to the challenge until you actually give them a shot. You should've given them a taste of their responsibilities and gone from there.


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Gwynevere
02/19/23 2:20:40 PM
#33:


Chunky posted...
but if he threw a temper tantrum, cried and gave up because he was turned down for a promotion one time, that tells me i made the right decision by not promoting him.
Doing what's best for your career by finding a company that promotes based on merit is not throwing a temper tantrum wtf

Sounds like he'd be better off splitting tbh

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KaZooo
02/19/23 2:23:08 PM
#34:


Guy #2 only sounds good if it was you and him on an island, with robots working under you instead of actual people who would need to put up with him.

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02/19/23 2:25:57 PM
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You should probably hire the person who worked the hardest and earned their place in moving up in the company instead of the slack off youre judging based on their personality.

This could easily turn into one of those situations where you lose a great worker because you disrespected them their commitment to the job. Why are managers like this anyways? Its bad business to not reward your best workers.

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Norman_Smiley
02/19/23 2:26:27 PM
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Guy 1 - According to you he needs to "understand the hierarchy" and "what management goes through", whatever bullshit that means. His real need then is for roll definition and expectations.

Yes man and follows orders without question. This will probably involve coaching, and maybe even require you to change your communication style with him to get the results you want. Tell him part of his job in meetings, receiving tasks, when communicating problems and solutions with you, is to be brain storming and collaboratively solving problems, not just receiving direction.

Will he be a great manager to start? Probably not. He will probably require training, coaching, and patience. But he will get there. He already has the respect of his peers, he is a hard worker, which is a trait you cannot teach to an adult, IMO. You also have a chance of him being the type of employee that fully supports you and your career growth and waits for you to vacate your position before he tries to move up.

Guy #2 doesn't apply himself in his current roll, isn't reliably at work every day, has received disciplinary action, and is underperforming. Nothing about being promoted to manager necessarily means he will correct it as a manager. In the very least, I would have a second / follow-up interview with him and bring up these issues.

The good news is he is smart. It sounds like problem solving is what he enjoys the most and is willing to argue his point with others regardless of station if he believes his position is the right one. He understands the company hierarchy, which I don't get what you mean. Like this clearly has to be more than he can read an org chart and realize who the boss of who is. Like he knows how to brown nose to the right people or what?

Unless you are prepping this guy to have a C in his title in a few years and long term you being his lieutenant, why even consider this? When I think of all the best managers I've had, none of them were particularly brilliant. They were average to above average intelligence. They understood how to do my job and were good at coaching me to grow in my roll. They saw me as a person, not just a metric. They took responsibility when I failed, they gave credit when I succeeded.

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Alexanaxela
02/19/23 2:27:40 PM
#37:


holy crap I wish I knew who guy #1 was so I could advise him to leave this crappy department XD

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Chunky
02/19/23 2:30:35 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
Lmao, TC himself must be shit at his own position! Of course his responses in the topic are like this.

Dude says Guy 1 doesnt understand the hierarchy of a role hes not in. No shit. Have you tried talking to him about it?

I wouldnt expect a bank teller to know the responsibilities of a branch manager.

If youre looking for an assistant, its your responsibility to instruct them on their tasks and expectations.

TC just wants someone who already knows everything. Guy 1 is a yes-man? How do you know? Can you recall a situation in which he disagreed with something, but went along with it anyway?

Or are you assuming?

And all of this:
No, I don't expect people to understand management roles that well...which is why i'm really impressed with guy #2.

guy #1 is a great employee, but like I mentioned he's a "yes man". i'll go over some examples:

  • a different manager was abusing his power and having his subordinates do things that were not their job. guy #1 wasn't happy with it, but he always did what he was told, never asked any questions. it was actually guy #2 that reported the issue and had the manager held accountable.
  • i like being critiqued for things. guy #2 has spoke out about some things i did wrong, which ended up being important things that i fixed, and it helped our team as a whole. guy #1 has always just listened and agreed with everything i said.
  • not sure if this counts as a "yes man" or not, but guy #1 doesn't adapt too well to change. if i have him do anything that is kinda different from his normal work, he gets stuck easily. in general he's a slow learner. some of my other employees can adapt to change much easier.
  • guy #1 in general is just very timid. no backbone. you can tell whenever you have a 1-on-1 meeting with him. he always agrees with whoever is conducting the meeting, even if he doesn't really agree.

