Poll of the Day > I think my new coworker is into me

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Muscles
05/07/22 1:37:26 PM
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So this new girl started earlier this week, and on her first day my buddy (who is always trying to be my wing girl) talked to her a bit and then later told me about her and thought we would really get along. Fast forward to yesterday when I 1st met her, I was training her and we just got along great right away like my buddy predicted. She was making a lot of eye contact and standing super close, like in my personal bubble close, and at the end of the shift she gave me her number and texted me when she got home with a smiley face.

After she left I was closing with another one of my coworkers and I asked her what she thought of the trainees (we had a few trainees on) and she told me what she thought of them all then asked what I thought about my trainee. I told her the trainee was really nice and she said that it looked like we had some chemistry so asked her if she was single for me (gotta love friends that lack any subtlety).

If my coworker didn't say anything I probably would just assume she was being nice.

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DeSantis2024
05/07/22 1:58:56 PM
#2:


Thats awesome. Always be careful with office romances though. Just play it cool and see where it goes.
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rexcrk
05/07/22 2:18:38 PM
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babynames.com


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AltOmega2
05/07/22 2:36:45 PM
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Every female coworker it mine is madly in love with me.
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wwinterj25
05/07/22 11:43:04 PM
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Man even I'm not this naive. Just see how it goes but don't be a doormat. She probably is just being nice.

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SunWuKung420
05/08/22 12:21:19 AM
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I'm not saying she isn't, hopefully she is, but assumptions and second hand opinions aren't solid proof.

Has she texted since?

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Muscles
05/08/22 12:35:43 AM
#7:


SunWuKung420 posted...
I'm not saying she isn't, hopefully she is, but assumptions and second hand opinions aren't solid proof.

Has she texted since?
Yep, texted me when she got home despite not asking her to, even put a smiley face in it

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DevilSummoner1
05/08/22 12:44:05 AM
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oh boy, here we go again
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wolfy42
05/08/22 12:56:09 AM
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Muscles posted...
Yep, texted me when she got home despite not asking her to, even put a smiley face in it

Oh shit.

I put a smiley face on most of my texts.....to both genders.

Does that mean something I didn't know it means?

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Muscles
05/08/22 1:13:59 AM
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DevilSummoner1 posted...
oh boy, here we go again
I still have a feeling she'll want to be just friends so that's the expectation

wolfy42 posted...
Oh shit.

I put a smiley face on most of my texts.....to both genders.

Does that mean something I didn't know it means?
I never get them from anyone so I thought it, combined with the other things meant something, if a buddy (of either gender) sent that it would be different

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Firewood18
05/08/22 2:17:48 AM
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Maybe shes just gonna be another good buddy.

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Cacciato
05/08/22 2:56:41 AM
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DevilSummoner1 posted...
oh boy, here we go again
Lmao
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Muscles
05/08/22 2:58:06 AM
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Firewood18 posted...
Maybe shes just gonna be another good buddy.
That's what I keep telling myself, don't want to have any unrealistic expectations

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Grinderpug
05/08/22 3:07:59 AM
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Drop a few hints. I got myself in a pickle once being a little too nice apparently. One of the floor managers at the casino seemed to develop a crush. We were chatting once and I mentioned I had free tickets to a concert and she basically invited herself. Start slow with a couple conversations like that.

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Muscles
05/08/22 6:23:13 PM
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Grinderpug posted...
Drop a few hints. I got myself in a pickle once being a little too nice apparently. One of the floor managers at the casino seemed to develop a crush. We were chatting once and I mentioned I had free tickets to a concert and she basically invited herself. Start slow with a couple conversations like that.
I dropped one on accident, she was talking about how she wonders what people think about her when they look at her and I said "probably wow, her eyes are beautiful" out loud when I was thinking it and she said she wished they did but doubts it and I said that's the 1st thing I thought

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Mensis
05/08/22 6:49:22 PM
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fucking cringe bro

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DevilSummoner1
05/08/22 7:20:26 PM
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Mensis posted...
fucking cringe bro

lmao
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Blightzkrieg
05/08/22 7:25:08 PM
#19:


Classic Muscles

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Grinderpug
05/08/22 7:30:39 PM
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Muscles posted...
I dropped one on accident, she was talking about how she wonders what people think about her when they look at her and I said "probably wow, her eyes are beautiful" out loud when I was thinking it and she said she wished they did but doubts it and I said that's the 1st thing I thought

Mensis posted...
fucking cringe bro
LOL I thought that was a sweet line! Im cringe as fuck too though heh

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teddy241
05/08/22 7:50:02 PM
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New people always put on a show. Talk to me 6 months later and chances are she aint that into you
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IronBornCorps
05/08/22 10:00:53 PM
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Muscles posted...
I dropped one on accident, she was talking about how she wonders what people think about her when they look at her and I said "probably wow, her eyes are beautiful" out loud when I was thinking it and she said she wished they did but doubts it and I said that's the 1st thing I thought

What was her reaction when you said that?
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Revelation34
05/09/22 1:07:17 AM
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Muscles posted...

I dropped one on accident, she was talking about how she wonders what people think about her when they look at her and I said "probably wow, her eyes are beautiful" out loud when I was thinking it and she said she wished they did but doubts it and I said that's the 1st thing I thought


You did it on purpose.

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Smoking_Hamster
05/09/22 3:59:27 AM
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teddy241 posted...
New people always put on a show. Talk to me 6 months later and chances are she aint that into you

This is so true. So many times I think "wow this new starter is so polite and hard working" then when their probation period ends it's a dramatic transformation in personality.
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Muscles
05/09/22 11:35:20 AM
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Mensis posted...
fucking cringe bro
Still got her number

teddy241 posted...
New people always put on a show. Talk to me 6 months later and chances are she aint that into you
That's true, had new trainees get lazy as shit once they were off training many times

Revelation34 posted...
You did it on purpose.
The 1st one just slipped out. The 2nd one was on purpose because I figured the genie was out of the bottle might as well follow through instead of back pedaling

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Muscles
05/09/22 11:36:39 AM
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IronBornCorps posted...
What was her reaction when you said that?
She blushed a little and looked down to the 1st part, I turned away after saying the 2nd part because I had something to do

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Revelation34
05/09/22 11:57:33 AM
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Muscles posted...

Still got her number

That's true, had new trainees get lazy as shit once they were off training many times

The 1st one just slipped out. The 2nd one was on purpose because I figured the genie was out of the bottle might as well follow through instead of back pedaling


Wait what second one?

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Mensis
05/09/22 12:03:29 PM
#29:


Getting your trainees phone number doesnt mean anything. Actually your comments are really inappropriate under this circumstance

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Sarcasthma
05/09/22 12:12:37 PM
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Yeah, you gotta be careful about hitting on an employee like that. Especially one who's your subordinate.

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Muscles
05/09/22 1:30:15 PM
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Revelation34 posted...
Wait what second one?
The 2nd part of that interaction, "that's what I thought when I saw you"

Also, Sarcasthma, she's not my subordinate, we train within our position, not from above the position

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Grinderpug
05/09/22 6:12:23 PM
#32:


Hes not above heryet.

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Jesserae
05/09/22 7:00:20 PM
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Women love assertive men as long as they aren't ugly, so if you ain't an uggo got for it, you've only got your job to lose lol.

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Cacciato
05/09/22 7:21:58 PM
#34:


Good for you man. The 64th times the charm.
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Revelation34
05/10/22 5:32:41 AM
#35:


Mensis posted...
Getting your trainees phone number doesnt mean anything. Actually your comments are really inappropriate under this circumstance


It's only inappropriate if it's a member of management doing it.

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Muscles
05/11/22 4:06:55 PM
#36:


Cacciato posted...
Good for you man. The 64th times the charm.
I mean, that's how numbers games work so yeah, eventually nth time is the charm

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Revelation34
05/12/22 12:48:01 AM
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Muscles posted...

I mean, that's how numbers games work so yeah, eventually nth time is the charm


Gambler's fallacy.

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BlackScythe0
05/12/22 1:27:32 AM
#38:


I've always wondered if Muscles is actually as creepy as he portrays himself here or if it's just a character he plays.
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Muscles
05/12/22 1:30:36 AM
#39:


BlackScythe0 posted...
I've always wondered if Muscles is actually as creepy as he portrays himself here or if it's just a character he plays.
This place gets the worst of me, like all the parts I don't show to actual people

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Revelation34
05/12/22 1:33:44 AM
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BlackScythe0 posted...
I've always wondered if Muscles is actually as creepy as he portrays himself here or if it's just a character he plays.


Compliments are always creepy.

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Metalsonic66
05/12/22 2:07:27 AM
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She wants the D

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VampireCoyote
05/12/22 3:05:55 AM
#42:


I would never text a coworker for any reason.

So yeah its probably love.

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DeSantis2024
05/12/22 8:48:18 AM
#43:


Congratulations on getting her number. Keep playing it smooth like you have been and see where it goes.
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Muscles
05/12/22 1:16:46 PM
#44:


Metalsonic66 posted...
She wants the D
I doubt that

VampireCoyote posted...
I would never text a coworker for any reason.

So yeah its probably love.
Well I (and a few coworkers) think she's into me but some initial interest isn't love

DeSantis2024 posted...
Congratulations on getting her number. Keep playing it smooth like you have been and see where it goes.
It's hard because I'm not used to being smooth but I feel like I'm already being more smooth than I usually am with girls I'm interested in so we'll see if I can keep it up

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Muscles
05/14/22 2:38:32 PM
#45:


She followed me around like a puppy yesterday, despite being off training and then we chilled for a bit and smoked after work. Having all of someone's attention is pretty nice.

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VampireCoyote
05/14/22 2:39:47 PM
#46:


So you havent banged her???

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Muscles
05/14/22 2:46:05 PM
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VampireCoyote posted...
So you havent banged her???
I keep being told to take it slow, so I haven't even tried to go on a date yet

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VampireCoyote
05/14/22 3:08:09 PM
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Take it too slow, that girl gonna go. -Mace Windu

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Mensis
05/14/22 4:28:23 PM
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Its a trap! -Captain Picard

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Muscles
05/14/22 10:59:24 PM
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VampireCoyote posted...
Take it too slow, that girl gonna go. -Mace Windu
I know that all too well, I either go too fast and freak them out or go too slow and get friendzoned (nothing wrong with that, I have some great friends that I made that way)

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There's a lot of things I would do to her if she let me and that's not 1 of them

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