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cuttin_in_farm
02/19/23 2:31:52 PM
#39:


This guy argues a lot! And his peers dont want him promoted! Perfect management material!

But Ill stop since it seems TC genuinely wants opinions.

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Norman_Smiley
02/19/23 2:33:08 PM
#40:


BTW, is this just an office parody? I meant to ask that already.

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TwigsthePnoDude
02/19/23 2:33:33 PM
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Speaking as a manager here, i wouldn't promote either. I would talk them both through what they need to do to become eligible for a promotion. Rather be extra busy short term than deal with a lagging manager.

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02/19/23 2:33:33 PM
#42:


Guy 2 is an asshole and would be out for your job and treat you like shit if he was above you. The whole doesnt understand management statement is complete bs. You learn management just like anyone else does. Like if you dont give these people chances then you wont know what theyre capable of. Guy 2 obviously doesnt give a shit about the job or respects you thats why he speaks up lol.

If your employees dont respect or like you then youll lose them and have a bad reputation. Check your ego and hire guy 1.

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cuttin_in_farm
02/19/23 2:36:04 PM
#43:


I will say this. I think its unbelievably unfair of TC to claim Guy 2 has bad traits that can be corrected or ignored, but wont give that charity to Guy 1.

Guy 1s problem seems wayyyy more adjustable than Guy 2s, imo.

Like, this is for an assistant position. Not the actual replacement for yourself.

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Savoots
02/19/23 2:37:36 PM
#44:


Chunky posted...
No, I don't expect people to understand management roles that well...which is why i'm really impressed with guy #2.

guy #1 is a great employee, but like I mentioned he's a "yes man". i'll go over some examples:

* a different manager was abusing his power and having his subordinates do things that were not their job. guy #1 wasn't happy with it, but he always did what he was told, never asked any questions. it was actually guy #2 that reported the issue and had the manager held accountable.
* i like being critiqued for things. guy #2 has spoke out about some things i did wrong, which ended up being important things that i fixed, and it helped our team as a whole. guy #1 has always just listened and agreed with everything i said.
* not sure if this counts as a "yes man" or not, but guy #1 doesn't adapt too well to change. if i have him do anything that is kinda different from his normal work, he gets stuck easily. in general he's a slow learner. some of my other employees can adapt to change much easier.
* guy #1 in general is just very timid. no backbone. you can tell whenever you have a 1-on-1 meeting with him. he always agrees with whoever is conducting the meeting, even if he doesn't really agree.

Tell Guy #1 to fuck off.

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Alteres
02/19/23 2:37:50 PM
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CE so easy.

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gasgpmo
02/19/23 2:38:40 PM
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Sounds like if you promote #2, he will half-ass it like he half-asses everything, and you and guy #1 will have to pick up the slack. Months from now, you will probably wish you had made #1 assistant, since he will actually do the job.
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Master_Bass
02/19/23 2:41:04 PM
#47:


Guy 1 and it isn't even close.

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SHRlKE
02/19/23 2:41:28 PM
#48:


What sort of culture are you trying to build? Its seems like p2 would promote a bad culture.
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Maninstagnate
02/19/23 2:44:06 PM
#49:


Chunky posted...
No, I don't expect people to understand management roles that well...which is why i'm really impressed with guy #2.

guy #1 is a great employee, but like I mentioned he's a "yes man". i'll go over some examples:

* a different manager was abusing his power and having his subordinates do things that were not their job. guy #1 wasn't happy with it, but he always did what he was told, never asked any questions. it was actually guy #2 that reported the issue and had the manager held accountable.
* i like being critiqued for things. guy #2 has spoke out about some things i did wrong, which ended up being important things that i fixed, and it helped our team as a whole. guy #1 has always just listened and agreed with everything i said.
* not sure if this counts as a "yes man" or not, but guy #1 doesn't adapt too well to change. if i have him do anything that is kinda different from his normal work, he gets stuck easily. in general he's a slow learner. some of my other employees can adapt to change much easier.
* guy #1 in general is just very timid. no backbone. you can tell whenever you have a 1-on-1 meeting with him. he always agrees with whoever is conducting the meeting, even if he doesn't really agree.
Guy 2 sounds like he will eventually get a hold of your balls and leave you in between a rock and a hard place.
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SHRlKE
02/19/23 2:49:54 PM
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I think its going to come down to if you think you can manage p2. It sounds like they both have their strengths and weaknesses.
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